An Aqua in Luvvvvvvvv

When you guys have fallen in love with someone, do you focus on them only? open up more? becme more distant? Because I know that Aquas like there own space. Also being very social and chatting with the oppostite sex (flirting but not in a bad way), would you stop all that?

Focus on them only? What do yo mean? Revolve my life around that person or fidelity. Hell NO to orbitting a person and yes I'm faithful. Takes a while for me to open up about my feelings, even when I do I dont tell the whole story (must be my moon here). And I WONT stop talking to the opposite sex just because I have a boyfriend. He needs to be secure with himself in order for the relationship to work because my conversations WILL BE ALWAYS BISEXUAL...Idont care if he has a problem with it or not. Talking to people and saying nice things to them doesnt equate to cheating, its TALKING (some call it flirting, w/e..its still talking & not action).

The "distant" thing is on/off, cant control it nor does it fore-warn before it happens...it just happen.

yeah it's true. I focus on my partner ONLY. But i also have my own hobbies. You have to understand when you get to learn deeper astrology you understand (well at least I did) that DOMINANT air in a chart will NEED socializing and running around and going out and just overall being everywhere.

Even Sarah Palin, despite all her Aquarius planets (stellium) in the 4th house (which indicate her NEED and desire and happiness for a family and security) she has her Venus Aries in another house, but she is definitely out and about doing political work, socializing and getting to know other people but her home is always "home" with her family. She probably is a whirlwind at home with her children and husband.

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Focus on them only? What do yo mean? Revolve my life around that person or fidelity. Hell NO to orbitting a person and yes I'm faithful. Takes a while for me to open up about my feelings, even when I do I dont tell the whole story (must be my moon here). And I WONT stop talking to the opposite sex just because I have a boyfriend. He needs to be secure with himself in order for the relationship to work because my conversations WILL BE ALWAYS BISEXUAL...Idont care if he has a problem with it or not. Talking to people and saying nice things to them doesnt equate to cheating, its TALKING (some call it flirting, w/e..its still talking & not action).

Fair enough. 🙂

No I just meant that when in a relationship falling for your partner, feelings changing into love etc, do you change your ways or behaviour towards friends etc.. sometimes outsiders or friends can ruin relationships with gossip or talks sometimes so wondering if that effects Aquas behaviour or decisions.

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Posted by WaterCup
Focus on them only? What do yo mean? Revolve my life around that person or fidelity. Hell NO to orbitting a person and yes I'm faithful. Takes a while for me to open up about my feelings, even when I do I dont tell the whole story (must be my moon here). And I WONT stop talking to the opposite sex just because I have a boyfriend. He needs to be secure with himself in order for the relationship to work because my conversations WILL BE ALWAYS BISEXUAL...Idont care if he has a problem with it or not. Talking to people and saying nice things to them doesnt equate to cheating, its TALKING (some call it flirting, w/e..its still talking & not action).

Fair enough. 🙂

No I just meant that when in a relationship falling for your partner, feelings changing into love etc, do you change your ways or behaviour towards friends etc.. sometimes outsiders or friends can ruin relationships with gossip or talks sometimes so wondering if that effects Aquas behaviour or decisions.

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Hmmm interesting. I wonder if this is also directed to other sun signs and NOT just aquas. I believe, those who are too easily influenced were never really truly devoted.

Plus you have to consider the people you want to be around. If you hang around people who don't respect you for your choices and your choice to be with someone, or be happy then they aren't people who care about you at all. They don't give a hell of a damn if you live or die, or if you make bad choices.

No, what people say dont influence how i feel about someone, I'll be wary thou just incase

BR, are you aliaries?

BR, Lol I know you are aries but I thought you were another member, 'aliaries' is her name. I havent seen her in a while and somehow u reminded me of her.

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Focus on them only? What do yo mean? Revolve my life around that person or fidelity. Hell NO to orbitting a person and yes I'm faithful. Takes a while for me to open up about my feelings, even when I do I dont tell the whole story (must be my moon here). And I WONT stop talking to the opposite sex just because I have a boyfriend. He needs to be secure with himself in order for the relationship to work because my conversations WILL BE ALWAYS BISEXUAL...Idont care if he has a problem with it or not. Talking to people and saying nice things to them doesnt equate to cheating, its TALKING (some call it flirting, w/e..its still talking & not action).

Fair enough. 🙂

No I just meant that when in a relationship falling for your partner, feelings changing into love etc, do you change your ways or behaviour towards friends etc.. sometimes outsiders or friends can ruin relationships with gossip or talks sometimes so wondering if that effects Aquas behaviour or decisions.

Hmmm interesting. I wonder if this is also directed to other sun signs and NOT just aquas. I believe, those who are too easily influenced were never really truly devoted.

Plus you have to consider the people you want to be around. If you hang around people who don't respect you for your choices and your choice to be with someone, or be happy then they aren't people who care about you at all. They don't give a hell of a damn if you live or die, or if you make bad choices.

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Well if other signs have a different approach to this then all good. Its interesting to know how others would react when i love or how they change around others. Everyone is different by experience etc.. Id like to know how a Aqua male reacts if and when In love. Do they say it straight up or is it by there actions more.. the influence of others etc..

Its her libra moon. Charming little sods lol.

BR, aliearies was sweet, thats why I thought you were her. Are you with an aquari-ass guy?

BR, dont you know where he stays, contacts,etc?

Feb16, what is this FOCUS stuff? Do you guys mean faithfulness or revolving your life around that particular person? I'm having a hard time understanding the 'focus' part in regards to a relationship.

For me personally once I've fallen for someone I tunnel vision. It doesn't mean I stop loving my friends but if you've won my heart then it's yours. There are still things that I'll keep to myself not for reasons to deceive but for the sole reason that I can't work out what it is myself.

It takes a long time for that passion to die because it takes so long for me to build it up. I don't think any of my relationships in the past I've seen them complain about me flirting, it's moreso after the relationship they'll come back and tell me that I am a flirt and they all tell me I can't recognise that part about myself. They know I like to have fun with people and they all know I focus on them, it's a bit of give or take. If you can trust me then there's really nothing you need to worry about.

I have had girls that I've dated question me but I'm a people person, I've worked in numerous bars and cafes and my top quality or not I've been trained to make people feel comfortable, feel like a friend and I'm good at that in person. Those who come into my life is usually a direct result of that so most of them already acknowledge that I'm good with people.

So the answer is no I can't stop it, I don't know what it is that I'm stopping because I'm just being myself but I know clearly the difference between being playful and being flirty sexually. The only time I've ever found myself checking out another girl was my own girlfriend from a distance.

As for the influences part it's a quality I dislike in a person, but then again that relates back to being a people person. I love gossip at times because what I see from a particular person is anything but and unless I spend time with you personally chances are my opinon on you won't be solid.

Pretty much. I believe all Aquas have a strong sense of self and that includes me.

I've fallen into that before with the people I've dated, some have asked me to stop contacting my ex girlfriends or just female friends in general and usually when that happens I usually say "I have no time for people with insecurities". It might be blunt but I choose the people in my life.

That goes without saying I know some guys might string a girl along but when I date someone I tend to focus my energy on them. I can't multitask when it comes to my heart it's always just one girl at a time. I make this clear to them. I expect trust to be built over time, not something that's asked for.