Aquarius has gone all quite on me

hello. for the last few months I've been sleeping with the Aquarius guy, its been loads of fun and we get on really well. Neither of us are looking for anything more than a bit of fun but recently we've been hanging out making dinner watching movies and then going to sleep no sex! Ive never known if he's been sleeping with anyone else but a few weeks ago get pretty cold with me, telling me he's busy and can't see me at the minute because sex isn't at the top of his list. After a few weeks i asked him straight out why he's basically gone so cold on me and he said its because he can feel himself getting attached to me and he's only just got out of a relationship.
I still see him at work and he's always flirting with me and i can see him watching me all the time. I'm just really confused by it all! If i had my way we would still be fucking but he said he didn't want to but won't stop flirting with me, I'm pretty sure he's messgaing someone else too! Has anyone got any idea of the best way to pull him back in? get him to want me again, we had so much fun together and id hate for it to be over. Are there any signs i could look out for to know he's still interested?

thanks everyone

The problem is that he's interested...in more. It doesn't sound like you are, and he knows that. He is trying to separate from his feelings for you.

Do you want a relationship with him?

She's only in it for the sex, it seems.

this is the problem! I'm leaving next year so no, I'm not looking for anything and he isn't either BUT i do have feelings for him yes but I've been hurt in the past and I've got some pretty high walls so I've always called us fuck buddies while he's said seeing each other, I'm a pretty big flirt too and haven't really hidden that either, one of the last conversations we had was about being fuck buddies and i was saying how one of our friends shouldn't do it because she wouldn't be able to just sleep with someone without getting attached! i just think its weird if he did like me how can he just cut me out

Well, he's interested in more and you're leaving--in a year. If you keep seeing each ither it's going to be worse whwn you leave.

Since your agreement was fwb, then you know the relationship has a shelf life. If you keep seeing each other it's going to hurt worse when you leave.

I would follow his lead and stop while you're still relatively unattached to each other.

i know you're right i just wasn't ready for it to be done, it quite hard because i have to see him and work and he's still really flirty which makes me want him more! are aquarius male quite good at forgetting and moving on?? I'm tempted to leave it till next year then see if he wants to have some fun again

Posted by gemini88june
i know you're right i just wasn't ready for it to be done, it quite hard because i have to see him and work and he's still really flirty which makes me want him more! are aquarius male quite good at forgetting and moving on?? I'm tempted to leave it till next year then see if he wants to have some fun again

That's why it's best to never, ever play where you eat.

so he's started to message me again but it only seems to be when he's a something to drink, its like he's forgotten what he said, i don't know if i should message back or not. i love you lot but my god you guys can be confusing

Posted by gemini88june
so he's started to message me again but it only seems to be when he's a something to drink, its like he's forgotten what he said, i don't know if i should message back or not. i love you lot but my god you guys can be confusing

Gemgem!! What is he saying when he texts you?

its nothing flirty, its always just asking how i am, what I'm doing and just radon conversations. Yesterday at work he was super flirty with me more than he has ever been before and cuddling me, i know he's been flirting with someone else from work and she was near us so i don't know if he actually wanted my attention or hers. he is confusing me so much, we were texting loads so i asked him what he was doing tonight and he replied saying he was looking forward to a nice long sleep! i was i could just walk away from him!