Aquas and sex...

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lammal23
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I cannot speak for all Aquas, but I have quite a bit of Aqua in my chart. I'm not as sexual as others, because I feel a closer connection to a person in other ways. Don't get me wrong, I love having sex. I just find that I view it much differently than most of the people I've dated.

Sometimes, I like variety and fun and games. Most times, I prefer something more passionate and meaningful... Something to add to the bond created outside of the sexual aspect of the relationship.

However, I do not get any enjoyment out of sex if there isn't a deeper understanding and connection outside of the bedroom. I need to know we are compatible mentally first... then I'm able to connect emotionally. If someone tries to push for the other way around... the relationship just ends up feeling fake. I'd rather make my fairytale feel a bit more real.
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Lol jeez! You guys chewed away at my thread! Let me explain... I read somewhere that sex was more like a fun game for aquas (like it could be gigily and silly) and sex has nothing to do with emotion for them!

Also my aqua never made a moan a groan nuthin during sex! Not up until recently! The sex was just ok up until recently! Now its on a whole other level! For instance now he's puttin music on setting the mood... Tells me its good and so on (tmi)...

Those are the only reasons i'm askin cause he went from nothin to a whole lot of somethin! And i'm lovin it!
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In my experience....when an Aqua's kind of into you he'll more than likely hold off on the sex....it might happen every so often in a drunk impulsive moment. You KNOW he's REALLY into when all of a sudden he can't fucking get enough!! And when he is REALLY in love with you his entire style changes...yes he becomes rather loving and gentle and caring all combined with a touch of perverse kinkiness (so you'd better not be the straight up and down conventional type either).
They are indeed very good lovers and again in my experience, take pleasure in your pleasure.
As for initiation....don't try it before that in love stage...it'll put him under pressure when he's not really sure (I truly believe an Aqua needs to "feel" a lot before he can truly give himself to you (quite contrary considering they come across as open minded and free-spirited), however once he's turned the tables and is now pursuing you with nothing but lustful intentions do by ALL means initiate...whenever, wherever - he LOVES IT!

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honeygirl
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Ok this is how me and my aqua ended up together! So tell me if this is bad!?

We work together so we had known eachother for 6 months prior to hooking up... We always ate lunch together we talked laughed flirted and so on for the longest! I never asked him for his number he never asked for mine! I always have had this big no no attitude about dating someone I work with and come to find out so did he! One of our coworkers was leaving the company after 5 years so he was having a get together at a local bar! We both drink hennesy and they have this new cognac out so he made plans for us to try it at the bar that weekend (of course this is at work during our lunch break) I was leaving before him so he told me to text him if they had the drink and I said I don't have your number! That was when he gave me his number! That night at the bar we talked the whole time! It was early so we planned on goin out to the club afterward we went home to change! We were waitin on a few other people that were houn with my friend Daryl which is also a friend of his picked me up and we ended up picking up him and his roomate too! We went to the club that night we talked about relationships and so on and we ended up back at his place and we ended up sleeping together...

After that weekend he was makin all these plans for us! He asked me to take a vacatupb with him and where did I want to go? Then asked me if I wanted to spend the whole day with him that next Saturday! With all his aloofness the next couple of weekends I felt like it was turning into a sex only relationship so I broke it off with him! And because of that! I told him it seemed as though it was turning into a sex thing and that wasn't what I was looking for! That the relationship wasn't for me! A week or so later he had walked up to me at work saying that I must be really mad at him and so on! And I told him I wasn't that I was just disappointed! You guys know the story! We planned to have dinner and talk about it but we never did we just started over and left that all behind! Since then we have spent a whole lot more time together he asks for my input on purchases he makes for his new condo his new car his clothes whatever! And like I said the sex got different! He'll just want me to lay next to him so he can feel my skin! He's turnin on music and so on!

So is it bad or doomed that we slept together pretty much in the beginning! I told him that I wasn't ready that night that it was too soon! And I didn't w