I might be wrong and I know you guys probably dont like admitting flaws in your character, but every time I notice more and more that no matter how big your quest for knowledge is and the effort you put into it, you guys really often seem to lack a LOT of self-knowledge, either that or you're too proud to admit that something actually "escapes you". For instance I was talking to this aqua friend of mine the other day, very smart girl, we met in university, she was asking me for advice on some stuff, I know how Aqua girls seem to come off a bit hysterical at times which I dont mind at all, anyway she kept complaining and complaining about a certain issue she's facing right now..after I gave her my 2 cents on the issue I also told her to remain optimistic and that things were going to work themselves out, she immediately responded with a "but Im a VERY optimistic person!" which is hard to believe considering every time I talk to her shes complaining endlessly about something like its the end of the world, also on facebook, a great deal of her status updates are about her bitching about something different each time which is not quite the trademark of an optimistic person. Aquas, dont you feel that sometimes your extreme focus on groups/other people/friendships makes you forget about learning about yourself and keeping yourself honest about your character at the same time?
