Adult Aqua females crying

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by flex on Tuesday, January 16, 2007 and has 21 replies.

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@flex
20 Years

are their many crying in front of friends/loved ones? i would have thought Aquas are good in controlling their emotions.

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@ladyvie
19 Years

yes and no. I try to control my emotions and have my little breakdown in private. But sometimes someone can make me cry when I'm being oversensitive or something, and I can't hide how upset I'm getting.

Most of the time though I can control the upset long enough to walk away. And I have to remind myself that I'll be fine, that crying is stupid and only makes things worst, etc. Then when I'm calm, it's cool and we can talk like old friends again.

Everyone has a breaking point. But I get over things super fast.

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@Reiniba-Chan
19 Years500+ Posts

lol. Yeah. I've done it too but I never did it because I had an issue with myself. It was always because I had an issue with other human beings. Hence refering to them as objects that are unreasonable 99.9% of the time. Just read my prof.

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@ladyvie
19 Years

I have always wondered why astrology makes aqua chicks the stoic emotionaless types who would never cry. We might not express ourselves with the heart on the sleeves and throw a pity party for very long when upset, but we all have emotions.

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@VIRGOEXALTED
20 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Wow, crying and Aqua.....the connection is what? lol I've never known them to be the type to cry becuase they tell me 'I don't take it too seriously'....cool...so you ARE humans....lol this stoic, emotionless person sounds like virgo.....I tend not to reveal personal feelings to easily.

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@VIRGOEXALTED
20 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

hey ladyvie,

'life's a personality contest.....glad I'm not part of it!' lol 😉

I make my OWN cool. You guys are at least talked about as 'experimental' 'open minded'..ect....now take Virgo....*blinks widely* oh yeah....where SHY! lol rediculous!!! lol

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@sherob
19 Years

I am an Aquarian, and I always wear my heart on my sleeve, but very rarely cry. The only time i do cry, is when i am really angry and i need a release. I think that is due to my Aries Moon. Otherwise, i am very detached from my emotions and can talk things through.

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@ladyvie
19 Years

Word on the consoling thing... it feels wierd when someone wants to make me feel better instead of simply distracting me!

I've been thinking about this and I'm more sensitive when my emotions are involved. I can't say that sensitive is the same as passionate. But when the heart is involved and I want to please or do go and I get shot down... it can make me cry because I'm overly sensitive. I hide it often enough and it's not the same as emotional because I can rationalize the feeling away. But yeah hurting my sensitive spirit can make me cry.

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@VIRGOEXALTED
20 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

aquaaqi:No, I don't cry in front of people.
And I hate being consoled. makes me feel weird

my soul mate....I share in your dilemma....I hate crying in front of people or having them tell me 'it's okay, it's alright' bull; save it for another; I appreciate you showing sympathy but I don't need it. I cry and scream all lonesome....I've been harased, and pretty much picked on by my father for this (although I wasn't an emotional person anywho, or at least one to show them) my moon is in cancer, so I do have a softer side, but only to myself. I logically fix the situation untill my emotions are no longer apart of it.

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@Reiniba-Chan
19 Years500+ Posts

I don't cry in front of people. I've only cried in front of my parents or people dearest to me, since they're suppose to be the ones who really care for me.
And I'm definately not stuck up in myself to the point that I can't show emotion..as if I've got it all figured out.

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@VIRGOEXALTED
20 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

If someone cathes me cry though...well we don't SPEAK about the ones who catches VE crying.....

*VE puts finger to mouth in a 'shhh' manner as he directs dxp to his portal of woe-filled souls.....*

Lol!! My sense of humor is too good to ever waste tyme crying! I laugh at life even when I'm down in the dumps! Yeah!