Most ladies that I talk to really don't know what the hell they want. It's all good the first month or two, and as soon as one of their girls that probably like me comes and run her mouth off puttin lies in her head then all of a sudden I'm the enemy. So I ask her, "you runnin your mouth off like I really did what your friends say, then what's the next step? What are you going to do about what you 'believe' I did?" Then it's like, "Oh, well you can leave me if you want to but if you are cheating on me then I don't want you around me." WHAT?! I'm the criminal, but YOU'RE giving me the choice to judge myself? Apparently, all that talk was nuthin but big BS that really wasn't necessary! If you wanna come to me wit some drama, then you'd better be ready for action also cuz I ain't the type to finish things through talking without action.
I heard plenty of things about my women from my friends all the time and I NEVER broke my trust with her. If I ever feel as though she's cheating, I'll ask her and if her answer is 'no', then I won't bring it up. If she is, then there will be a discussion on how we can deal with this situation. Erratic behavior is only going to make things worse, expecially if your facts isn't straight. To most of you ladies out there (sheesh men too), WATCH WHAT YOU SAY AND DO, BECAUSE MOST PEOPLE WON'T FORGET IT!!!!
I know drama and relations go hand in hand, but there are things that even YOU shouldn't say to a person. Use your mind before you decide to go with whatever you're feeling at the time because tomorrow you may regret it, and who has time for regrets?
Alot of women (including myself at one time) will jus spill every emotion without not thinking how it will affect other people....unfortunately emotional maturity is something you will find alot of women lack.
This is probably why there's soo much women who can't find the right man. They're soo insecure about themselves in a relationship that they attack the one they really want. Relax ladies, we're here for you LOL
there is nothing wrong with expressing emotions but alot of people think they should spill every single emotion out right then and there without internalizing it and examining it, some people never internalize and decipher if there emotions are valid or something they made up out of there own fears and insecurities.
I agree that there are people that show no emotion at all, ever...which isn't healthy either...its about finding a balance.
yes balance is very important.in everything. but i am guilty of this no show of emotions myself.it is exasperating sometimes.because i want to but still it will not even seep out marginally.
Satan trus me, your fine, men probably love you to death b/c they can't figure you out...don't lie, you know its true
They stay intrigued and frustrtated at the same time...don't see your issue as a bad thing...men love a challenge,self expression will come, no worries, enjoy it, your not being predictable and you more than likely can hold a mans attention much longer than the average woman.
it varies for me. i can be very compassionate and warm and completely shut off the next. i'm not sure if that freaks guys out, but i know it helps me get my way. 😛
it varies for me. i can be very compassionate and warm and completely shut off the next. i'm not sure if that freaks guys out, but i know it helps me get my way.
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Message posted by: wheelhomies on 4/25/2007 3:19:18 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.112 "Satan is a man, tiki."
lmfao...BLAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH that's funny
Message posted by: notso07 on 4/25/2007 3:19:27 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.55 M,
You are not unemotional. Spare me the Aquatale.
Message posted by: DK09 on 4/25/2007 3:19:30 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.89 Unemotional women make sex good. Because they is animals in bed.
Message posted by: Lady_M on 4/25/2007 3:20:05 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.225 Notso...I was waiting for you to comment on me and DK's identicalness...
so predictable...
Had any Vitamin H8 lately...
Message posted by: tiki33 on 4/25/2007 3:20:09 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.42 I heart Lady M
girl you are one the coolest people on the board and I'm not even front'n...you seem to be the sanest one too lmao!!
Message posted by: DK09 on 4/25/2007 3:20:32 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.89 Message posted by: notso07 on 4/25/2007 3:18:49 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.55 Twins my ass.
My twins and I are way better than you two. We could kick your doublemint asses anytime, anyplace.
Nice notso likes our asses. I want to sex you!
Message posted by: wheelhomies on 4/25/2007 3:20:47 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.112 it varies for me. i can be very compassionate and warm and completely shut off the next. i'm not sure if that freaks guys out, but i know it helps me get my way.
Message posted by: tiki33 on 4/25/2007 3:20:54 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.42 Message posted by: wheelhomies on 4/25/2007 3:19:18 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.112 "Satan is a man, tiki."
lmfao...BLAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH that's funny
*blushing*
Message posted by: ~devil's_the_name~ on 4/25/2007 3:21:31 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.141 oops...thought you were a girl but I bet you have women chasing..don't lie
it is my gift, but can be a curse now,if i start entertaining them.
I know women aren't giving you a chance to chase them...they are jumping in front of the hunter begging to be slayed lol!
"hmmmmmm,I thought I heard mewing................"
oh i'm sorry. i meant that a scorpio definitely thought of it first and aqua second, because scorpio is superior in intellect and creativity to everyone and aquas below them one rung. did you hear that antibling, hmmm?
don't know why you would care anyway, as scorpios being superior would say nothing about you anyway...
Message posted by: ~devil's_the_name~ on 4/25/2007 3:25:49 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.141 I know women aren't giving you a chance to chase them...they are jumping in front of the hunter begging to be slayed lol!
nice! haahaa what an egotrip that was. and you are saying this without even knowing how i look. i look pretty decent.another egotrip.haahaa
Honey I know women and for some reason alot of us gravitate to our opposites, so I'm sure you find yourself in the midst of emotional women all the time...poor thing (:
I heard plenty of things about my women from my friends all the time and I NEVER broke my trust with her. If I ever feel as though she's cheating, I'll ask her and if her answer is 'no', then I won't bring it up. If she is, then there will be a discussion on how we can deal with this situation. Erratic behavior is only going to make things worse, expecially if your facts isn't straight. To most of you ladies out there (sheesh men too), WATCH WHAT YOU SAY AND DO, BECAUSE MOST PEOPLE WON'T FORGET IT!!!!