How To Attract Aquarius?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by kilusha on Wednesday, December 27, 2006 and has 55 replies.

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@Reiniba-Chan
19 Years500+ Posts

open to talk
smile
very confident
charming
Independent
good head on your shoulders
DO not be boring!!
if you are a man with all the qualities above we will get weak in the knees : P

if not any of that, just be yourself

: P

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@MellowDee
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Haha! That was a joke. Sorry I couldn't resist.

Well actually that's made me think of a quality that attracts me anyway as an aquarian lady: a well tuned sense of humour.

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@MellowDee
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Apropos of what I just said, namely:

"Well actually that's made me think of a quality that attracts me anyway as an aquarian lady: a well tuned sense of humour."

None of ye need to worry about me having the hots for you anyway πŸ˜›

Hehehehe joke numero 2

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@Reiniba-Chan
19 Years500+ Posts

I wonder why we attract aquas seriously though Leos must be the second stupidest sign after the cancers oh well .

I'm sorry but there is not ONE leo not ONE that I've met that was not handsome. And then on top of that your perspective is fun, new, and interesting. may not be a book worm..but it's not about the books...if you have natural reasoning abilities then that's even better. ^_~

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@MellowDee
21 Years1,000+ Posts

I hafta say I was watching Antonio Banderas in Interview With the Vampire and let's just say I wouldn't mind if he took a slurp outta my neck anyway.

And Robert De Niro! He just gets better with age. He has been one of my most enduring crushes. I think he's gorgeous, attitude and looks all in one!

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@MellowDee
21 Years1,000+ Posts

It's unseasonably warm over on this side of the Atlantic in Dublin. It's so mild that it oculd nearly pass for warm. Anyway I find that it gets colder in JAnuray February and March, the months before that being a good bit milder.

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@AquaCat
19 Years

"I wonder why we attract aquas seriously though Leos must be the second stupidest sign after the cancers oh well."

?? One of my best guy friends is a Leo, and he has degrees in medicine and engineering.

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@AquaCat
19 Years

"Lol i know i know leos are very smart bunch its my own sign why would i insult them they are a awesome group obviously i was being sarcastic aqua cat."

Got it. πŸ™‚

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@moonchild8
20 Years1,000+ Posts

idk...all the leo men i know are super possesive and super jealous and a little on the psycho side...i would never be able to deal with that in a relationship...but, that's just me.

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@moonchild8
20 Years1,000+ Posts

kris...i don't know you personally, so it is not against you in any way...these are my obervances from the leo men i know...
i am a cancer, and as far as you know, we are just the joke of the zodiac...but you don't know me in real life...i could be a really amazing person...
so, you can't judge someone on their sign...not everyone is the same

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@tiki33
19 Years10,000+ Posts

Kris:lol yeah we say that a lot but 90 percent of the time its bs lol

whew, now I can take off my running shoes lol!!

Starfish: Next life time you will switch signs..The sign that you dogged the most will be the sign you will be born under next life time..Think about it..

now that's deep...thank God i'ma good girl (:

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@Aqua-DoOdle
19 Years

BE YOURSELF.

dumb advice maybe to you,but if you are just yourself and someone likes you (regardless of their sign) it is something good.

if you have to change yourself or bring out other qualities in attempt to attract someone, forget it. you probably arent right for them.

shanks...

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@Wings
19 Years

The key, as I see it, for attracting an Aquarius is quite simple.

Learn to like them for them and not for anything they can give you. Try and simply enjoy time with them without being preoccupied about being loved or loving back, being GF/BF, husband/wife, owned/owner, etc.

We Aquarians are not objects to be owned, we are individuals with our own aims and loves and we don't need people who want to cling to us for emotional validation, ownership or being owned. We want independant "individuals" in our lives.

In my opinion, the moment you have to ask "What can I do to make this Aquarius notice me?" , "Why doesn't he or she meet my needs?" You have already started to look at things the wrong way with us.

Atleast, this is the mindset of my GF (Also an Aquarius) and I. So it may not be completely accurate, but I believe it's pretty close.

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@Wings
19 Years

unusualcancer is quite right here, along with my relationship, we're both Aquarius, and many other Aquarians I've talked to, having atleast some common interests and projects to complete together has a way of linking us with that other person.

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@Me2u4ever
19 Years

Be her friend. Don't try to woe with gifts, I would get scared. But make her feel special. Make it a point to say Hi! and ask how she is doing. See the special brain in her,(is most likely darn good with computers she will marvel you will all her experiences and knowledge, and share you brainpower I know it turns me on Be consistently yourself, she hates peacock strutters. I think a man is most charming when he is all that but acts like he doesnt know it /humble enough to stay grounded. Personally speaking, I like to make the first move. Don't lie EVER she will catch you and loose perspective in you. I think we look for men that can be our equal, who can treat us, like us the way they want, everything mutual, and i think we want everything fair, we cannot think our man to be a dog in heat. I hope this jibber helps. Its how I a wooed.

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@eliza0012
21 Years5,000+ PostsAquarius

Don't listen to her. If an Aquarian woman already likes you, there is little you would have to do to convince her. Just say, "I ,like you" and it should all fall in place.

I totally agree with brandon... if an aqua already likes ya then theres nothing much to do... be urself and if we think ur cool then nothing can change that...we overlook all flaws if we like someone πŸ™‚

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@Igotired
19 YearsSagittarius

I am currently involved with an aqua male, (I am a Sag)I guess some characteristics gotta be general? My aqui likes to have someone to care for him but at the same time he knows I could leave him anytime so that makes things interesting for him, he likes someone stronger than him, someone outgoing, someone to take charge when needed. My Aqui is shy and so I guess that is why I come into the picture, to represent and to do and push him when he needs the pushing.... Then again this is my first time with an Aquarian.
He also dislikes boring things or boring people, he is superficial but he can be very deep and intelectual. He is very intelligent but doesn't care to prove anything to anyone, oh! he also thinks he is better than anyone else (not sure if that is just him being arrogant) He has excellent taste and appreciates someone with elegance and taste too. He spends a lot of time in a shell, I have to help him out get out of it sometimes, sometimes he just loves being there. Has low tolerance for idiots and has high expectations. He does not show his feelings, not sure why. He has a hard time expressing himself verbally when it comes down to love, but he shows me his love in other ways like fixing my car or helping with the chores around the house.
He is a great listener and pays attention to detail.

Hope this helps

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@badassGEM
19 Years

I am currently involved with an aqua male, (I am a Sag)I guess some characteristics gotta be general? My aqui likes to have someone to care for him but at the same time he knows I could leave him anytime so that makes things interesting for him, he likes someone stronger than him, someone outgoing, someone to take charge when needed. My Aqui is shy and so I guess that is why I come into the picture, to represent and to do and push him when he needs the pushing.... Then again this is my first time with an Aquarian.
He also dislikes boring things or boring people, he is superficial but he can be very deep and intelectual. He is very intelligent but doesn't care to prove anything to anyone, oh! he also thinks he is better than anyone else (not sure if that is just him being arrogant) He has excellent taste and appreciates someone with elegance and taste too. He spends a lot of time in a shell, I have to help him out get out of it sometimes, sometimes he just loves being there. Has low tolerance for idiots and has high expectations. He does not show his feelings, not sure why. He has a hard time expressing himself verbally when it comes down to love, but he shows me his love in other ways like fixing my car or helping with the chores around the house.
He is a great listener and pays attention to detail.

Hope this helps

Sure your guy is not a Cancer? He sure sounds like one. Maybe that is why I'm not attracted to Aquarians even thought My Mars says that's what I should be with one.

BAGem

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

We aren't that shallow..personality counts more than looks. (but if we arent physically attracted to you you go straight to the friend zone.)

BEING FUNNY=INTERESTING..ALWAYS A PLUS!

I see DXP's got spell check now...

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Speaking as an AQUARIOUS Woman, I know the secrets to attracting an Aquarian. First off, Aquarians are very independent & always attract those who can prove equal to them. Their main turn on is communication. They spend so much time trying to get to know you, it would make them feel on top of the world if you actually took some time to ask them questions & make it clear that you are interested in them. Even though they are rebels, Aquarian women hate confusion. The best way to get their attention and actually KEEP their attention is to be sincere and honest in everything that you say. They are very analytical and very investigative so it's in your best interest to be honest, b/c if not, they WILL find out & cut you off for good. Aquarians love things that are very attractive to the eye. If you're cute, sexy and hot, you've already got their attention but they are not dull or close-minded so make sure you don't expect for your looks to get you in the door. They love long conversations, love to express their opinions & be asked questions that open up their intellectual side. But it's very important that when they're talking, you LISTEN. Don't try to pin them down or force anything on Aquarian women, they love love & love to cuddle and the aspect of being praised, but don't like it when appraisal is forced.

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@LoveAstrology
18 Years

The most important thing from a lot of experience with Aquarius people, is to be yourself. They don't like it if they can sense your trying too hard. They respect people who are being exactly who they are. And that is all the better if it includes being a little quirky, they really love oddities (luckily for me, am a Gemini!)

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Here are some Tips on attracting an Aquarian:::::::::::::::::::

1. Dominate the conversations with her. She loves someone who can connect with her on an intellectual level. Ask her questions about herself, what her dreams are, what she's looking for in life. Once, you get her to open up, she'll be in her comfort zone. Just make sure that you respond to alot of what she's saying, let her know you're listening & make sure it's not just all her talking.

2. Show her that you are not just interested, but VERY interested in her. Ask her what she likes to do in her spare time, ask her what her pet peeves are, tell a few jokes, MAKE HER LAUGH (the most important). When she shares an experience with you, try to think about a similar experience you've had like hers & share it with her so she'll feel you're on the same page with her.

3. DO NOT be too touchy, feely when you're around her. Aquarians are affectionate but don't really like to be smothered. Give her her space. Try not to sit TOO close to her when around her, and make sure when in person with her you're looking at her face to face in her eyes.

4. Dress nicely when being around her. Show her that you have style & make sure you appeal to all of her senses. Smell nicely, dress nicely, talk to her with your intellectual side & NEVER show any lack in confidence around her. Aquarians find beauty in things that appeal to their senses. Connecting with her on an intellectual & conversative level will DEFINETELY get you in the door, but it's also important that she likes your physique too because once she's physically attracted to you, she'll always be even when the conversations get boring and dry.

Hope I helped πŸ™‚

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@Mamaquilla
18 YearsAquarius

"How To Attract Aquarius?"

Be a Leo, Sagittarius or Gemini, with a high capacity for abstract thought and a killer sense of humour.

oh, and own a pair of edible panties...

mmmmm.......edible panties (invokes the spirit of Homer Jay)

I'm sorry, that made me laugh, but did repulse me on a level (no offense to the person that wrote it) Just saying- Aquarians are quite variable in their tastes- like all women πŸ˜‰ There just isn't a universal attraction factor based on sun sign....or it could just be I have natural distaste for Gemini that caused that reaction, if I'm going to be honest about it.

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@shishno
18 Years

How to attract Aquarius you say?

Hmm. all you have to say is..

How You Doin.. Wanna date this must be fate. I don't hate but if I get dissed I'll just masturbate.. what you say? Yea I like to paint too. (random)

or..

YoYoyOyyoOYyoyoyoyo. I got a foot long king ding dong. Its so big hearts me.. I can swing you up into a tree and build a tree house with just you and me. Ok that's all I can think of..

Good luck. this'll get you an Aquarius girl for SURE.

Tell her that you'd like to do the motor boat with her boobs.. ANd then show her how you'd do it.

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@shishno
18 Years

I dunno........ I'm just a cancer. Trying to make the world a more politically correct place to live. What do I know about teh Aquarius... The real question is... HOW CAN YOUUUU attract the Aquarius girl? Just be yourself? btw for those who may take my last post seriously WoW.. WOoooOw. i'm sorry =0 ok that's it. As for me I get along just fine with Aquarius my 2 best friend since grade school are Aquarius. tho I'm Libra moon with Gemini ascendant... Tho I get mistaken a lot as a leo.. muhahahaha

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

How do you attact an Aqua? Good Conversation. Nuff' said. Show enough of your intellectual side (Let us IN on WHO YOU ARE) but don't give us Too much. When we're talking to you, listen (look us in the eyes to let us know you're listening) & give us the right feedback (not repeating what we just said or shaking your head 'yes" at everything we say, but being yourself & letting us see clearly through your thought processes). Don't be TOO affectionate at first but don't be too distant. Be spontaneous & fun when the conversation ends. Ask us questions about ourselves & about things that you really want to know about us (that you'd normally be afraid to ask). The more you get us to talk & reveal ourselves, the more you know you're on the right track.

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