Aquas are new to me...

I'm really attracted to this aqua guy at work but I can't decide if he likes me too or if he's just a huge flirt. He IMS me every chance he gets and texts me, comes to see me at work, and says the sweetest things to me constantly. But he has a gf so is it possible that he's just the smooth talker who sees me as just a friend or does it sound like he would want more cus we do see each other and make plans almost every day and he rarely ever talks about his gf.

girl run 4 your life!!! lol!

He wants to fool around of course...he has a g/f already and Aqua guyz are synonymous for roving around while taken, doesn't mean he doesn't see you as attractive or anything like that besides why would you want a guy that obviously has a significant other anyway, he's a jerk! He can't dump his girl and pursue you, no...he has to go behind her back, DRAMA.

Of course you don't have to listen to me but I'm old enough to know the game...ask him what his intentions are and ask him about his girl and let him know you don't want to start anything he can't finish, you have to make it clear unless you like playing seconds.

good luck with that

Aqua's are new to you?

Are men?

He has a g/f .. it's irrelevant of his sun sign .. he is another woman's man. Perhaps, he doesn't have the moral fibers to be loyal to his woman .. do you?

Another thing women seem to overlook in this type of situation .. say, he did want you and he did leave his g/f for you .. if he did it to her, he would do it to you. How good of a catch is a man who is disrespectful to his woman?

Run, girl .. now, before you get involved any further.

Run like the wind......hehehe

I'm still waiting for my tailor made man to materialise out of the throngs of people I walk by in the street.

I don't see any man that suits me now. I'm starting to not actually look anymore.

....Sorry to steal your thread and swing it my way scorpgirl,I just felt inspired to say this reight now right here.

Yeah but as for your query, the others users' comments are right. There's no point in bothering to think about following up on this aqua guys advances. He sounds like a pr1ck.

"I'm still waiting for my tailor made man to materialise out of the throngs of people I walk by in the street."

Yeah, me too, lol. How long do you reckon we have to wait? Where the hell is he?

I really don't know. Maybe he should have asked for directions. You how men usually refuse to admit they their sense of direction sucks. Either that or......he's enjoying the scenery and has lost all track of time?

I haven't come close in so long to meeting a man that clicks with me. Whether he be single, attached, older or younger....I just haven't come across a guy that I have felt a real genuine connection.

Sure I have been overcome with the initial lust and excitement on first meeting guys with whom there's been physical spark but I can't say that I've any guy that would fit into the "soul-mate" category.

And I don't think it's because I am particularly fussy. I don't actually go for men who have pin-up type looks and bodies. I guess it's that _I_'m not in a frame of mind that is conducive to meeting "my" man.

I look at all the men in the streets and in the bars and I don't see anyone who seems to send out any of the vibes that resonate with mine.

Hehe! He'd better give me some time to get my hair done and have myself spruced up before he just *appears*!!

"when you are least expecting it....."

Yeah .. unshaven legs, just woke up so morning breath, grumpy from no coffee or tea, make-up smeared all over your eyes ..

But, just think, if he still wants you then .. then he can handle anything and still want to be with you.

"I guess it's that _I_'m not in a frame of mind that is conducive to meeting "my" man."

You may be right here .. when I'm feeling sexy and attractive, men look even when I'm not spruced up .. on the other hand, I can be really glamoured up but feeling NOT in the mood to gain roving eyes, and I won't.

Interesting, MD .. we do put those "mating call" vibes out, don't we?

"But, just think, if he still wants you then .. then he can handle anything and still want to be with you."

This is very definitely a comforting secure thought. Ok so maybe I should just continue being a scruff, put some lipstick on and a bit of perfume but otherwise be a slob, be "me".

funny that you bring up this issue with mating calls...I had to call Comcast Cable to come out and replace my box, I had my hair up in a pony tail and was in my jeans and shirt, barefoot, no makeup and the cable guy was gazing in my eyes all lovingly and flirting it was so funny...jeesh

I clean up well but right now i'm in that i could care less phase, but funny thing is, men really do pay attention when i'm in that every day kinda mode, no make up, not all girlyed out with cute clothes....hmmm this is interesting.

He's probably at the rebellion phase of his relationship....

I wouldnt do it to myself if I were you. Keep it friendly, but let him know you arent to be toyed with.

Dont even go there girlie. I had an aqua do that to me b4, and 4 monhs down the line confesses "that he might have forgotten to mention" that he was married! Nope, he never mentioned her..ever. He had 2 kids too that he denied to my face. Aqua?s are losers, (there are of course one or two exceptions to every rule).

Fuck off Sola

Yeah, what she said, lol

Isn't it funny how we base everything off of one person?
I do the same with Virgo's .. people are so bad.

Who cares, she was looking for advice....

Aquas are not all losers. Retract your statement or endure the wrath of MELLOWDEE.

heheeheee
(MD is too funny)

Please note the "exceptions to rules" part Missy!! I cant retract, my experiences have shaped my opinion!!

an immature Aqua is definitely loser material but that could go with any sign...but get you a taste of spiritually mature enlightened Aquarius and you will float to heaven I tell ya!!

Especially if she is captain of the hoe squad!

You will be walking, talking, drinking, eating, pumping A-Q-U-A

spiritually mature + hoe queen = satisfied man

o my

He was immature at 30 years old, there was no hope for that creep!! His wife...i often wonder about her..poor woman.

Dont want to sample any more Aqua goods...Scorpio is better.

hehe humour here please...I'm just so fascinated by the wave of hoe-erism that is currently sweeping over me. It should pass soon.

Indulge MellowDee!!

hoe queen? Why the name calling, well it takes a hoe to know one (:

lighten up sweety, no need to attack me because your panties are up in a bunch and untouched.

you have sexual hang ups, why would you care if a person is a hoe and for the record we we were all playing and jabbing on that post, not sure why your attacking me, I made it clear I have abstained from sex for a number of years up until recently with my leo.

I feel no need to explain my sexuality to an immature little girl...wonder why your still waiting on that prince of a man, he obviously sense your an uptight, pent up, repressed, judgemental, immature basket case and mr.prince decides to let the losers keep getting a swipe at ya.

its amazing how scorpios roam around in airhead land...i sense envy

Off with somebody's head .. doesn't matter who .. just somebody .. isn't that what HoeQueens do?

hoequeens make love not war! But chopping heads sounds like fun! Weeeeeee

let them haterz eat cake!

LMFAO!!@Oh, we're all about *heads* alright. That's for sure...

my neck..my back

All you ladies pop that thing like this
Shake your body, don't stop, don't quit
All you ladies pop that thing like this
Shake your body, don't stop, don't quit
Just do it, do it, do it, do it, do it now

Lick this, just like you should
Right now, Lick it good
Lick this just like you should
My Neck, my back
Lick my ... just like that

My Neck, my back
Lick my ... just like that
My Neck, my back
Lick my ... just like that
My Neck, my back
Lick my ... just like that
My Neck, my back
Lick my ... just like that

First you gotta put your neck into it
Ah, don't stop, just do, do it
Then you roll your tongue, from the back up to the front
Then ya get it off, keep me up on ya
Make sure I keep my eyes on ya
All over the club and stuff
Real player show me so much love
The best love comes slow and long
Knows how to stay down on ya
All night 'till the crack of dawn
Real good, keep it comin' strong
Through the night, making so much love
In dead sleep when the sun comes up

I wasn't calling you a hata lol!!

I'm nice..no worries hehehe

So basically you've gotta put a lot of neck into it

I been in the club..you didn't know lol!

::gasp::

...the Madame has spoken...

and to your question P... he talks about wanting to see me more than doing anything else and how I'm the only one that can put him in sich a good mood. Stuff like that... he's a great smooth talker!

And then to the girl with the married man aqua... yea.. I didn't even know he had a gf until a week later, but he talks about her as if he doesn't plan on having her much longer. it was his first gf in a really long time but they've only been together for 2 months

and thanks for all the advice guys 🙂

ok, the guy has only been with his gf for 2 months...still doesn't give him the right to cheat or flirt with you behind her back...but, it has only been 2 months. it is not at all serious between them, and he obviously is looking to explore other options. 2 months is a VERY short time for a relationship...especially one with an aqua!

"You may be right here .. when I'm feeling sexy and attractive, men look even when I'm not spruced up .. on the other hand, I can be really glamoured up but feeling NOT in the mood to gain roving eyes, and I won't.

Interesting, MD .. we do put those "mating call" vibes out, don't we?"

Actually I meant that when I'm not together enough in myself, I must exude vibes that say "STAY AWAY!!" to other men. It's nothing to do with how sexy or unsexy I feel. Although generally I won't feel sexy when I haven't got myself together emotionally.
So when I'm feeling sexy I will also have more spark in myself which I guess does attract others to look my way.