Aquas = dramaqueens

kay sorry for being away for so long, college got me really busy, but if some of you may remember there was an aqua girl in my life with the boyfriend, we just keep going back and forth, she gets pissed off at me one day says bunch of crap, then apologizes right after or day after, and we just keep doing it over and over and over again, one day she tells me that she never had a guy like me who she could be so open with, next day she tells me how could she let herself even talk to a guy like me, then i blow her away and she apologizes hugs me and kisses me, every day she will catch on to my words and find something "mean" that i said, you know some people have stupid jokes, i have sarcastic jokes, but they arent meant to make anyone mad, well they get her, anyway, i dont know how to get rid of her in a nice way, she is gorgeous, but at the same time she sticks to her bf. i tried pushing her away didnt work, she started resolving our differences and it ended up of her being really sweet to me for a couple of days, but I SEE NO FUTURE in our relationship, and i feel like im being her plan B, I moved on long ago and just donno what to do with her..

im abusive? from my perspective im being abused, if she was sexually active (shes virgin) she would say sorry with sex

I'm really not trying to be sarcastic, but isn't putting your sights on a girl with a boyfriend kind of setting yourself up to be a "Plan B," as you put it?

If you think she's sensitive, and for women in particular, it would be probably helpful to know her moon sign.

As always exempt has a point.

Tell her the truth no sarcasm or putting it lightly. Just tell her I don't think this will work out because of A, B & C. Then cut off communication, stop seeing her. You can say what you want but in the end if your still talking/seeing her she will just think your in a mood or you don't mean what you say or your playing hard to get. You don't have to be mean with what you say, be tactful. Just tell her the truth and stick to your guns. You'll be fine.

Hopefully she's in an open relationship with her bf. If not if he finds out...drama can be brought to you. So be prepared for that,just in case. If she's really into drama and doesn't want to let you go, this IS a possibility. My best friend is a female aqua. Her scenario in the past sounds like yours. When the guy cut her off completely she got pissed and wanted to get to him. So she told her boyfriend about the affair and all hell broke loose. Her bf came to the guy on the side and she was there. She tried to be the mediator and stop the fight (she relished this) even though she started it. It was her way of seeing the guy on the side again. After the fight she tried to tend to both parties. The guy on the other side didn't want anything to do with her so she still pursued him. Didn't matter though in the end she ended up alone. She still holds a candle for the guy on the side and thinks of him as the one who got away.

Be careful about getting into relationships with girls who are already taken. Sounds fun at first but doesn't always end up fun. Someone usually catches feelings and it muddles everything up.

Posted by tbird

Hopefully she's in an open relationship with her bf. If not if he finds out...drama can be brought to you. So be prepared for that,just in case. If she's really into drama and doesn't want to let you go, this IS a possibility. My best friend is a female aqua. Her scenario in the past sounds like yours. When the guy cut her off completely she got pissed and wanted to get to him. So she told her boyfriend about the affair and all hell broke loose. Her bf came to the guy on the side and she was there. She tried to be the mediator and stop the fight (she relished this) even though she started it. It was her way of seeing the guy on the side again. After the fight she tried to tend to both parties. The guy on the other side didn't want anything to do with her so she still pursued him. Didn't matter though in the end she ended up alone. She still holds a candle for the guy on the side and thinks of him as the one who got away.

Holy shit, what a story. Aquarius can be so relentless, haha!

"Holy shit, what a story. Aquarius can be so relentless, haha!"

Amen honey. She told me everything and I just stared at her not hatefully. Us mermaids/mermen listen carefully and enthusiastically but we don't judge (usually lol). I just kept saying are you sure this is the right way to go about this Liz? She would say I know what I'm doing. I know how to handle him, just watch and see. You need to take a page out of my book hun, guys will come crawling to you.

I just said ok Liz and shrugged my shoulders and laughed in my head. With her I know you can't talk her out of something that she made her mind up on. So I just sat back and let her do her thing. Funny thing is after he was done with it all she said why didn't you talk me out of it? I just laughed and said don't pin that crap on me Missy. You said you knew what you were doing.

Smoke crack and maintain

@aquadisel: trust me she told me everything. I just didn't post everything. The story was about my best friend and I. I didn't judge her I still love her to death. I think she handled the situation inappropriately but I didn't tell her that. She has her own life to live as do I and others. She's a great, great friend and I cherish her dearly. I just don't take relationship advise from her lol. We both have different ways about going about things.

That line of take a book out of my page and guys will come crawling to you is something she (my best friend Liz in the story) said to me.

She didn't dump the ex because he was good in bed. She told me herself. She said he was a good fuc* but he's not great in everything else. The other guy was her "dream guy" (in all other aspects) but she didn't want to let the good sex go. She has the mentality of a man. She tells me that all the time that she should of been born a man.

We (my best friend and I) talk about everything, I mean everything. Nothing is a secret. We've been friends for about 15 years and talk daily.

I hope that cleared up somethings. If you have questions or anything feel free to let me know luv.

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Posted by tbird

Hopefully she's in an open relationship with her bf. If not if he finds out...drama can be brought to you. So be prepared for that,just in case. If she's really into drama and doesn't want to let you go, this IS a possibility. My best friend is a female aqua. Her scenario in the past sounds like yours. When the guy cut her off completely she got pissed and wanted to get to him. So she told her boyfriend about the affair and all hell broke loose. Her bf came to the guy on the side and she was there. She tried to be the mediator and stop the fight (she relished this) even though she started it. It was her way of seeing the guy on the side again. After the fight she tried to tend to both parties. The guy on the other side didn't want anything to do with her so she still pursued him. Didn't matter though in the end she ended up alone. She still holds a candle for the guy on the side and thinks of him as the one who got away.

Holy shit, what a story. Aquarius can be so relentless, haha!

nah i think aquarius is just kind and lets people overstepping/crossing the line and their feelings too much... in theory we shudnt do that in practice its hard to do that!!!

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Relentless isn't a pejorative (—) Not to anyone I know, at least. And that wasn't what I meant. I meant sort of rigidly goal-oriented, which I think you'll find in a lot of descriptions of Aquarius. I mean it's a fixed sign, after all.

And still, I must say...holy shit, what a story 🙂

Posted by piscarian
Smoke crack and maintain

At least you have a plan 🙂

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Posted by extempjunk
I'm really not trying to be sarcastic, but isn't putting your sights on a girl with a boyfriend kind of setting yourself up to be a "Plan B," as you put it?

This one.
Plus, if she doesn't like sarcasm or get it, aren't you fighting a losing battle ?

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i never lose

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Posted by KingOfAries
im abusive? from my perspective im being abused, if she was sexually active (shes virgin) she would say sorry with sex

well us virgins r virgins for a reason...

then look elsewhere wtf u want from her— if she sticks with her bf, its becos she only likes him, which is it, 2ndly if she is virgin an u want sex from someone and u get abusive bcos u dont like that, then fuck off with a slut, too simple.i dont actually get ppl who get mean to have sex, if u really want sex then go get it elsewhere. anyway ur 100% abusive u need to get to the nearest mental hospital ASAP!!! and i mean to get MEAN!!!!

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never said i wanted sex, never said i needed her she is very nice and sweet thats all, but in a long run i dont think we would be a match

Posted by 1urbanicblue
lol what everyone says.

that's why two aqua girls together if they're not good friends, ohhhh boy. danger danger danger. j/k.

but srsly, i can see how these women get off on that. read books, seen films, ect on it.

it's the ultimate power trip for them. they dont realise that it hurts people and people aren't toy soldiers.
maybe insecurity too. don't know.

her boyfriend is also aquarius, they fight often, she is dressing sometimes top notch i think because of insecurity or after fights with her bf