Aquarius girlfriend breakup

My aqua girlfriend broke up with me and it seems like shes being so cold and wont even consider a second chance with me.We were friends for a year or so and everything i tell her just wont work,she says she still wants to be friends and everything but shes not even acting like a friend and doesnt text or nothin...i thought aquas dont mind being friends after breakups whats up with that—I didnt cheat on her or anything we just were really arguing alot...I really want to be with her,what kind of steps can i take to win her back?

Im a leo and I dont know about how to contact her because she doesnt seem like she wants to talk much when i do text or when i call her she tells me she would call back but never does and im starting to see her hang with her friends alot more.I dont know i just think shes trying to move on.She did tell me that she wanted a break from the arguments but i havent spoken to her in awhile.Its been a month since we broke up.....😢 she knows i would do anything for her but she acts like i dont exist

It's a break up and it takes time after you've been in a relationship to calm down, work on issues that were a part of the relationship and THEN consider friendship.

Nobody likes to be pushed. Lay low for a while and eventually it may be possible for a friendship. However, at this point she doesn't want anything with you, as is her choice. The last thing she's going to want to hear is you pushing her to change her mind. It's suffocating for anyone.

Lay low, stop contacting her. If and when you hear from her, start off as friends, like you've never been in a relationship, keep it calm, keep it simple, no pressure.

Well remember they are a fixed sign

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Posted by Sagittarius89
Well remember they are a fixed sign

fixed somewhere else too... unlike saggittarians, who are "open", actually WIDE...

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ur situation sucks but just dont read into anything. sounds like she wants do her own thing n "staying friends" was just an easier way for her to say see ya later lol. if she really wanted to stay friends she wouldnt have disappeared. so just take that as ur hint. sorry 😢

aquariuses are complicated, mine wants to "be friends till the end" lol i know that soon she will break up with her bf, im just playing "good friend" game, well not really playing i am an amazing friend myself so yeah shes mine just doesnt know that yet 😄 you arent that smart as you think you are meow *pokes every aquarius*** btw my aquarius spent an hour on the internet waiting her bf to go on facebook and almost cried after feeling like "one of those dirty perverts that live on the internet and watch porn" and also "wasted time" lmao..

One thing to consider is aqua dont like to be controlled. If they feel like your trying to make them do something they will totally do the opposite. So give freedom, relax, move on then later on get in touch and catch up. Its hard but my understanding is that aqua see it as wrong to be completely dependant on another person. So if someone says to an aqua I cant live without you not only will they run a mile but they will say get a life. To them its mental illness to not be able to cope without someone else. Its like walking with a crutch. A partner is enjoyable companionship not somebody to put loads of pressure on by saying I cant live without you etc. So they keep it light and the people in their life are company but not crutches ie if those people move on they are still standing and relaxed rather than collapsing.

So if this makes sense you can see its seen as unhealthy to not have enough enjoyment and activity in your life that if one person leaves you fall aprt..This is my understanding of aqua anyway. You have to keep a distance and just enjoy the amazing intellect and inspiration they give from whatever distance they feel comfortable with.

Enjoy a bowl of rice. Drink a glass of tea. And carry on with that twinkling little thing called life.

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Posted by KingOfAries
aquariuses are complicated, mine wants to "be friends till the end" lol i know that soon she will break up with her bf, im just playing "good friend" game, well not really playing i am an amazing friend myself so yeah shes mine just doesnt know that yet 😄 you arent that smart as you think you are meow *pokes every aquarius*** btw my aquarius spent an hour on the internet waiting her bf to go on facebook and almost cried after feeling like "one of those dirty perverts that live on the internet and watch porn" and also "wasted time" lmao..

am sure she knows your true side... u might think u are clever, but she is much cleverer than u... i had an aries friend who was "my best friend" but i took the fake side of him out, in fact he didn't want to be just friends...

:/ it's sad to know that these people are there just to annoy couples... aquarians don't like relationship spoilers... so they have you on the friend control list.

aquarians give the best blow jobs to librans so you are out of luck

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she is not cleverer than me, she is immature like all of you, she is smart but she is not that clever, every game she plays with me i notice, i want to confront her, though it might end our friendship, my other friend talked about me to the aqua girl and the aqua girl told her that she purposely flirts with me then reminds me that she has a boyfriend, isnt that immature? my friend, who is older, told her that if she flirts it has to be going somewhere that she cant just play with me, and the aqua said that she doesnt like that im bossy. My friend thinks that she likes me just doesnt know what to do with me, so my hypothesis are she is either playing games with me OR is keeping me on a leash in case they break up. After their talk im not sure to be honest, because she's been acting weird and avoiding me today, stopped calling me every day at night, no texts, and i didnt show her that i like her in any way, in fact i ignored her half the time and was acting very responsibly and manly, was dressed top notch as always but this time she didnt complement me over the phone that day because she didnt even call me, that day i kissed her on her cheek when we said our byebyes and thats all. the next day - plain weird behavior and avoiding

and she has NO idea what my true side is, whole last semester she thought i was a "typical white boy who would only go for white girls" - shes asian, and even now, she only touches upon the core of who i am, i cant just open all my cards i need to make sure shes not after the money

I am not being rude nor i am being a slut, Greeting by a kiss on a cheek is normal and i greet EVERYONE i know well like that, and you dont need a permition for something that is socially accepted, relax with your abuses lmao

firewaterearth,

thats what i am afraid about too, because so far its always been like that, whenever i win over a girl i get turned off badly and i just act weird, then after i had some time off i realize that thats okay but its too late and girls usually feel unwanted and i lose my chance.. guess this time i will just need to be in control of myself

because im amazing?