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19 YearsCancer

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So you guys remember the Aqua guy I was dating at work? Well I had broke it off with him but now we are back on... Originally I had sent him a text message when I broke it off because of the distance and then the intimacy we had when we were together... I couldn't handle it and wasn't working out for me! He never responded to me and then one day at work he walked in the break room and said to me that I must be really mad at him. I told him I wasn't mad I was just disappointed. He said he didn't like Drama and I told him neither did I. And I told him he didn't really know me and he says you don't know me either..so we started all over again! Initially we were supposed to go to dinner to talk about the issues I was having... We never talked about we just seem to have started over! Since then we pretty much spent the weekend together. That's the most time we have ever spent together he has called everyday even if its just to say hi! I'm kind of in shock mode! Total turn around and we didn't even speak on it! Plans for the weekend already! I have really just been able to sit back and be myself with him where as before I felt as if I was on egg shells... I feel like we just misunderstood eachother initially! I just hope this lasts! You know the non aloofness!
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honeygirl
@honeygirl
19 YearsCancer

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Isn't that what dxp is for? Friendly life conversations? I'm not currenty having any issues but I love the comments! I've never dated an Aqua before and the signs I have dated have been true to their birth sign that's why I like DXP so much... I learn a lot here! And the comments are greatly appreciated!

So how bout this... Of course we work together and we have the same friends! A close friend of his that he hangs with outside of work who is also married to another coworker that is a friend of mine are having a get together at a club on Friday! She called me last night to ask if I was in or out because everyone is going in on a bottle and VIP table. Me, i'm not sure wether to go or not because he is going and we already have plans for Saturday... I also don't want to take away from his guy time.. What should I do? I'm opting to not go!
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honeygirl
@honeygirl
19 YearsCancer

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The only reason why our friends don't know is we all work together and we work in a telecenter... It's like high school there and everyone is always in everyones business... We both decided to keep it between us for now... Does that make sense? He has worked here 5 years and has never dated anyone here and I have never dated anyone I worked with ever this is new for both of us!
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honeygirl
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19 YearsCancer

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Ya know what else... I dnt feel that way he is always makin big plans out loud! Like for instance he is buying a condo and he is always saying how when he does I can drive out to see him... Or I can come out there to make him dinner... He wants to take a vacation to Sedona do I want to go? We are both in a stage in our life where we are moving forward like I just bought a car he is buying one next week. He is moving into his condo next month..i'm moving into my own place.. He gives me lots of good advice with financial decisions and so on... And he is always putting me in his future plans..0would you call that an emotional black hole?
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honeygirl
@honeygirl
19 YearsCancer

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I get it all! I thank you all for the comments... I have always moved fast in a relationship with the direction of the other person because I've always been a go with the flow kind of person... So in the beginning of our relationship it was a little out of the ordinary to me when I wasn't geting the call backs and so on... Also hadn't dated anyone new in years... So I myself had to sit back and remind myself to take it slow and even to date other people... Though my choice would be him i'm still keeping my options open 😉