Disappearing-should I be worried?

Well this aqua guy and I have not been talking for over a month now,except for a text on my birthday and we are now on our summer break which lasts for 2 months.I expected he wouldn't even text on my birthday, going by what had happened 2 years back, when we didn't talk for 8 months after a fight and he didn't even wish me on my birthday.
This time,he stopped talking out of the blue.I don't know why but this time,I'm not panicking, for me,it's more of a comfortable distancing act of his,I'm not worried, panicking or tensed.However, I've learnt that aquarians disappearing for that long without a reason isn't a good sign?I've got some hints that he's perhaps irritated with me,although it didn't seem like it when we last spoke.I've started firmly believing in the fact that if something is yours,it'll eventually come back to you,and am hence not tensed,but as they say about the aquas,should I be worried now?
(we're not committed,we just have this something between us,some unnamed bond)

Aquarian disappearance acts should be short. Mostly a day or two, A week max. Anything longer than that, I'd assume they didn't care.

Sounds like he doesnt want to lose you.
As a friend.

Aquas hate losing friends.

I don't know,I get a feeling he's irritated,you know,it's pretty strange when he thinks up things in his head about me,arrives to conclusions and then acts based on the conclusions he's drawn from his overthinking and I on the other hand,end up bewildered because I had thought all was going fine.'IF' he tells me what put him off,it would be something I didn't even remember I'd said or something I thought wasn't a big deal.And as of now,in college,he would look at me at times when I'm not looking but if we ever come face to face,he'll not look at me.Last Monday we almost bumped into each other,he still didn't look at me.
It's so strange he gets offended by little things I say and overthinks about it and then behaves weirdly.

Posted by Ilovemyaqua
I don't know,I get a feeling he's irritated,you know,it's pretty strange when he thinks up things in his head about me,arrives to conclusions and then acts based on the conclusions he's drawn from his overthinking and I on the other hand,end up bewildered because I had thought all was going fine.'IF' he tells me what put him off,it would be something I didn't even remember I'd said or something I thought wasn't a big deal.And as of now,in college,he would look at me at times when I'm not looking but if we ever come face to face,he'll not look at me.Last Monday we almost bumped into each other,he still didn't look at me.
It's so strange he gets offended by little things I say and overthinks about it and then behaves weirdly.

Hi it's taken me a lot to try and understand an aqua guy mind and I still don't "get it" but understand it better.

They want to be wanted but don't want you back , when you show no intrest they want you to be intrested , when you show intrest they don't want it and will run away. I've known an aqua guy for many years he's never had a proper relationship for 10 years ! I'm not surprised at all. Now I've shown I'm bored of it he wants my intrest again !

But I'm bored and lost complete intrest in this game.

I agree with that they over think things they go off into a little world and think why this why that.

Cut and run .... Cut and runnnnn
Lol
My advice Don't have to take it. But games get Tiresome after a while.

Oh sorry I was meant to say we had arguments and didn't talk for months at a time and during that time he didn't talk to me He told me to think of him as dead lol but still read my messages, then decided he wanted to talk. So 2 months might be ok if you think that's ok lol personally I don't. So you need to know yourself what your comftable with and willing to accept in friendship or w.e you see him as

Posted by truecap
Aquarian disappearance acts should be short. Mostly a day or two, A week max. Anything longer than that, I'd assume they didn't care.

he shouldn't be disappearing at all.

what is he? the illusionist??

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by truecap
Aquarian disappearance acts should be short. Mostly a day or two, A week max. Anything longer than that, I'd assume they didn't care.

he shouldn't be disappearing at all.

what is he? the illusionist??

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i know right? Where do women get this idea from?? from reading too much astrology which suggests a man can disappear if he's a certain sign.

i honestly believe this is a guy type of thing to do when he's just not interested.

yes it sucks. and the more you ladies talk about these types, the more i think, it's not a wonder all you ladies aren't turning lesbian. or be alone.

if that's all the types of men that come into your world. it's better to be alone.

So, when he comes back around do you give him sex?
Just curious.

No,when he comes back around,he'll still be a little distant initially,and will indirectly try to tell me about what pissed him off,when I do understand, he'll again get back to talking for hours,until he gets pissed off again :/ you see? He'll do either of the two things- he'll either feel bad about something I said/did and will distance himself or if he feels we're getting too close, he'll distance himself.
(I don't know if this has got something to do with his distancing but he has told me once that after his last breakup,he has decided never to get committed again,its been six years since his lasr breakup,however, last year,he did ask me if we could get in a relationship, but we didn't, I wasn't sure(maybe that was because of my Venus in Gemini,I did like him and had already told him,but I don't think I want to get committed,idk)It's just that, I feel so comfortable with him,I don't want to lose him,he's a nice guy,but all this disappearing and stuff,it complicates things)

Only you know what you'll put up with and what you want. Me, personally, I wouldn't tolerate the constant distancing and disappearing. Those actions show lack of willingness to be what you want, in my opinion, but, like I said, only you know what you're willing to tolerate.

And for the record, there are a lot of other nice guys out there that you can feel comfortable with. That's always been my attitude - either you're what I want or you're not. Inconsistency doesn't float my boat. Ehh, but that's just me.

What's his Venus and moon sign?

He's sun,moon,Venus, mars aquarius

Posted by Ilovemyaqua
He's sun,moon,Venus, mars aquarius

that's alot of aqua. what house is it in? lol

I don't know his birth time :/