OMG, this aqua guy in my life is actually making me feel..i dont know, like, scared in a good way?! He is super tactile, romantic, and tonight is making me dinner at his place. Eek, this wasnt the plan (it was my secret plan all along )!! he just wanted to be FWB, and now the love is creeping in. So why am I freaking out? I am enjoying it, and I love his company..it doesnt make sense. But in your defense guys, cold, aloof Aqua's..where?!
whoahhhh!
Aqua/libra relationships are to be avoided at all cost lol, they'll swallow you alive... very addictive. But i know this is not your 1st aqua so you know the effects of the combo, enjoy the love and dont overdose on the drug that is aqualib.
It's a risk im willing to take..i think! It is the best combo when its going goooood, i wont think about the negatives, yet π
aquarius men are a strange breed. It depends on his placements too, because some men can detect bullshit. And some men are just around to get some you know what and play with you. (players)
just be careful. If you are the type of girl that plays with men and is not serious for commitment, then that's your own answer.
just be careful. If you are the type of girl that plays with men and is not serious for commitment, then that's your own answer.
That's sweet to hear Sola π Excited for you for sure!
I still think about my Leeb sometimes! To me it was like I could show her the fun and I know she would be just as mesmerized by the world as I am. Where as the Sag knew how to have fun π Maybe you're finally getting a glimpse of his world?
I still think about my Leeb sometimes! To me it was like I could show her the fun and I know she would be just as mesmerized by the world as I am. Where as the Sag knew how to have fun π Maybe you're finally getting a glimpse of his world?
Sola, what have been the negatives of this combo in your opinion?
umm, negatives i have had is that they were eventually unfaithful or violent π’ But you know, there were also a thousand good things i experienced too. This particular guy has a lot of pisces in his chart, maybe thats why he is so non-typically aqua, but just enough to keep me interested in a weird way! Mmmm, lets see how it all works out (or not)??!!
Yeah I got some Pisces too Venus and mars lol... I guess that makes me different hopefully in a good way ^.^
Posted by Bohemianrhapsody74Posted by Sola
umm, negatives i have had is that they were eventually unfaithful or violent π’ But you know, there were also a thousand good things i experienced too. This particular guy has a lot of pisces in his chart, maybe thats why he is so non-typically aqua, but just enough to keep me interested in a weird way! Mmmm, lets see how it all works out (or not)??!!
I always heard this combo was the best! Good Luck to you....aquas are complex but always intriguing! πclick to expand
well it depends. Christian Bale would have said "Aries" woman.
which he is married to.
it all depends.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Yeah I got some Pisces too Venus and mars lol... I guess that makes me different hopefully in a good way ^.^
I believe so too, loads of creative and imaginative men with these placements no matter the sun sign. π
you guys are SOUGHT after, no matter the sun sign/moon sign of the woman. You guys have to fend off the women.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Yeah I got some Pisces too Venus and mars lol... I guess that makes me different hopefully in a good way ^.^
I believe so too, loads of creative and imaginative men with these placements no matter the sun sign. π
you guys are SOUGHT after, no matter the sun sign/moon sign of the woman. You guys have to fend off the women.click to expand
Wow that was a very nice thing to say lisabeth! Thanks
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Yeah I got some Pisces too Venus and mars lol... I guess that makes me different hopefully in a good way ^.^
I believe so too, loads of creative and imaginative men with these placements no matter the sun sign. π
you guys are SOUGHT after, no matter the sun sign/moon sign of the woman. You guys have to fend off the women.click to expand
delicate pisces placement people after hearing those words:
Posted by aquasnozPosted by lisabethur8Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Yeah I got some Pisces too Venus and mars lol... I guess that makes me different hopefully in a good way ^.^
I believe so too, loads of creative and imaginative men with these placements no matter the sun sign. π
you guys are SOUGHT after, no matter the sun sign/moon sign of the woman. You guys have to fend off the women.
delicate pisces placement people after hearing those words:
click to expand
OMG I can barely type this messages... You've literally killed me with laughter!
Posted by aquasnozPosted by lisabethur8Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Yeah I got some Pisces too Venus and mars lol... I guess that makes me different hopefully in a good way ^.^
I believe so too, loads of creative and imaginative men with these placements no matter the sun sign. π
you guys are SOUGHT after, no matter the sun sign/moon sign of the woman. You guys have to fend off the women.
delicate pisces placement people after hearing those words:
click to expand
aw that's so cute.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquariusPosted by lisabethur8Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Yeah I got some Pisces too Venus and mars lol... I guess that makes me different hopefully in a good way ^.^
I believe so too, loads of creative and imaginative men with these placements no matter the sun sign. π
you guys are SOUGHT after, no matter the sun sign/moon sign of the woman. You guys have to fend off the women.
Wow that was a very nice thing to say lisabeth! Thanksclick to expand
you're welcome. I was looking for some venus/mars guys, and heath Ledger, rest in peace....
starred in "10 things i hate about you." and batman roles.
You know yesterday me and the Aqua went out for a drive and stopped for lunch..and then at the end of the trip went home and had amazing as ever sex. Great! So later i sent him a very short text to say I had enjoyed the day and his company and he says this:
"Ditto, it was a nice afternoon for sure..i love a drive in the sun! You're a good pal, and a great girl - shame you dislike womankind so much though Xx"..(i dont get on easily with my own fair sex)!!
Anyway..the problem is "A GOOD PAL", I mean I know we still haven't defined our relationship as bf/gf as such, but come on, dont buy me shitloads for Valentine's Day, see me 5 days out of 7, cook me dinner, go on "dates" and then hit me with PAL..grrr. I can see the "conversation" happening this week: please planets, be in my favour (especially you Venus)!!!
"Ditto, it was a nice afternoon for sure..i love a drive in the sun! You're a good pal, and a great girl - shame you dislike womankind so much though Xx"..(i dont get on easily with my own fair sex)!!
Anyway..the problem is "A GOOD PAL", I mean I know we still haven't defined our relationship as bf/gf as such, but come on, dont buy me shitloads for Valentine's Day, see me 5 days out of 7, cook me dinner, go on "dates" and then hit me with PAL..grrr. I can see the "conversation" happening this week: please planets, be in my favour (especially you Venus)!!!
Posted by Sola
You know yesterday me and the Aqua went out for a drive and stopped for lunch..and then at the end of the trip went home and had amazing as ever sex. Great! So later i sent him a very short text to say I had enjoyed the day and his company and he says this:
"Ditto, it was a nice afternoon for sure..i love a drive in the sun! You're a good pal, and a great girl - shame you dislike womankind so much though Xx"..(i dont get on easily with my own fair sex)!!
Anyway..the problem is "A GOOD PAL", I mean I know we still haven't defined our relationship as bf/gf as such, but come on, dont buy me shitloads for Valentine's Day, see me 5 days out of 7, cook me dinner, go on "dates" and then hit me with PAL..grrr. I can see the "conversation" happening this week: please planets, be in my favour (especially you Venus)!!!
heeeeyyyy you're venus ruled lady!! π Venus libra.
oh yeah, i want to say the "L" word, its just getting stuck..it wont come out!
Posted by Sola
oh yeah, i want to say the "L" word, its just getting stuck..it wont come out!
aren't you venus dominant? at least in libra for sure since that's your sun sign?
do your castration!!!! if he's uranus dominant ruled.
(astro speak here)
π
doesn't mean you really have to do it literally. Men don't like that. They RUN!!!
I think thats the problem!! I want to say it, but experience tells me to wait (maybe he will say it first)!! He has just called, he's taking me to the theatre on Wed night..oooohhhhh!!
Posted by Sola
I think thats the problem!! I want to say it, but experience tells me to wait (maybe he will say it first)!! He has just called, he's taking me to the theatre on Wed night..oooohhhhh!!
There's a particular placement I like to call Aries that makes me say these mushy things because I can't hold back what I'm feeling. So according to that my advice is: Say it! lol
On that note I think it's endearing he's calling you good pal and great girl because according to what they say about Aquas you can't get any better than that.
Thank you Aquanoz..you always make me see the positive side π
Yeah, when the moment is right....
Yeah, when the moment is right....
But you know i just checked on Plenty of Fish (thats how we met) and the litlle fucker is available to chat. I knew he was being weird today, and he told me just Saturday that he was going to take his profile off π’ He tells me he chats and he shows me the girls, he talks to while it goes in one of my ears and out the other, and then he feels bad about being an asshole and makes us hot-chocolate! Hmm, cant help but (sometimes) feel like i dont know what the hell im doing? Silly libra!
I never mention it, its always him! I wouldn't ever ask him to remove it, really he has no idea how i feel about him, and if i asked he would know that it kinda bothers me (even though he's just using it to avoid doing what he really should be doing, like uni stuff)!! Hence my need to have this lovey dovey-ish conversation with him, soon! It' time he knew, and time i stopped being fearful of emotions!
me too! It could also (potentially) be the worst moment of my life π’ Imagine..r-r-r-r-r-rejection, eek!
The deal im making with myself is that i will say it when the profile vanishes..thats the "sign" that he's ready to be serious-ish. Fair, right?!
Sola, I think you're smart to wait until he takes that profile down. Good thing is, he told you he was going to - and he will. π Does that sight let you know the last time they were on line? That will help you know more, won't it.
Just for some moral support - I told mine first in text by accident. Ended a text with luv ya. Just like my BFFs. Didn't scare him off. Actually, things got better. A couple months later I said it while we were joking "that's okay baby I love ya anyway". Didn't scare him off. Then I got braver and whispered it in his ear one night. He didn't say it back, but things have gotten better and better. So I'm really not scared to say it anymore. I'm okay with him not saying it back, but I do wish he would for my own reassurances.
So, when he does take that profile down, just go for it!!!
Just for some moral support - I told mine first in text by accident. Ended a text with luv ya. Just like my BFFs. Didn't scare him off. Actually, things got better. A couple months later I said it while we were joking "that's okay baby I love ya anyway". Didn't scare him off. Then I got braver and whispered it in his ear one night. He didn't say it back, but things have gotten better and better. So I'm really not scared to say it anymore. I'm okay with him not saying it back, but I do wish he would for my own reassurances.
So, when he does take that profile down, just go for it!!!
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