Aqua Tests

Everyone keeps talking about Aqua's testing...In case I ever get attracted to one again can you tell me the details- examples? I guess Im hoping if you can say how long or what stage in your dating the test happened- what they did- how often they pulled away and how they come back it may help all of us to feel more sane! Or at least know how to deal with it right...

Im going to get a complex...if no one responds......LOL

😢 ok...good nite..I am actually bored though.. got home cant sleep.

jolana i am saying this in the most non-offensive way possible that the topic has just been overdone.

your right.. I just keep hearing the word test.. but no one says john slammed the door and then stood on his head.. its always generic..and I dont have myself convinced that its an Aqua thing as much as a player thing.. so I was just curious. This whole site is about personal issues.. and astrology.. I think that makes it likely that everything will be repeated in a way...just my opinion..

yes, absolutely. it's nothing against you, i'm relatively new here too and i'm sure i've done too many repeat topics. and that's exactly why i'm telling you now why i think people aren't really responding, because i would have liked someone to tell me rather than just have no one post 😛.

there's still the possibility that someone will see this and have something to offer though. i don't have experience with dating aquarians.

ok... then if we dont talk about tests.. and we dont want to repeat topics.. umm what should we go for- what is the one topic about Aquas that no one has ever asked..? By the way if you were going to join a dating site.. which one do you think is best? now thats a new question for the aquarius folder!

no I just got played twice within two weeks.. Im asking so that anything I find out people had done my antenna will be watching for when I find a new guy..Not looking to play looking to prevent being played.. some of these people seem pretty smart and yet they are in love and put up with it.. Im trying to see what they experienced so my mind will watch out for it. but its ok.. dont have to discuss it.. just like I said I was bored and you know...

your probably right. had a year long relationship- got a dear john email.. took it gracefully no anger. three weeks later person called and said they didnt break up but basically then did on the phone. I probably do play games probably everyone does and you dont have to believe it.. All I did this time was care about the person. Still took it without getting mean..and its done. But that does make you curious as to what to watch for.. if you want to dump it at me that Im playing games that would be typical for a guy to assume.. that plays games himself.. if I follow your previous logic.. right? so we are all guilty..

maybe its just a commit phob issue.. maybe test is the wrong word..

I am an aqua female and I wouldn't call it a test per se. I do try to figure out if someone is good for me or not with asking straight forward probing questions. Or I might watch to see how someone reacts to something. But I do this with everyone on some level. But the funny thing is that with friends I feel no pressure, so I'm generally easy going. But with a guy, my opinions get sharper around the edges and it has alot to do with not understanding my own attraction to the guy.

I like how unusualcancer says to lie dead for a while for the aqua man to probe around. I think it's true for the aqua woman when confronted with the idea that she's physically attracted to someone. I need to make sure that there is intellectual compatibility to join the physical attraction. So it's like a duel nature fighting... the head, the body and the heart all have to get together to figure it out and that takes a little time. I can very easily decide a guy I like intellectually has no physical attributes that I want and I can very easily say that it's just a sex thing when it comes to physically desiring a guy.

So the test of another person really has to do with the inner decision making process. I am not someone whose heart decides first and the rest follow. I had to learn to listen to my heart instead of just my brain and sometimes I can drown out my heart with overanalyzing a situation.