Being Alone

Do other aquas feel like it's impossible to be emotionally alone, without someone to shower love on? If you do feel this way, do you think it's normal for us? I don't like it at all, but the thought of having some superficial relationship with someone also sounds horrible.

Im not not sure if your saying you never are without people to shower your love on or that as an aqua you so much love to give but never seem to find anyone worthy of your love? I can agree be in a relationship just to give love does seem pretty superficial.

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Im not not sure if your saying you never are without people to shower your love on or that as an aqua you so much love to give but never seem to find anyone worthy of your love? I can agree be in a relationship just to give love does seem pretty superficial.

The second one, I have so much love to give and rarely find anyone worth giving it to. I also have a hard time finding close friends because I like to be very private. I don't like to give love to people who don't appreciate it and I don't like to bear my soul to people who will tell everyone else about it.

Yes that is quite the typical dilemma of an aqua

Posted by rachelsnow12
Hi there, I feel that way. It's not that I necessarily feel that I HAVE to be in a relationship (although I would like to be), but I have a need to to go above and beyond for someone. To take care of, to nurture, to give and do whatever I can to show that I care. Without that, I feel... like I have no purpose?

Luckily, I have my family and my best friend for me to give myself to, but it would be nice to be able to give it to someone that I can be romantic and affectionate with as well.

Right. I want to give someone worthy a part of my love, but it's hard finding someone worthy and sometimes the worthy someone doesn't feel the same way back.

Posted by feb16aqua
I know I have so much love to give. But I'm limited by myself and my own insecurities.

I think my insecurities have shrunk a little and now I don't know how to handle the new parts of me that I'm seeing. :/

Hmm I can say I know how you feel. I can't stand a relationship for the sake of a relationship. People also have to be in them it's kinda in a way how they define themself. I really have set my standards pretty high over the past 5 years very VERY few have even come close to meeting and one of them I have shown interest in but I doubt it will go anywhere. However, this one who has met pretty much it all BUT yeah she is a scorpio and either is attempting some mental war with me or I fact really is not interested BUT somehow I don't think that's true BECUASE it would mean I'd have to be borderline delusional!
From my own experience never compromise and be in a relationship just to give love.. It will never work because it will never truly satisfy you and the other person will see this and it will kill thier desire and passion as well. That being said, don't hoard love either. Sometimes the people who need love the most are those who don't diserve it or are worthy of true love. You'll find no matter how they act or what they say those true acts of love will always have a profound impact on that individual over time.... I know because I've witnessed it first hand in my short-lived life.

Try and stay humble and learn from the patience of a Scorpio their patience in a lot of ways is quite admirable. The following URL is to a thread seraph made with a new video by Alyssa Sharpe with what she loves about Aquarius. If you know nothing about her I think you might find it quite profound how despite the fact that the only other person she committed to in her life was an Aqua who broke her heart, she still finds the motivation to make this very encouraging video about us. She normally can ways find something bad about everyone especially us haha and of all the videos about what she loves about certain signs this one seems the most sincere and from the heart!

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/hey-aquas-3691054/
Enjoy 🙂

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Hmm I can say I know how you feel. I can't stand a relationship for the sake of a relationship. People also have to be in them it's kinda in a way how they define themself. I really have set my standards pretty high over the past 5 years very VERY few have even come close to meeting and one of them I have shown interest in but I doubt it will go anywhere. However, this one who has met pretty much it all BUT yeah she is a scorpio and either is attempting some mental war with me or I fact really is not interested BUT somehow I don't think that's true BECUASE it would mean I'd have to be borderline delusional!
From my own experience never compromise and be in a relationship just to give love.. It will never work because it will never truly satisfy you and the other person will see this and it will kill thier desire and passion as well. That being said, don't hoard love either. Sometimes the people who need love the most are those who don't diserve it or are worthy of true love. You'll find no matter how they act or what they say those true acts of love will always have a profound impact on that individual over time.... I know because I've witnessed it first hand in my short-lived life.

Try and stay humble and learn from the patience of a Scorpio their patience in a lot of ways is quite admirable. The following URL is to a thread seraph made with a new video by Alyssa Sharpe with what she loves about Aquarius. If you know nothing about her I think you might find it quite profound how despite the fact that the only other person she committed to in her life was an Aqua who broke her heart, she still finds the motivation to make this very encouraging video about us. She normally can ways find something bad about everyone especially us haha and of all the videos about what she loves about certain signs this one seems the most sincere and from the heart!

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/hey-aquas-3691054/
Enjoy 🙂

Yeah, I've just encountered a relationship that is what I want exactly and may never be more than friends (even though it was for a moment). Now I have this even higher standard. I guess I get impatient with not having someone to give love to because the future possibilities seem so far away. I see the options, I know where I like to hang out, and I know that I'm probably not going to find a deep connection i

Gotta love how dxp cuts your posts off haha

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Gotta love how dxp cuts your posts off haha

Oh crud. What was I even saying?

Oh.

...deep connection in the places where I like to hang out. But I don't want to have to find a new crowd to find deeper people. I want to do what I like with someone deep. I'm ready to find someone who is my friend and more.

Well I think if you don't look so hard you might find it faster than you think or at least you'll be so busy with other stuff that the time between now and when you meet will go by way faster. Your an Aqua go out and learn everything you want to about life and enjoy yourself. You should be an excellent conversationalist just talk with people and if they no longer show you interest just move on to the next one there are always more people out there to communicate with.... No one can tie you down and no one can have power over you unless you submit and allow it. Use your personality to your advantage.

Pick up a hobby! Sports, sewing, drawing, music-mixing, journaling, sculpturing, LOADS of things and stuff to do out there.
My hubby has hobbies too and goodness sakes, we are most of the time sitting side by side doing our hobbies but being together. If i were all up in eachother's space, but still together in the same room, but you can pick up a BOOK, loads of FUN books out there. What do you like? If you like astrology, go do RESEARCH....loads and loads of actors/historian figures/celebrities. Find out their partners, and their charts, go make a journal of it. It will take HOURS and you won't know what to do with yourself. Take up special tv programs you love too!! tons and TONS out there. Make your own. Are you creative?? Do that. Don't wait around for a man or a woman to do your bidding. They will come when you are not even focusing on wanting a committed relationship. Do you like the outdoors? Pick up hiking, rock climbing, smell the ocean even in late winter. Driving? There you go. Take up race-car driving. Loads of men love race car driving, although that is an expensive hobby. Soon, before you know it, you don't even realize it....but you LOVE your company!

Well, its true, most people are unworthy of it in my opinion. I want somebody to be straight up with me & I must FEEL that they are being real otherwise they'll get nothing. Few people are genuine tbh so why must I give my all to a phony? Personally, I've only loved once, trully loved a man...all the others were "likes" until I didnt like them anymore, which i do faster btw. My feelings change constantly lol

I'm actually quite the opposite.

Being emotionally alone is okay with me I don't feel the need to drown someone with it if it's not reciprocated nor do I feel excessive need to go out of my way and be with someone.

Is it really loving to be with someone? Is loving giving or taking? If you love them then shouldn't it mean in some sense you cater to their needs and wants? What if that includes removing yourself from them? If you miss this fact then isn't it more of a selfish love?

If it's superficial why bother?

Maybe I've given up on finding people to bond with on a deeper level or meaning, who's to say you shouldn't work at something to find it rather than just drifting everywhere til it hits you in the face. Drop all the guards, drop all the preconceived bullshit and just open yourself to one person that cares for you.

The more you let whatever idea or past experiences or 'new found' knowledge dictate where you go you might as well just give up.

Posted by Gandalf
I will wait for the right person. my love is something special and you should feel treetrunking important😛

That one special cookiemonster in our lives!

Posted by Gandalf
yep. I am a leo male. I feel like i need a queen here😛 I don't want commoners lol.

Are you worth it? Lol :p

Posted by ScorpioFemale79

Posted by Gandalf
yep. I am a leo male. I feel like i need a queen here😛 I don't want commoners lol.

Are you worth it? Lol :p

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Lol. I want to get a Loreal' worth it....

aww look at u aquas being all emotional..its so cute lol