Aquarius and cancer compatibility

I am a cancer female who was in a relationship with an aquarius, we sadly didn't work out but I still miss him and think about what could have been. Anyone have an opinion on this match and its compatibility. Any stories about yourselves and if it worked out or not and for what reasons ?

Yikes water and air?

If your not an extreme emotional cancer then okay, if you are tread carefully.

Someone is always going to put you to the test in life.

Ok what happened and don't forget it's two sides too..

Cancers draw out the hidden emotional side to Aquas.

Not sure what Aquas do for Cancers... i hear we bring them calmness and stabilty.. but who knows, we may be too detached for them.

It may depend on chart placements in terms of compatibility. However, all the things that come to mind when I think of my encounters with Cancers are toxic, smothering, emotionally heavy, jealous, insecure, possessive, and emotional games. It certainly isn't fair to categorize all of them to be like that, but just my experience and why I choose to steer clear. They definitely brought out a more emotional side of me to the point where I didn't even recognize myself.....in a not good way. I think in every single encounter I cut them off completely because I reached my wits end emotionally.

My first boyfriend is a cancer and I don't hate him but he treated me like shit when we were together and when we broke up he went full stalker so I had to block him on facebook, I loved his sense of humour and the way he saw the world was really unique but he was extremely clingy and put a lot of pressure on me constantly to be his boyfriend and do things with him but he would never do things I wanted to do so Id do them alone and he would get sooky with me......Sookiness is a trait I abhor, I want gutter stomp it out, it makes me cringe

Chart placements gave me and my Cancer ex a fighting chance. What killed it, we were going through a rough "we don't click patch" around our 8th year, and I was getting pissy about his lack of commitment beyond just living together. I felt I deserved more than that after all the time and effort invested. So, passive aggressively, he started to hit up these parties thrown by his supervisor from his job. SHE moonlighted as an "entertainer". Entertainer my ass, bitch was a stripper. He SAID he was just going so he could bring his buddy and get him hooked up.

Huge epic fight after him going way to often, I was just done. I was more than willing to hire his buddy an escort and send them on a mini vacation, but no, passive aggressive Cancer boy had to rub my face in the fact that hes going to go party with strippers.

Fuck.That.Shit.

It's been 12 years since I said "Bye Felicia." He's still hung up on me. Don't be that Cancer....move on.

Posted by crabbykaycee
I am a cancer female who was in a relationship with an aquarius, we sadly didn't work out but I still miss him and think about what could have been. Anyone have an opinion on this match and its compatibility. Any stories about yourselves and if it worked out or not and for what reasons ?

Hello there I am a cancer as well me and my aqua man have been through a lot. We first started off in a long distance relationship and out of the blue he broke up with me because he couldn't handle the distance. We promised each other AlOT of things. He cut me off for a few months after the breakup and then he began to talk to me again but he was so hot and cold , it made me hurt and irritated and confused. One second he wanted me back and was being lovey dovey with me, the next he was passive aggressive because he wanted to be with me but knew he couldn't make that possible and he wasn't ready for marriage.(he's in the military). We cut each other off because we were both hurt and mad at the fact that we couldn't physically be together. He would get very jealous and over protective every time I went out with my friends, he was mad because he couldn't be there with me. Well 2 years later I see that he married a Virgo women, I love the guy so much I barley dated anyone but of course I didn't let it get to me, I left it out of mind and finished school. so we stopped talking for a good solid 3 years and then he reached out to me and told me how he got married but that she was a bitch & he would call me beautiful and love. I didn't understand why he called me that when he was married so I didn't really write back to him . 8 months later he calls me ,FaceTime me and tells me how sorry he was for hurting me and that he has always loved me and that he's still crazy about me and he wrote me long messages on how Im the perfect mate for him he poured his heart and said that he had gotten divorce because she cheated on him. And so we were talking again , staying up all night talking to each other catching up.And then 3 months later he surprises me with a visit I was so shocked and we spent time together and it was the best time ever. Our chemistry is remarkable , he loves my clingyness he thinks it's cute. He loves that I'm submissive. He loves my femine energy. He loves that I'm feisty, he said he likes putting up with my mood swings.he likes my possessiveness . I love that he's very protective of me , he's very possessive and gets jealous easily. He is full of surprises , he's very romantic . We both study the same field . We both admire each other's intelligence we can talk for days! He's very sociable and likes helping people but at the same time he likes to be mean and joke around a lot with people. He is hilarious. He stops me from overreacting . He encourages me to accomplish things . He is an awesome listener. What ever he lacks I have and whatever

Posted by justagirl
Cancers draw out the hidden emotional side to Aquas.

Not sure what Aquas do for Cancers... i hear we bring them calmness and stabilty.. but who knows, we may be too detached for them.

calmness and stability? hm wouldn't that be for dominant earthy chicks for watery men? lol

earth is the groundness and gives stability.

air and water makes bubbles!!

Posted by Gennie
Chart placements gave me and my Cancer ex a fighting chance. What killed it, we were going through a rough "we don't click patch" around our 8th year, and I was getting pissy about his lack of commitment beyond just living together. I felt I deserved more than that after all the time and effort invested. So, passive aggressively, he started to hit up these parties thrown by his supervisor from his job. SHE moonlighted as an "entertainer". Entertainer my ass, bitch was a stripper. He SAID he was just going so he could bring his buddy and get him hooked up.

Huge epic fight after him going way to often, I was just done. I was more than willing to hire his buddy an escort and send them on a mini vacation, but no, passive aggressive Cancer boy had to rub my face in the fact that hes going to go party with strippers.

Fuck.That.Shit.

It's been 12 years since I said "Bye Felicia." He's still hung up on me. Don't be that Cancer....move on.

holy crap. he sounded like a NON -committal guy. Is this an episode from "Katti Batti" never wanting marriage and is CLUELESS about it.

any guy who isn't the marrying kind and wants till death do us part can go fuck himself. lol

just like this song, I love.....the lyrics:


"It's affection, ALWAYS, So what does it mean if I tell you to go fuck yourself
Or if I say that you're beautiful to me

It's affection always,
You're gonna see it someday
My attention for you"

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by justagirl
Cancers draw out the hidden emotional side to Aquas.

Not sure what Aquas do for Cancers... i hear we bring them calmness and stabilty.. but who knows, we may be too detached for them.

calmness and stability? hm wouldn't that be for dominant earthy chicks for watery men? lol

earth is the groundness and gives stability.

air and water makes bubbles!!

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I was trying to be polite, right now I dont have very nice things to say about a certain cancer male.