This aqua i work with isnt clear! Help!

While i know typical aqua male characteristics is that hes independent, friendly with everyone, likes intelligent women, random, can come across as indifferent and unemotional

This aqua coworker confuses me! We've always got along well in this weird comfortable they must be dating sorta way such as

At company potlucks he will say his dish was brought by him and i even though i brought my own and never talked to him about the potluck. Also, he acts territorial when it comes to me yet if its mentioned he will give some work policy reason y he did what he did yet doesnt act that way eith ither coworkers. He goes overboard with jokes with anyone and is tAlkative but doesnt joke like that with me. His is more flirty. Hes been known to be subtly touchy with me but not anyone else. Ppl said before yhat when i was mia they noticed he was pacing around and seemed antsy yet hes never acted that way before. I have more examples but i guess idk if hes uner comfortable or likes me

I figure im probably imagining things cause it says for aquas if they like you theyll tell you but yet he seems awfully protective so idk i really wanna date him.

I think he likes you, probably trying to decide if its just as friends or more. Give it time and don't push it along. Aquas can move really slow.

I'm starting to think somewhere in my chart the virgo is screaming out.

What I can say is we can be good at personalising friendship experiences. As commercial as that sounds. We're good in a social setting with groups of people but we also know how to make people special especially ones who we've deemed 'appropriate' for a better friendship.

As for "uner" comfortable I'm having a hard time deciphering what that meant. Can I just say Aquas like a lot of people and it's just a like and it'll stay JUST a like if he hasn't acted on it yet. Try not to question why or get too far ahead of yourself.

My scorp ex asked me out of the blew, when your ready to ask me out the answer is yes. Crazy direct at a work place but she was right i LIKED her. Timing was off, so doomed from the start but she was a wickedly awesome gal.

This is to everyone who answered above.

As stated by Aquasnoz, I do know that aquas have this innate nature to treat everyone special but I see how he treats everyone but I do know from what I seen and my office is 2 feet from his (he was the one that wanted me to have that office) so I can hear him socializing with anyone that's in our department since I'm always nearby becuase of the proximity of our offices.

He socializes with EVERYONE. Even with people he hates...but its always the same thing. He'll tease them in this overdone / fake sort of way. He'll make comments like "NICE OF YOU TO SHOW UP" if they got into work late....or he'll say "THANKS FOR NOTHING!" or he'll say "TRAITOR" or "YOU CANT OPEN THAT DOOR FAST ENOUGH!" to pick on them and he's like that with everyone.

But with me...he's never ever done that to me. With me he's touchy feely (is subtle and random about it - like he'll do it for days then stop for weeks then start up with the touching again), the way he talks to me and acts around me comes across as a territorial or protective type of behavior or this psuedo old married couple sort of thing.

Some of us went to happy hour and some of us were drinking, he didn't drink much and one of my male coworkers asked if i wanted another drink so i said sure ill go with you to the bartender so my male coworker is ordering me a drink and i pull out my wallet to pay for my drink when my work crush bee lines straight for me from the other side of the room or something and says "Are you paying for him?" and I say "uh no?!!?" and he says "Okay." and walks away.

Or like i said in the aforementioned, I normally get to work around 8am and one day i couldn't call in cause my cell battery died and my car died so the battery life i had left i used to call a towtruck...so i couldn't call anyone at work to notify them...i guess by 845am hit and I've been super late before but i guess for whatever reason me being MIA worried him... he kept pacing around, he couldn't sit still, kept asking people if they've heard from me, got antsy and he's never acted that way before and has never acted that way about anyone.

So I don't know what his deal is...either he likes me or is just too comfortable with me.

If he's interested I know it'll be a while before he does something about it but I'm not sure what to expect when he is "trying" to ask me out.

I dont know how aquas make their feelings known, I just want to be ready for it.

" He socializes with EVERYONE. Even with people he hates...but its always the same thing. He'll tease them in this overdone / fake sort of way. He'll make comments like "NICE OF YOU TO SHOW UP" if they got into work late....or he'll say "THANKS FOR NOTHING!" or he'll say "TRAITOR" or "YOU CANT OPEN THAT DOOR FAST ENOUGH!" to pick on them and he's like that with everyone."

LOL dear lord that's good. You're perceptive. 🙂

forget to mention, he must have dominant air in his chart. socializing with everyone is a clue in to that. He can easily adapt and be friendly to everyone. Im believing that it must be easier to focus on everyone with dominant air.

*** also forget to mention to add (my husband and I are up late watching TENNIS, so i'm distracted) Azarenka vs. Jamie hempton (female tennis)

"So I don't know what his deal is...either he likes me or is just too comfortable with me.

If he's interested I know it'll be a while before he does something about it but I'm not sure what to expect when he is "trying" to ask me out.

I dont know how aquas make their feelings known, I just want to be ready for it."

it sounds like he likes you alot. If he treats you very differently, he will NOT mess up with you at all. He likes you way too much to fudge that up. He doesn't care about the other people either. I mean he probably does for office work and to be respectable (unless like you mention above, when they are late, ect)
I'm just going by how MOST men are in general. I had an aqua ex, and he used to do the same thing with people, socializing with everyone. But i dont like to compare him with other aquas. its not fair. Because theres so many different types.

He likes you. Get to know him. Take it slow. 🙂

I can tell ur the type of scorpio that likes to destroy everything around you and rise from the ashes like reinvent yourself.....because why else would you try and initiate something with an aqua in your work place...

if u here for advice and u want him to like you show how dedicate to your job u are and that you don't compromise anything for your job....i love those types who never make mistakes they make me go crazy

To everyone who just posted. I don't know if hes interested. Maybe hes just comfortable.

If he did make his interest known what do you think he'd do. I've had a male friend before that was interested and it took me a long time realize he was interested and he was so obvious. I think in clueless. I just am afraid that if hes interested and he makes obvious hints i don't wanna miss it

@11th sign I love my job. It pays extremely well but he's worth it. If we did date and broke up hed at the very minimum treat me with professionally courtesy and when the awkwardness finally passes we'd become friends again.

If I'm interested in someone and just genuinely interested in someone I would actually just ask them out for a coffee or lunch or something! It's my way of figuring you out slowly. I just think he might be hung up on the whole co-worker thing and doesn't know how to approach this.

I honestly don't think you should take anything said about aquas with a grain of salt. Generally there are a few things we all agree on but honestly I don't think I've seen another aqua guy here on DXP that thinks exactly like I do. Stop making judgements based on his sun sign and just tolerate or believe or read into his behavioral patterns.

You make it all about him but you haven't spoken once about how you've shown interest to him. If you want to date him what are you willing to do?

just ask him if he wants to go to lunch with you. No reason not to.

Oh noz I agree with you. I just use the sign to understand their thought process like y does he act friendly with everyone

But yeah that's y I said things are food again cause I had to understand his patterns.

You ask my thoughts. I adore the man. I feel safe with him since day one. Not cause hes an aqua but I feel protected and this air of being looked out for when hes in the room even when he's on the other side of the room talking to a circle of people. I'm a confident yet humble person but whenever he looks at me a certain way I get shy suddenly. How I show interest? I'm not sure if what I do looks like interest to him but I don't smother him. He has his independence. When hes being chivalrous or trying to be helpful i make it a point to thank him. I support his ideas and if he asks my opinion I always answer honestly. I try to support him with his projects and I look out for him when he's overwhelmed with work

I value his opinion so I ask for it sometimes.

For Christmas I found this hard to find replica from a movie he likes which he loved even if hes not the type to be expressive in a sentimental way.

Communication is important to him even tho hes bad at it but I try to maintain that always.

Support, nurturing, laughter, and communication is how I show I care which are also things that he also seeks from people.

Evil he likes going to lunch with the guys. And they are a macho bunch. Lol. I'd have to deal with the being bored by their sports talk. Plus I'm literally around him 7 hours a day. He doesn't goof off in other departments anymore now that things are better he sticks by me to support me more. So I feel his lunch is an hour of freedom for him. But yes I make it a habit of occasionally asking him about his lunch plans.