Aquarius: MIA or however you wanna call it

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Alright. So my Aqua had been missing in action for couple of days now. And this time, I feel like I wanna burst. LOL. I dunno. Maybe I kind of miss him? I'm not sending him any messages. Like usual. I'm waiting for him to message me. Like usual. Ooooohhhh. But it drives me nuts at some hours! Lol. Imagine that he likes and comments on my fb posts but he aint texting me.

I miss my aqua. But I'm not telling him. He might think I'm clingy. I'm ok with him going MIA but maybe not on days like this. I feel quite lonely lately. Maybe something is going on with the stars. 😢

This is gemini talking. I cannot decide which action to take...
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Alright. So my Aqua had been missing in action for couple of days now. And this time, I feel like I wanna burst. LOL. I dunno. Maybe I kind of miss him? I'm not sending him any messages. Like usual. I'm waiting for him to message me. Like usual. Ooooohhhh. But it drives me nuts at some hours! Lol. Imagine that he likes and comments on my fb posts but he aint texting me.

I miss my aqua. But I'm not telling him. He might think I'm clingy. I'm ok with him going MIA but maybe not on days like this. I feel quite lonely lately. Maybe something is going on with the stars. 😢

This is gemini talking. I cannot decide which action to take...
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Believe me!!!! I understand exactly how you feel! A couple of days really isn't all that bad. You're doing the right thing. Yes, feel assured that you are. Aquas are frustrating as hell, but when he does text you, you will feel really reassured. If it goes on a week, then there might be a problem and you will need to re-evaluate. Hang strong.

When he does text you, don't act annoyed. It might be a test to see how you act. Just be warm and friendly.

But if he ignores you for a week or more, act friendly and warm, but keep your guard up and see if that happens again. In the meantime, just stay busy.
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Thanks truecap! He's insane. He suddenly messaged me to say he didn't go out yesterday and didn't meet with anyone today and that he just went shopping and went jogging for a change. So... Should I believe that?! Lol. Like you said, I should stay warm and friendly. By nature, that was my initial reaction when he messaged me. Ugh. Aquas. Lol. Told my scorp mom about it and she said I shouldn't worry. Some people aren't just into texting as much as I am. Well, fair enough. Lol. But I just wish he doesn't go on missing all of a sudden. It makes me doubt if we are still on the same page.....
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Thanks truecap! He's insane. He suddenly messaged me to say he didn't go out yesterday and didn't meet with anyone today and that he just went shopping and went jogging for a change. So... Should I believe that?! Lol. Like you said, I should stay warm and friendly. By nature, that was my initial reaction when he messaged me. Ugh. Aquas. Lol. Told my scorp mom about it and she said I shouldn't worry. Some people aren't just into texting as much as I am. Well, fair enough. Lol. But I just wish he doesn't go on missing all of a sudden. It makes me doubt if we are still on the same page.....



He's letting you know what he's been up to. That's his way of explaining why he hasn't texted you. That's a good thing. Yes, you should believe him.
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Aquas mode of conduct in any sort of relationship is: absence makes the heart grow fonder. Believe me, an aqua will get bored of you if you are speaking to them every single day. They need their alone time, which means time away from the partner. During this alone time, they recuperate, do their things like hobbies and it gives them time to miss their partner. Then, they come back and show you that they missed you. Aquas need to miss you to be with you.
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@Metoo: yeah. I kinda figured that. Last night we texted a bit and he called me princess. He seemed tired. The fact that he didn't go out all weekend is something. I can't wait to move in with him. I miss him when he's away. Lol. Oh, he showed me pictures of what he cooked. He promised he would cook for me next time so I am kind of looking forward to it. I wanted to ask him what is going on. But, it might cause him to think I wanna interfere or something. So like always, and I did it before to him, I waited for him to open up. I don't really ask his whereabouts or what he's doing with his life. I just wait until he tells me what he's been up to. 🙂
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@Metoo: yeah. I kinda figured that. Last night we texted a bit and he called me princess. He seemed tired. The fact that he didn't go out all weekend is something. I can't wait to move in with him. I miss him when he's away. Lol. Oh, he showed me pictures of what he cooked. He promised he would cook for me next time so I am kind of looking forward to it. I wanted to ask him what is going on. But, it might cause him to think I wanna interfere or something. So like always, and I did it before to him, I waited for him to open up. I don't really ask his whereabouts or what he's doing with his life. I just wait until he tells me what he's been up to. 🙂
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How do I do that without seeming needy? Hmmm. I sometimes reach out to him only when I'm feeling kind of naughty. You know... Just a text like "You just crossed my mind right now" or like "I'm feeling kind of naughty. Wish you were here" stuff. Hmmmmm.



Yes, you can do that. 🙂 Needy to me is constantly texting like over and over. We do like to feel like feelings are mutual. In our own world, yes, but we don't like to feel lonely either.
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Hmmm. Glad I don't do that. Like text and text. No. Not really. I post a lot on fb and he just likes my posts, my photos. Lol. He really didn't care if other guys see him or if he exposes himself on my facebook. Hahaha! Not that I am hiding him but we are pretty discreet with our relationship and wants to keep the intimacy just between the two of us. Plus, of course, the jobs that we both have requires us to always keep the professionalism and respect even if we both belong in different industries. 🙂
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Thanks truecap! He's insane. He suddenly messaged me to say he didn't go out yesterday and didn't meet with anyone today and that he just went shopping and went jogging for a change. So... Should I believe that?! Lol. Like you said, I should stay warm and friendly. By nature, that was my initial reaction when he messaged me. Ugh. Aquas. Lol. Told my scorp mom about it and she said I shouldn't worry. Some people aren't just into texting as much as I am. Well, fair enough. Lol. But I just wish he doesn't go on missing all of a sudden. It makes me doubt if we are still on the same page.....



He's letting you know what he's been up to. That's his way of explaining why he hasn't texted you. That's a good thing. Yes, you should believe him.
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It's much to my surprise! Haha. I've never met a man who would voluntarily tell me what he did. And I never asked any man either. In fact that was my usual problem. I never ask that I end up getting surprised that I am being dumped. Hahahahaha. If he is being honest then he must be the one. He compliments whatever it is that I am lacking.
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Posted by aquarius09
Aquas mode of conduct in any sort of relationship is: absence makes the heart grow fonder. Believe me, an aqua will get bored of you if you are speaking to them every single day. They need their alone time, which means time away from the partner. During this alone time, they recuperate, do their things like hobbies and it gives them time to miss their partner. Then, they come back and show you that they missed you. Aquas need to miss you to be with you.

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Aria
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Posted by aquarius09
Aquas mode of conduct in any sort of relationship is: absence makes the heart grow fonder. Believe me, an aqua will get bored of you if you are speaking to them every single day. They need their alone time, which means time away from the partner. During this alone time, they recuperate, do their things like hobbies and it gives them time to miss their partner. Then, they come back and show you that they missed you. Aquas need to miss you to be with you.



I guess that is true. My aqua bestfriend and her aqua boyfriend don't talk for weeks and they have been together for a year now. Hahahahaha. I guess, air signs are like that by nature? I too... Has that habit of disappearing. In fact, I deactivate my facebook without warning and he just goes viewing me on myspace or other accounts that I have and that's how I know he's looking for me 🙂