cloud nine

i met the most amazing aquarian boy on saturday at a comedy club. we hung out the whole night, telling stories and laughing until 6 am in the morning. we cuddled all night and he never once let me go. i felt 100% comfortable with him, which never happens upon meeting a guy. he seemed pretty open too because he had told me all these stories about himself (nothing too personal, like childhood or anything like that) we connected on so many levels, but we didn't get each other's numbers! wth!!

i'm a sag.

i'm not sure. i just left it the way it ended. i thought that if he was really interested in getting my number, he would find some way or ask. i didn't want to seem like i was already attached to him. it was an amazing night, though, even if we never see each other again.

sag-aqua is an amazing pairing!!!

good friend's of mine are sag-aqua, only she is the aqua and he the sag...but they are perfect together! it seems to be more of a friend type relationship more so than a romantic one though...

we didn't really leave each other with anything except that he kept saying his full name. that's the only real info i have on him. haha. i didn't leave his house til noon. we had woken up at like 9:30 and talked and laughed a lot more until he dropped me off at my house, so it didn't seem like he was trying to rush me out or anything.

yea. i noticed the friendship thing goes very well with the two. my best friend is an aqua and we understand each other completely.

well my planets are on my profile...well..i had looked it up and he has a venus and mars in pisces (which i think makes him more romantic) and a moon in taurus.

yes, that venus in pisces is what gives him that romantic streak...b/c most aqua guys are not very romantic at all!!! you got lucky...

hahaha for sure. i just never ever felt this way about someone so i kind of got excited about it even though i'm not sure if i ever will see him again.

what if the female's venus is opposite the guy's mars— is that good or bad?

if it was meant to be, you will run into him again 😉

female venus- leo
male mars- aqua

thanks girls!!!

thats a serious risk to take.....

spending the night with someone you've NEVER met
at HIS house
Not knowing anything buy his name...and of course maybe you can find your way back to his house
not exchanging information...

Do the both of you do this often...makes you wonder...
oh how I envy and judge thee...

i spent the night at my aqua's house the first night i met him...but i did not have sex with him for another 2 months...
so maybe she just spent an innocent night with him. but, ladym...i understand what you are saying...it is quite risky nowadays to spend the night with someone you just met.

well my roommate was with me too. he's a big black guy haha. but i trust my instincts and i didn't feel anything bad was going to happen. his house was very close to mine.

What does him having to be a big black guy having anything to do with anything.—

Skinny little asian men arent to be trusted either.

well he's like my personal bodyguard. he's very protective over me. the big and black thing was a joke. i understand what you guys are saying about going home with someone, though. i am usually not one to do that, but it was also an exciting situation i didn't want to pass up.

you're my favorite archer!

well i messaged him over the internet telling him i had a good time. he messaged me back saying that it was his pleasure and that he his glad to have entertained us. i still don't have his number and he still doesn't have mine so i'm wondering if i should just make the first move and see if he does call or what. he seems like he doesn't have problems with the ladies so i don't really want to come off like one of them. should i just let him make the move if he really wants to? i don't know how aquarian guys are/can be

How can I get to cloud nine too?

hahah

Just finished reading over your post kym1209 - sounds exciting and fun 😉 Personally, I would let the guy make the moves - trust him that if he knows he wants to get to know you better, he will make the first move. By you making the first move, you are making it very easy for him and truthfully, deep down within a man - he wants the challenge.

Be grateful for the moments that you shared with him ....now go on living your wonderful life enjoying more of the incredible moments that are on their way to YOU! 😉

alrighty...well i jumped the gun and told him that if he wanted to hang out sometime he should contact me. he didn't message me back, though. boo 😢

i guess it wasn't as amazing to him as it was to me.

just out of curiosity though...what has everyone's experience been with an aqua guy when he's interested?

thanks archer

i mean we hooked up...so i'm guessing he's just good with one night stands? haha

hahah aww. but you have him now so it worked out.

i think i made a bad impression to the aqua boy. i wasn't expecting anything and wasn't prepared to be having a one nighter haha but it happened. some embarrassing things, but he still told me stories about himself, and cuddled, and made me laugh the whole night so it must've not been too bad.

he told me a little about his ex but i didn't ask for any details about it because that's none of my business. but he did mention he dated her for like 6 months, so i sensed maybe there was some bitterness.

he didn't try to probe me as i've heard some aquarians do when they aren't interested in you but curious to find out what makes you tick

c'mon guys...i wanna hear some stories...🙂

well...i ran into him at the bars tonight. i hung out with his friends the night before which they were really fun people and they made it pretty obvious about how fun they thought i was! i said hi and he said hi and that was it. he was with some girl, so i tried to make it as short as possible without completely ignoring him. then later he came up and talked to my gay friend first until finally talking to me when i "noticed" that he was around. i tried my best to pretend that I didn't really notice him that much and was having fun. but he did come up and talked to us for a little while, until we decided to leave. i'm so smitten i don't even know what to do with myself haha 🙂

no i know. i'm not gonna do anything further. i've been dating around.

well...i saw him again on thursday and ended up hanging out with him the rest of the night. i felt like he flirted me with me a bit because he kept touching me and trying to trip me and stuff like that haha. we ended up leaving (just me and him). we walked back to his house and on the way some girl called him. he was telling me that she was trying to hang out with him all the time but that he felt kinda meh about the situation. at his house, he told me that he had thought it ended that night and i asked him if he was into that sort of thing (one-nighters), but he was like "no, i'm not a jerk. i'm sentimental" haha. ok...i guess. then he kept saying stuff like "i think you would fit in well with my friends" and "i like...about you". he still didn't give me his number or tried to get mine haha...booooooooooooooooooooo

i'm assuming it's just one of those fun things that we happened to do twice

yea...the second time around...it was good times 😉

ya, you werent a challenge or mentally stimulating (interesting)

but never fear...theres always hope

oh no...i'm not expecting anything else from him. i thought he was cool when i first met him but then got over the situation. sorry, i was just updating the story.

and i hardly believe that i'm not interesting 😉

but i gotta say...it was a good rodgering. i thoroughly enjoyed it.

no worries leokitten. i hardly ever do that, but i don't exactly hold back either if the situation is fun enough. there does have to be some mental stimulation on his part anyway to have even caught my attention in the first place.

and like archer had said before...those kinds of things are very calculated before the complete follow through

but anywhooooo...

WTF is rodgering.

I dont judge...live life...have fun.
Dont complain about the outcome or consequences though...

food for thought...

sex wont get you anywhere with this guy...
and I suspect you truly want more

SIDE NOTE
(fuck being a new millennium woman...theres things we as women can and cannot do...sleeping around is one of 'em)


....respect yourself....first and foremost...emotionally, physically, and mentally....

haha rodgering = sex (from There's Something About Mary)

sorry i didn't mean for it to seem like was complaining about him...guess i have a weird sense of humor about it or something

nothing in life worth having comes easy.


besides you pay for EVERYTHING you get someway/somehow... 😉

no i totally understand 100% of what you are saying leokitten

i'm not using a sex as a way to get him...i am not dumb to think that sex gets me what i want. the first time, it was the other parts of what had happened that sparked my interests and sex just added to that pleasure. i had gotten over that part of it and enjoyed just having fun the second time around. i'm not expecting anything longterm or anything like that from this guy. i just wanted to add what had happened later and was adding what i had said earlier on in the post to add some humor to it but it was taken more seriously than i thought it would've.

anyway, thanks for the postings. i really appreciated what ya'll wanted to say about it.

i know it was a little more information than most people would add, but i come on here sometimes to read specifics about different kinds of situations people get themselves into and i think there are others that would like to know what happened as well. 🙂

LOL @ Aqi

Know what you want
Understand the good/bad consequences

thats all I ask.