Aqua women....question..

Hello again. Well i have a friend who enjoys the whole star sign thing. One thing between us we can not suss is aqua women. Now i posted the other day and thank you for your help ppl..so here goes. An aqua told me about a week ago she is attracted to me... though this was after we broke up. I only text her today to apologise for being a little thoughtless when it came to her feelings and to ask to remain friends. I know she cares..but so far no response. I see aquas dont often like to talk about their feelings so i guess for her to tell me she still likes me after we split..was big for her. How will i know if she still cares ?thank you in advance

In answer to 2. If i did not i would not have posted. To 1.. why should anybody else need to know the answer or advice to their questions. To you 3..why would you need to say anything at all unless it is in any way helpfull

Is this a new aqua? Sorry but your question didn't make much sense to me.

She told you about her feelings last week? After you broke up? Did your post from last time all happen within a space of a day or two or something because it honestly doesn't make any sense to me. Unless during the 3 months she never once said she found you attractive until she broke it off with you. Sorry but I can't make heads of it.

Also on some level no us Aquas don't like sharing our feelings often but don't mistake that for anything deeper, it depends on the context of the situation.

Regardless however, the ball is still in her court so unless she tells you directly you will never know how she feel. If she does tell you but doesn't act on it, you can't force it on her either. Let it go.

Sounds like games to me, on your part. You want her to keep telling you over and over that she is attracted to you, after a break up? She said it to you once, you broke up, it's up to you to tell her how you feel if you want it to move forward.

Aqua species..thank u. No not at all no games here i just dont know how aquascwork. All i have said now is that im aware sges met someone else..im fine with it as ive moved on too and that id like to remain friends...same as she has with other exs of which she ended with on bad terms..we ended on good terms. Well her reply to me moving on was that there is not someone new for her..but that it makes her laugh that ive moved on so quick..and that she doesnt want to be friends.that i can do one. Hmm i think shes mistaken moving on for the idea that im dating someone new..im not. Im just stuck now as she left but seems non too pleased..im just confused. I know aquas need space and some ppl say when u do as they ask and move on they blow up your phone...as one aqua put it..they need toilet training...she did come and go alot..always over very small things..i dodnt cheat or lie.

Thaicat, I am confused. Do you like her and you want her back? What is it you WANT exactly from this relationship? What you say here is very confusing.

Yeah i guess i do want her.. and im not sure if i should give her space or to tell her im not with someone else. I dont want to tell her how i feel she already knows. But i can not read aquas or know how best to respond as its almost as if aquas care more one u move on.

If she cared about you then, she still does now. The fact that you were seeing someone else made her want to move on. Now that you are not seeing anyone else, let her know but don't expect her to come out with talking about how she feels about you. You say she knows how you feel about her. It might not make any sense to her as you had another girlfriend. So be single, make yourself available, be in the "friend" zone and when the time is right, kiss her 🙂

Hey aqua girl 🙂

I have confused you I see Lol. I sent her a message last night saying I had heard shed moved on since we spilt a short time ago, and I said I have moved on too (in my head I meant). We didnt split through me cheating, it was more because she kept leaving me and I eventually became insecure and smothered her.

Shed leave because people would comment on my looks and I wouldnt ask them not to..simply because I wanted her to trust me. It was small silly things, I didnt lie or cheat. She has in the past been hit, lied to, dumped and denied by partners and is an angry aqua because of this.

She said she left because it was too emotional for her, she did however say she had treated me badly considering I did so much to be with her and put up with her coming and going. I simply caved in to my heart last night and text her and she replied first thing early this morning saying she was not seeing anyone and that it was laughable that I had moved on to another girl so quick..as I say..I havent I think she just read the text wrong..but she simply wrote:

Haha you crack me up- for someone who aint been in a r-ship for 6 years jump in and out of them pretty quick! No i aint seeing someone. I dont want to be your friend. U can do one 🙂

I sent my text at 12am so for an aqua that has stopped contacting me I was shocked to receive this text at 730 am! It just sounds angry to me...As you say..maybe because she has assumed I am now seeing someone. But Im just stuck now..I dont know what to. I have since replied saying im not seeing anyone. Im lost because I do want her back...we were fine together..she just kept not trusting me :/
and said too much has gone on..actually nothing has gone on really shes just insecure( this is what she said a week ago)

Thank you in advance aqua .You are helping me to understand a lot more about aquas. PS i did try to kiss her last week..she wouldnt have it...she just told me she still likes me..but that we cant be together.

OK, it's clear as mud now, thanks. So you tried to kiss her last week and she didn't want? She doesn't want to go there with you right now for whatever reason. Give her time and don't contact her for awhile. See how that goes. I know it sucks, what sign are you?

Im a libra 🙂

Though an older Libra Im 34 now and have found with age I have got better. Although self absorbed we try to be loving and passionate and happy - not because we are fake. I genuinely like to help others and especially animals like my aqua does. Maybe my romance and constant contact smothered her but I dont know just how long to leave it with an Aqua 😢 I wanted to marry her. Well she wanted that too but then all her intense love backed off and she began to think she couldnt trust me. I have little ideas why. For a libra- space is a few days. For an aqua -space is ? Do I wait to hear or just send her a text in a week ? 🙂 Thankyou again aqua. Sorry for muddying the waters.

Im so sorry miha.. i must have understood you wrong 😢 i apologise. Umm she told me that it was over you see im not sure why shes said its too much emotionally..she is attracted to me and cares for me but thats too much has gone on. Nothing much has gone on she just kept leaving me and coming back. I still care for her but when i stopped contacting her it was cos she said we cudnt sort it out.. so 5 days after i saw her llast i got weak and text her . In my post i have included what she said..i just cant tell if shes missin me or if shel b back...i couldnt judge her text... 🙂

Miha. Thank you so much . I really appreciate your help. Weve a 9 year age difference. I never knew at first we just got along so well. It just seems when she knows how i feel she takes it and knows shes in control. However when i hold back she seems to be more excited. I know she hates repitition she enjoys mixing it up. We had a short chat about her work this morning. I took bull by the horns and text her. Im frightened shes gettin to know someone else..but too scared to ask as ive asked her not long ago. I dont want to smother her again. She admits she loves her space and friends..

Oh i also am not sure what shes hurt over..she doesnt like expressing her feelings..i know i didnt cheat or lie. What i do know is she feels too much has gone on to work it out..except whats gone on is only her insecurities.. her backing off made me feel shed lost interest so i backed off..then shed get funny. Shed say she had no time to see me so id arrange other stuff and low and behold..shed make time. If i didnt turn up to whatever time she made. Shed hit the roof and leave me.. i just never knew if ii was coming or going.