Aquarius Woman and Cancer Man

Aquas please share your experiences

Ha! Exciting Yet Challenging!

It can be lol

Are you the Aqua or the Cancer?

I'm the Aqua

Aqua women have a better chance of snagging a Crab male than any water or earth sign.

I'm the cancer! But you asked for the input of an aqua lol....._?_?

@angeercat

Yes I'm with a Cancer man Ssasy I just am interested in what other experiences Aquarius woman have had with Cancer Men as a lot of sites say we are not compatible but me and my Cancer are well connected and get on really really well, I get the feeling you don't like Aquas lol

I love aquas!!! Had a great connection with one.
Just my aqua who is a female as well just isn't trusting me and we have an issue with exes which caused distrust between us causing an off and on sort if thing currently we are off and I think it may be for good! But everything was amazing right away when we first met! We fell instantly.

@angeercat

I love Cancers too, I have four Cancer friends, all male and they are the most sweetest loving and caring people I know, always there for me when I need them. Us Aquarians can be hard work sometimes.

Posted by angeercat
I love Cancers too, I have four Cancer friends, all male and they are the most sweetest loving and caring people I know, always there for me when I need them. Us Aquarians can be hard work sometimes.

Very Very much so. Just know, if you had NO 1 in your corner, you will have a Cancer there to say don give up. Its like in our nature to want to do this. My aqua is a very very hard worker, and she always praised me for pushing her to be better. Cancers will feel very hurt if they cant be the one there for you. Im in that stage, I know shes working herself to death, and no 1 is there to tell her take a breather...But I am happy to know theres an Aquarius that appreciates our non stop issue of loving!--some say we love too much!

@truecap

14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by angeercat
Yes I'm with a Cancer man Ssasy I just am interested in what other experiences Aquarius woman have had with Cancer Men as a lot of sites say we are not compatible but me and my Cancer are well connected and get on really really well, I get the feeling you don't like Aquas lol

Maybe your other planets line up. I think moons are important.

@Aquadeer

So far it's been a roller coaster ride and neither one of use have got off, yet. lol He's my first cancer interest and I like him so far. The moods are insane, however, I've learn from this forum to give him space. When he's hurt my feelings, I'll go silent and he knows because he'll try harder to make it right. It's a learning process for both of us, but only time will tell what will come of it.

@moonchild83

I'm an Aquarius female in love with a Cancer male, he always treated me kindly and like a friend, but was too reserved and seemed afraid of opening up to me. We had different ways of communicating I guess...he was very subtle and I think I was too needy, like a puppy. He pretty much shut me down whenever I showed emotion, like I was being too much for him. Idk. He ended it and I guess we're still friends but I pretty much avoid talking to him b/c I hate censoring myself around people. And if I can't do that I'd probably just keep gushing over him, which would make him want to start talking to me more, which would always eventually end up in him telling me he needs his space.

Oh well! I just met an aqua guy who is pretty much all over the people he likes and it feels weird (esp after this guy) but i'd like to get used to that haha

I was dating a cancer once, he was an utter bore. I couldn't get him to have any fun! He made everything feel like soupy awkwardness and refused to go out and have fun. Worst homebody on the planet! His aqua ex-gf apparently had even worse complaints. Shame, he was so handsome.

@lisabethur8

14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by sassafras
I was dating a cancer once, he was an utter bore. I couldn't get him to have any fun! He made everything feel like soupy awkwardness and refused to go out and have fun. Worst homebody on the planet! His aqua ex-gf apparently had even worse complaints. Shame, he was so handsome.

well obviously you're NOT a homebody yourself. So you need an OUTGOING dude.

you gotta match somehow. one staying home all the time is gonna bore a more adventurous woman. DUH. is anyone home—

that poor guy sounds like he is attracted to aquarius types, (since he had you and the ex) but needs a more home-bound, emotionally security minded woman.

Honestly, he seemed so intriguing at first. His dad fell in love with me. But it didn't take long to realized this guy didn't leave home for ANYTHING. He even WORKED at home. Plus, he took forever to get ready if I was able to convince him to come out. His life was gym, work at home, play games at home, watch tv on LOW, and sleep.

I took my frustration out on him by shooting him with nerf darts. Apparently, I'm "violent" 😛

@mz

Posted by sassafras
Honestly, he seemed so intriguing at first. His dad fell in love with me. But it didn't take long to realized this guy didn't leave home for ANYTHING. He even WORKED at home. Plus, he took forever to get ready if I was able to convince him to come out. His life was gym, work at home, play games at home, watch tv on LOW, and sleep.

I took my frustration out on him by shooting him with nerf darts. Apparently, I'm "violent" 😛

where did you first meet him?

@The_eleventh_sign_11

16 Years5,000+ Posts

My first boyfriend is a cancer and still to this day its like we are still together but we broke up ages ago??_.. I still see him as family.

When we first got together it was really nice I was like 21 and then he asked me to move with him to the city and thats when things went shit??_

A lot of people already know that when a cancerian moves house it can be very stressful well it is for them and everyone involved..
I think there even needs to be a big settling in period where u need to give them a lot of space because us moving to the city together really dragged our young frail relationship through the mud.

Cancerians are really witty and are awesome friends to have around??_They are also fucking mental and are very good at hiding it ??_. the worse part of them is the manipulation and not respecting boundaries or space.

Some people think their moodiness is off putting but I found my exes tantrums really entertaining as they were very explosive and outlandish and I would be laughing so hard on the inside.

What I found in the Aqua and Cancer relationship is that I was very intuitive and he was emotional??_He would ask me what I want for dinner and I would instantly say "Italian" and for a million reasons this was the right answer but he had a habit of giving it some thought and just pick out something completely different like chinese??_I can't be in a relationship where someones always asking you a question when they already know the answer??_It really got to me...

Posted by mz

Posted by sassafras
Honestly, he seemed so intriguing at first. His dad fell in love with me. But it didn't take long to realized this guy didn't leave home for ANYTHING. He even WORKED at home. Plus, he took forever to get ready if I was able to convince him to come out. His life was gym, work at home, play games at home, watch tv on LOW, and sleep.

I took my frustration out on him by shooting him with nerf darts. Apparently, I'm "violent" 😛

where did you first meet him?

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He went to the same university as a bunch of my friends. I'm 4 years older so I didn't meet him when I was there. He was funny, into similar things, and seemed active. He is a sweet heart but too dull for me.