Cancer woman & Aqua man, what do you think?

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cancerrose
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I posted in relationship forum, but didn't get any responses.

What do y'all aquas think of this:

Me: cancer sun, gemini rising, gemini moon, cancer venus
Him: aqua sun, gemini rising, scorpio moon, capricorn venus

We were in a relationship 4-5 years ago, fell in love very quickly and very deeply... but due to immaturity, insecurities, we broke up.

We've recently gotten back in contact. I miss him and realise we can still talk forever about nonsense, I can be silly and he won't judge... I don't know how he feels about me, or if he misses me... but I'd like to tell him I think about him still. Bad idea?

I've dated others since him but I always compared them to him, I'm 99% sure hes not in a relationship right now
If I tell him how I feel will it scare him off, or should I wait to see if he brings it up? We may just be catching up only as friends but who knows?! Do you think we are a good match or not according to our chart?

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I can't speak for other aspects of your charts, but my Gemini Moon didn't work well at all with my ex's Scorpio Moon. At that time I didn't know better and didn't really know how to stand up for myself. I am not saying our relationship was entirely bad but in retrospect my social Gemini Moon just finds Scorpio Moon too controlling for my taste.

Still like I said, there's other aspects I can't say much about, I have a couple of friends a Cancer/Pisces Moon girl and an Aquarius guy who have been together forever and seem to be making it work well between them.
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Aqua male, cancer female is THE best match in the zodiac! Each sign teaches the other what they lack, cancers teach aquas how to be more vulnerable and emotional and aquas teach cancers how to be more logical and grounded. I was so unemotional and detached before I met my cancer. Without me realizing that it was happening she had me wrapped around her little finger (and didn't do it intentionally). It was just that she was of such a pure heart that it wore off on me. She taught me how to love others and to even love myself.
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Aqua male, cancer female is THE best match in the zodiac! Each sign teaches the other what they lack, cancers teach aquas how to be more vulnerable and emotional and aquas teach cancers how to be more logical and grounded. I was so unemotional and detached before I met my cancer. Without me realizing that it was happening she had me wrapped around her little finger (and didn't do it intentionally). It was just that she was of such a pure heart that it wore off on me. She taught me how to love others and to even love myself.
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Aqua male, cancer female is THE best match in the zodiac! Each sign teaches the other what they lack, cancers teach aquas how to be more vulnerable and emotional and aquas teach cancers how to be more logical and grounded. I was so unemotional and detached before I met my cancer. Without me realizing that it was happening she had me wrapped around her little finger (and didn't do it intentionally). It was just that she was of such a pure heart that it wore off on me. She taught me how to love others and to even love myself.
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hahaha My ex is a cancerian we still see each other now and then??_..he was my first BF when I was 20 and we have always stayed in touch and consider each other to be family??_

He teaches me a lot about everyday things and I love that also his outlook and perspective on things are so different to mine and others that I find him very interesting and he has the best sense of humour in the world and finds the funniness in a lot of situations that I would go apeshit over??_its like every bad situation is an opportunity for him to make an outrageous irreverent joke..

It weird that I don't know why I don't love him like I used to he's made many attempts to get back with me but its the pressure that pushes me away always and I can't stand it??_..he doesn't understand space and its like he makes a conscious effort to push forward every time I pull away??_.living together is out of the question??_..on and off again relationship is probably better for us lol..

The thing I love about cancerians is that they aren't normal people, on the outside they may look normal but underneath they are fucking mental crazy people and I find it interesting.
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The 11th sign, YEEESSSS this is her all of the way!!! My cancer crush is so fucking funny it's ridiculous. And she has varying types of funny that conveniently come in handy in the worst and best of situations. Sometimes I would look at her in amazement and just wonder how she can be so open with anyone and so clever and witty. And her laugh will just make you want to laugh. It makes you feel at ease. And yes! In the beginning it was really hard to trust or deal with her because she appeared to be so fucking crazy. But as I got to know her I realized that there is some type of order to her crazy...and then soon got hooked on it. It's energizing and refreshing. It's like you never know what will come out of her mouth or how and when it will come out. The stuff she says is way outrageous but after you finish laughing for the first time and think about what was said a second time, you get the full picture and the deeper meaning behind the joke and laugh for a second and third time. Plus she's really smart and artistic and I think that has something to do with it too. I love her outlook. Sometimes the types of philosophies and deep thinking she would spew would be utterly amazing and impressive (especially when she would tell a shear joke that hit the heart after dropping some major truth). The way her mind works and switches back and forth between a million things is so crazy (yet awesome) that you would think she was performing for an audience or something.

But see. The thing about my cancer is that she is so distant (even before my mistaje happened). She's not clingy and definitely kows her boundaries (and puts up some serious boundaries). She would ever call or text and that actually bothered me about her. It made me insecure.

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The 11th sign, YEEESSSS this is her all of the way!!! My cancer crush is so fucking funny it's ridiculous. And she has varying types of funny that conveniently come in handy in the worst and best of situations. Sometimes I would look at her in amazement and just wonder how she can be so open with anyone and so clever and witty. And her laugh will just make you want to laugh. It makes you feel at ease. And yes! In the beginning it was really hard to trust or deal with her because she appeared to be so fucking crazy. But as I got to know her I realized that there is some type of order to her crazy...and then soon got hooked on it. It's energizing and refreshing. It's like you never know what will come out of her mouth or how and when it will come out. The stuff she says is way outrageous but after you finish laughing for the first time and think about what was said a second time, you get the full picture and the deeper meaning behind the joke and laugh for a second and third time. Plus she's really smart and artistic and I think that has something to do with it too. I love her outlook. Sometimes the types of philosophies and deep thinking she would spew would be utterly amazing and impressive (especially when she would tell a shear joke that hit the heart after dropping some major truth). The way her mind works and switches back and forth between a million things is so crazy (yet awesome) that you would think she was performing for an audience or something.

But see. The thing about my cancer is that she is so distant (even before my mistaje happened). She's not clingy and definitely kows her boundaries (and puts up some serious boundaries). She would ever call or text and that actually bothered me about her. It made me insecure.

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The 11th sign, YEEESSSS this is her all of the way!!! My cancer crush is so fucking funny it's ridiculous. And she has varying types of funny that conveniently come in handy in the worst and best of situations. Sometimes I would look at her in amazement and just wonder how she can be so open with anyone and so clever and witty. And her laugh will just make you want to laugh. It makes you feel at ease. And yes! In the beginning it was really hard to trust or deal with her because she appeared to be so fucking crazy. But as I got to know her I realized that there is some type of order to her crazy...and then soon got hooked on it. It's energizing and refreshing. It's like you never know what will come out of her mouth or how and when it will come out. The stuff she says is way outrageous but after you finish laughing for the first time and think about what was said a second time, you get the full picture and the deeper meaning behind the joke and laugh for a second and third time. Plus she's really smart and artistic and I think that has something to do with it too. I love her outlook. Sometimes the types of philosophies and deep thinking she would spew would be utterly amazing and impressive (especially when she would tell a shear joke that hit the heart after dropping some major truth). The way her mind works and switches back and forth between a million things is so crazy (yet awesome) that you would think she was performing for an audience or something.

But see. The thing about my cancer is that she is so distant (even before my mistaje happened). She's not clingy and definitely kows her boundaries (and puts up some serious boundaries). She would ever call or text and that actually bothered me about her. It made me insecure.

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Posted by cancerrose
Ok, so we have established we are a good match and it can work according to astrology.

Next question... How can I reattract aqua guy? Or how do I tell whether he likes me, or how do I let him know I like him? I don't want to be too forward, because from previous experience I think he likes the chase but then this is an old relationship... so how do I go about this?



So you are not dating and he is not pursuing you?


There is a strong attraction between Cancer woman and Aqua guy.
Aqua's tend not to be a faithful as we Crab women like but it is a nice sexy pair.
Maybe short term affair though.
I say go for it, if it's what you both want.