Both of us has been flirting for the past month, subtle but you know the attraction is there. I have in numerous occasion tried to decode his behaviour, sometimes i get it, sometimes I don't...like this scenario:
Both of us were alone in the cafe, chatting happily as usual and as I was about to leave (he stayed back) I hand him over my muffin (he ask for it) that point i got shy and just stared at the muffin as he took it from me. I could see he was staring at me as i hand it to him and i just said bye. He then gave a loud "sigh" twice! I look at him, puzzled...then, he glance up and we both smile and he was sorta smiling in a sad way.
Do aqua sigh when they find it hard to express what they are trying to say? when words failed them? it didn't occur to me to ask him what was on his mind
My aqua does this. Whenever he's unhappy with a situation, but doesn't have much else to say on it, he just sighs. He was probably disappointed. Maybe that you didn't say something he wanted to hear before you left or because you were leaving and couldn't stay. Or both. I'm no expert on aquas, but it seems like they're all over the place. An answer seemingly as simple as that could be wrong. Crazy aquas.
I do this a lot (Aqua moon) so does the aqua. For me it doesen't mean there's anything wrong, it's is a release when I'm thinking of something and once I come to a conclusion I sigh. Once my bf did it while we were watching a movie (this was quite early on in our relationship) I had a mini-panic...asked him what was up and he said nothing... I think what he meant by that is it's nothing to do with ME or that he's sad/mad about something I did, he was thinking in that moment and just let out one big sigh.
More often than not my bf will let me know if there's anything wrong unless it's something really bad. When this happens he shuts down into total silence and I know not to probe there and then. He always comes back and tells me what happened, after he has his time thinking. Once he was at mine, nice vibe going, he got a phone call and after speaking he got up, got dressed and walked out. He said about 5 words to me...I knew something was up. Later he told me it was a call about a job interview he really wanted but never got and was too upset so he left. It didn't upset me because I understand that need to get away/detach.
oh i do it ...well i never really noticed till some friends pointed it out..
that i would get really excited when i explain or talk about something. Then i would sigh and text on my phone or do something else right after. A sigh then i guess is my way of showing my impatience. frustration. disappointment. annoyance.
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Both of us were alone in the cafe, chatting happily as usual and as I was about to leave (he stayed back) I hand him over my muffin (he ask for it) that point i got shy and just stared at the muffin as he took it from me. I could see he was staring at me as i hand it to him and i just said bye. He then gave a loud "sigh" twice! I look at him, puzzled...then, he glance up and we both smile and he was sorta smiling in a sad way.
Do aqua sigh when they find it hard to express what they are trying to say? when words failed them? it didn't occur to me to ask him what was on his mind