Ok to make a long story short I’ve met this guy at work about 5 months ago. We talk for basically every day since. Sometimes he talks enough while up until recently he kinda just stopped talking as much. So I gave him space (I’m a cap btw) and we didn’t talk for four days straight. Also during those 4 days I haven’t seen him at work (we work in a big area). So when I went into work he saw me and asked me where I went..? I was so confused because he literally stopped talking to me and was giving me the cold shoulder so I kinda “took the hint” and went on about my life. But since then he’s been better at texting but I see the same pattern happening again. And when I confront him about it it’s like he’s oblivious to what he’s doing? I’m super confused and kinda tired. We had sex multiple times too if that adds to anything
Confused by aqua man

4 straight days not talking and you took that as a hint— Lol 😄
Posted by AerialView
4 straight days not talking and you took that as a hint— Lol 😄
Yeah I mean I figured he wanted my to leave him alone i feel like that’s a clear sign but when he approached me he acted like I was the one creating the space
I mean am I missing something?

Posted by Deadlast
I mean am I missing something?
You don't miss any lol it's all good Houston. Call him and talk about it.
Yeah they do that. I dated one for a few years but honestly it's weird idk if they do it purposely or if thats just how they are. In my experience they will start flaking a lot too after the whole dating/getting to know you phase.
Yeah, when they stop talking to you they either no longer find you interesting or they're in their feels or something. It's a guessing game, you will know when they come back like yours did. Don't tell him you think he lost interest cause he didn't talk to you, I made that mistake.

What are you tired of? Everything looks good.
Don’t think he is trying to make you crazy. He is just an Aquarius
Don’t think he is trying to make you crazy. He is just an Aquarius
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