Don't be soo...weak! pt.2

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Kunoichi:

"man rant"

oh my god, you took the words right outta my mouth

Big😱 Two questions:

1)ARE you doing what her friends say?

2)Why are you dating women who can?t think for themselves?


Honestly Kunoichi, I thought of doing what the hell she accuses me of so I can at least FEEL like I deserve to be yelled at! You also gotta understand that this isn't just somebody I want to throw to the dirt, I care about her but I won't tolerate this for too long I don't like to play these type of games.
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I mean, how can you think that you can yell and scream at someone one day and be absolutely cool the next day? I don't forget what you do or your actions; ok, you're mad at me. Now, I'm going to treat you like a person who's mad at me. Hell, in your eyes I'm cheating!

This is where it gets confusing, because I feel as if I leave her then I lost the battle against her damn friends...and if I don't leave her then I'd have to put up with this BS that I pretty much hate the most. I HATE the feeling of being chained or treated any ol way, I can only give you respect if you give it to me.
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I love reading your perspective on things. Well it sounds like you feel emotionally manipulated.

Ignore her...lmao!! j/p!!

It will piss her off though

You should tell her the next time she comes to you in a accusatory emotional manner without asking questions and dumping assumptions in your lap, your leaving the relationship because you can't be in a relationship without trust.

Let her know the consequences of coming at you in that way then ignore her for a bit, she will get the bigger picture.
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Devil's the name:"is she trying to control you by any chance?
intentionally or unintentionally"

She gotta be, I think she's afraid of losing me to the point that she's attacking me and believing everything she hears. This reminds me of what happened with my first love...I mean, she's a good girl but it's the fact that I CARE. If I didn't, I'd would have been tossed her to the curb.
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Well, I stopped TALKING to them. I do say hi every now and then when I'm not around her. She's soo crazy...she was jealous when I openly had my friends around me, but now that I stopped all that she finds another reason to accuse me! She still hasn't stopped talking to her dude peoples, including her exes! I want her to understand, I don't care what or who else is talking, we need to talk about what's HAPPENING.

I'm far from jealous, I just need her to understand that I'm not gonna bend a certain way for you if you ain't tryin to respect me either.
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Its seems like she only knows that kind of love...the jealous male b(she still talks to her guy friends, when you've dropped your female ones). and she looking for that with in you. Your not loving her the way she thinks love is or should be.

I think shes trying to turn you into a guy your not...which never works. Like I said aquas dont do well with the jealous type. You might have to let her go BigD.
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She's very demanding. Nothing too outrageous, but as long as she does the same. I kinda like that, but there needs to be a sence of equality also. Why can't she understand? That's all I want her to do, and this is why totally going off your emotions without using your mind is completely wreckless.

Even if she still is against me conversating with life long lady friends, as long as she could UNDERSTAND why I'm doing this then maybe things would get better. She thinks that I'm deliberatley doing it because I have 'physical' relations with them and she doesn't wanna hear anything else.

By the way, she's a virgo...
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Lady M: "think shes trying to turn you into a guy your not...which never works. Like I said aquas dont do well with the jealous type. You might have to let her go BigD."

*Sigh* You know I've been thinking about that too...but that's too easy. I keep thinking I can get through to her, but I think this IS the last straw. I went way past my limit already, so I think I should at least pat myself on the back for that one.
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I do have the ability to just drop her, but I think about her too much to let that happen. I see that I did get to her, and I don't want to hurt her, but geez she's askin for it! I might just decide to tell her that SHE needs some alone time, to really think about what she's saying to me. I'm sure she's gonna flip out but that's on her, I wanted to be real with her but if she's acting like this then I gotta leave her.

Game, Set, Match.
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