Aqua cold turkey

lol theres alot of endings with aqua`s at the moe..

Lets see how well everyone does during the cold turkey process, Im curious 😄

so when you are weak,sad, angry, wanna spit or pie in the face, come on in and puke up ya soul.

Please be respectful to the aqua`s in here don`t generalise coz i love them in here 🙂

Day 6

Ok im on radio silence, a whole 6 days woo! ive been quite good at this.. He is actually probably relieved!! or really doesnt give much of a shit to care too much anyways lol

No guy chasing here! ;D

Proud elle!

Posted by feb16aqua
Thank you 🙂 The sincerity in your words is very endearing to me. We just love to spread the love, and we are loyal with it 🙂

Ive got loads of aqua placements ;D .. Its all about the love baby! ;D

Hmm I hate my sign sometimes lol

Im glad your being strong

I think personally that if your are not told they will do this or lightly kept in contact with, unless its not a serious relationship, he is just being immature.

Does it count as contact if we are BOTH posting "I am totally cool and happy with my life" Facebook statuses? lol He never posts on facebook but this whole week he's matched me. Status for status, photo for photo, video for video. No phone calls, no texts, no emails, no actual desire to contact him though. I finally realize he'll 100% come back when I DON'T try to prove I'm the best thing he'll ever get. With my ex's I always thought I could charm my way back...now I realize, that doesn't work and if he comes back...awesome...if he doesn't...at least I didn't sacrifice my integrity.

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Hmm I hate my sign sometimes lol

Im glad your being strong

I think personally that if your are not told they will do this or lightly kept in contact with, unless its not a serious relationship, he is just being immature.

I read the riot act and now i refuse to speak hmmppff! dont think hes noticed though ...lmao!

Told him i thought he was UNAPRECIATIVE! UNGRATEFUL! and totally fawking RUDE! .. oh and to delete me if theres "no genuine mutual respect, Go on1 just DELETE!"... he read it O_o but hasnt deleted, still!!! lol,

im going to cut off his ego fix and entertainment supply, indeedy I am 🙂

I CAN DO THIS!!

Posted by Gem85
Does it count as contact if we are BOTH posting "I am totally cool and happy with my life" Facebook statuses? lol He never posts on facebook but this whole week he's matched me. Status for status, photo for photo, video for video. No phone calls, no texts, no emails, no actual desire to contact him though. I finally realize he'll 100% come back when I DON'T try to prove I'm the best thing he'll ever get. With my ex's I always thought I could charm my way back...now I realize, that doesn't work and if he comes back...awesome...if he doesn't...at least I didn't sacrifice my integrity.

As long as no direct contact although thats probs obvious who its aimed at lol so hmmmmn its still a fix young lady!

We are a tough bunch to figure out. I now i can be a pain to my gem gf but i do love her. So i try very hard not to be too out there. Stay strong and true to yourself it will work out for the best either way.

In what way do you think you are a pain and too out there?

Posted by ElleSeCache
In what way do you think you are a pain and too out there?

Well for starters i never tell her my plans until there final. My anti mushy way of showing affection is not the norm. I ve been known to play naughty pranks by mimicing emotions can and does drive her crazy. Heck my sense of humor is off beat as i love subtle sarcasm and word play. I can agrue points that i know are wrong just to practice debating. I have to literally tell her if I am upset or grumpy because i dont show it.

Hang in there Elle!!!

ok how many days was that— 😄 ... 19 days, after telling him exactly what i felt and telling him to delete me if there`s no genuine mutual respect.. well he kinda didnt lol .. so i sent him a great big fat smiley, he sent back a wink, i said kiss me or lose me forever, he has been crazy ass lusting like ive never seen in him over the last 2 days, non stop flirting and he hasnt shut up, i told him he isnt coming any where near me until hes treated me out on a date lol.. hes up for that, i told him hes all talk about it all bla bla bla.. he`s adamant he`s not .. lol

;D

Not that we're together but I remember aqua man was out if town for work for a week. He still communicated every other day either be email or phone. Even in bday he took the day off to work his other job (busiest day if the year for his other job). He managed to send an email and then called about that same email lol. I even joked that its the busiest time of the year at his other job and hes found time to call? He laughed got quiet then proceeded to ask how things were going for me

Point is anyone that wants to come back will try to come back if:

A. They want to come back and;
B. they see there's a glimmer of hope

yeah, but sometimes they just need a gentle nudge in the right direction!

Have your own life and keep it light that is how you get and keep an Aqua man. The biggest question is not whether they will come back but, whether they are worth your time. Better get to livin' and if you are pinin', plottin, and/or schemin'...you ain't livin'.