missmissy
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Aquas and rejecting people
They ghost
At one point, my SO had his friend tell me, lol.
Posted by bumboklattHahaha. So y'all wouldn't tell the person upfront that you've been dating you're not interested anymore? that's terrible lol.
Would you still respond to their messages if they reached out to you?
Posted by ASackOfMeatDecayingAndOnBorrowedTimethought only norwegian caps did that
I tell them to delete ALL our photos.
Posted by bumboklattyou feel this way even with your notorious scorp moon? thats gotta be a pretty powerful sun to override it. looks like scorpio finally met its matchPosted by missmissyHave you ever been on any drug that lowers your emotional input?Posted by bumboklattHahaha. So y'all wouldn't tell the person upfront that you've been dating you're not interested anymore? that's terrible lol.
Would you still respond to their messages if they reached out to you?
well thats how we feel all the time. So NO and NO we wouldn't tell them
WHY? because we don't understand feelings like the rest of the signs do. So if we say something like "I don't think we should be together" our mind tells us we CAN be together so we SHOULD be together.
So we don't use the word WANT we just WONT or CANT
why? because freedom is our lover, we can resort to her for anything and we dont need anyone
Aquarius understands
CAN, CANT, YES, NO, NEED, WILL, TRY
Aquarius doesent understand
Shouldnt, Should, WANT, FEEL, TIME, TACTclick to expand
Posted by bumboklattsounds tough man. its also kinda rare to see someone on these boards not put their scorp bits on a pedestal but prioritize their sun lol. take it easy budPosted by Ophiuchusinteresting you point that out, I've battled with those two placements all my lifePosted by bumboklattyou feel this way even with your notorious scorp moon? thats gotta be a pretty powerful sun to override it. looks like scorpio finally met its matchPosted by missmissyHave you ever been on any drug that lowers your emotional input?Posted by bumboklattHahaha. So y'all wouldn't tell the person upfront that you've been dating you're not interested anymore? that's terrible lol.
Would you still respond to their messages if they reached out to you?
well thats how we feel all the time. So NO and NO we wouldn't tell them
WHY? because we don't understand feelings like the rest of the signs do. So if we say something like "I don't think we should be together" our mind tells us we CAN be together so we SHOULD be together.
So we don't use the word WANT we just WONT or CANT
why? because freedom is our lover, we can resort to her for anything and we dont need anyone
Aquarius understands
CAN, CANT, YES, NO, NEED, WILL, TRY
Aquarius doesent understand
Shouldnt, Should, WANT, FEEL, TIME, TACT
and to make it tougher Sun is in 5th(LEO) house and Scorp is in 2nd(Taurus) House
my decisions are conflicted but overall I agree with the Aqua cause its who I really am at heart
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The thing I hate about people is that they objectify you, even more so when youre detatched and aloof in your own little world like a snow globe, people want to own you like youre some sort of novel commodity and the second you say "no thanks" they get offended that an inanimate object is rejecting them and they throw you aside for the next one....
Everyone is like this so I play them, I dont say yes but I dont say no to avoid seeing their ugly side.
Everyone is like this so I play them, I dont say yes but I dont say no to avoid seeing their ugly side.
Depends on the aqua. My bestie is a aqua sun and sag moon. She's very self-centred so she'll give an ambiguous rejection so that the person is left with some hope. She enjoys people chasing her. She doesn't care who is chasing her. She derives pleasure just from being chased by anyone.
I'm a double aqua and I do to others as I want done onto me. I tell a person in simple, clear English that I'm not interested in them like that. I can be harsh if the person has become a source of annoyance, but my initial reaction is a gentle clear cut rejection. I don't care to lead people on. I'm don't care for chase either. I think interest is either mutual or it's nothing.
I'm a double aqua and I do to others as I want done onto me. I tell a person in simple, clear English that I'm not interested in them like that. I can be harsh if the person has become a source of annoyance, but my initial reaction is a gentle clear cut rejection. I don't care to lead people on. I'm don't care for chase either. I think interest is either mutual or it's nothing.
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