Aquas and endings?

Are aqua males famous for leaving their businesses, relationships hanging in mid air? what i mean by this is do they just get up and leave without any sign when they are done, or is it just them needing their space and freedom and whatever it is they need? Or do they clearly state the end if they feel they're really done?

As an aqua woman, when I'm done, I DO say I'm done. I dont like misunderstandings & unneccesary pestering. I make it clear. Needing space may explain the lack of a goodbye, doesnt mean its done or anything, just have other things in mind. But, I've heard that aqua men do disappear without notice, so I cant relate to that. How long has he been gone for?

And what happened between you two that make you suspect that he may be done?

when I'm done I'm done I rarely give expIanation. No need to give a flowery summary. I ll be polite and fair if asked about it though.

The whole situation was a bit off. We talked for about two months, the attraction was obvious. Then we stopped talking but kept bumping into each other like every weekend and when we would and well he'd pretty much chase me anytime i would try to ignore him, as in small things like bumping into me, poking me then pretending it wasn't him, just awkwardly coming to stand next to me in the club while i'd ignore him, but he'd be like all smiling and every now and then side hugging me or squeezing my shoulders anytime he'd pass by me.. and i don't really understand. we hooked up a few times and were getting along pretty well while talking but.. i just don't understand what this pause in communication is all about while he keeps pestering me whenever we meet. confuses the shit out of me.

define a hook up.

ET!!! Welcome back! Missed you! ;( ;D ;P
*just experimenting with smileys there lol*

Posted by aquasnoz
define a hook up.

the whole thing started out as a one night stand if that clears things up a bit, then continued with just us chatting and then this

Shit a winking sad smiley doesnt happen *shrugs*

Posted by feb16aqua
Yes! ET phoned home!! 🙂

and we is rhappy 😄

Posted by pixelcheesy

Posted by aquasnoz
define a hook up.

the whole thing started out as a one night stand if that clears things up a bit, then continued with just us chatting and then this

click to expand

Well a possibility is that he got what he wanted and now he's onto the next girl. Like others have said when I'm done I'm done so if he hasn't contacted you at all for a while this could be it.

Some guys are just assholes really.

Posted by aquasnoz

Posted by pixelcheesy

Posted by aquasnoz
define a hook up.

the whole thing started out as a one night stand if that clears things up a bit, then continued with just us chatting and then this

Well a possibility is that he got what he wanted and now he's onto the next girl. Like others have said when I'm done I'm done so if he hasn't contacted you at all for a while this could be it.

Some guys are just assholes really.

click to expand

yeah but he got what he wanted at the very start, still he kept talking to me afterwards for months without any mention of that or any suggestions so that's what confuses me.

Posted by feb16aqua

Posted by pixelcheesy


yeah but he got what he wanted at the very start, still he kept talking to me afterwards for months without any mention of that or any suggestions so that's what confuses me.

Well I am an aquawoman, but I've dated an aqua guy...they can be friendly through and through, especially if you run into each other. I would think if he was interested in dating you, you would know it and wouldn't have to question it at all. That is why I wait to sleep with someone until I know them and I know if they want to be serious with me or not.

click to expand

true i usually do the same but we met at a party and so things went down. i think there's also some ex girlfriend he's been on and off with involved here, though. I just don't understand like, if he's not interested, then why run after me everytime we bump into each other? I completely ignore him and it's like it downright bothers him and tries so hard to gain my attention. even so i confronted him once about not even messaging me in idunno how long, and he was like i didn't have time, and i said okay then that's that. about two hours passed and he dragged me out of the building we were in and started blabbering his apology, and saying "i would have messaged you or called you if i could have, believe it"and i was like why should i believe you "because i've been pretty honest with you from the very start, i just find it strange that you don't get offended" . granted he never lied or promised anything he couldn't keep but.. still.. what the fuck

Only the immature and toxic Aqua folks disappear like that. They are no worth your time. I know plenty of women caught up in this cycle with these type of Aqua men. They are hoping that if they just stay patient the toxic Aqua will return...and they do and then they leave again. Who has time to deal with that crap?

It's like out of sight, out of mind for him. He sees you and then its all just in fun, play, teasing, etc. I'm sorry, I don't think he ever was into you and I think you might have made more into it that what it is. I'm afraid he's moved on to a new challenge or someone more interesting or with more mystery. I hope that doesn't hurt your feelings, it shouldn't, that's just the kind of guy he is. He probably likes you, but in a friend kind of way. Good thing you found out now how he is, rather than after you've invested emotions into it.

This is when you line up and say NEXT!!!

Just keep in mind that one night stands and casual sex seldom end up in serious relationships.

Posted by rgh1
Truecap...you make it sound like an Aquarius acts like cat playing with its prey before killing it :/
I know first hand how easy it is for a woman to fall for the allure, weirdness and originality of an Aqua. However, being aware of that and respecting a woman's emotions is something that men in general should have and be mindful of. The same is true for women also. Hurt feelings, broken hearts and a mixed bag of emotions are normal and natural in the journey one finds themselves on of trying to find that special blend of crazy that matches up with their own. For me, I am a better person for the heartache and frustration I have endured and caused. Not because of the pain or the angst. Rather, because by it, I can heal and begin to see more clearly.

So true. Make each encounter meaningful and fun as you can. Speculation will only make you crazy. Its a boost to an Aquas ego to keep you guessing. Keep Aquas guessing... move on with your self.

Posted by rgh1
Truecap...you make it sound like an Aquarius acts like cat playing with its prey before killing it :/
I know first hand how easy it is for a woman to fall for the allure, weirdness and originality of an Aqua. However, being aware of that and respecting a woman's emotions is something that men in general should have and be mindful of. The same is true for women also. Hurt feelings, broken hearts and a mixed bag of emotions are normal and natural in the journey one finds themselves on of trying to find that special blend of crazy that matches up with their own. For me, I am a better person for the heartache and frustration I have endured and caused. Not because of the pain or the angst. Rather, because by it, I can heal and begin to see more clearly.

I didn't mean that as a stab against Aquarius men. I apologize if it came off that way. I meant it as a stab of the player-type men in general. In my opinion, he doesn't seem all that interested in her until he sees her.