Ejaculation & Orgasms

Is it true that a man can ejaculate without orgasm? And that they are 2 separate things?

Is it true that a man can ejaculate without orgasm?

-no


And that they are 2 separate things?

-no

I disagree.

Do share Yama 🙂

Hey Gem*Two

Hello Pisces...

i like how all your post have something to do with sex...

Can't help myself Gem - I am a curious Kitten

Why is alright for a women to fake it but not a man?

Absolutely, it's in the timing . . . at the exact fraction of a second before he ejaculates . . he stiffens real hard, his testes drawn up and the seman is inbetween the testicles and the penis, right at the bottom of the shaft . . clamp down like a friggin vice grip, ringed around him, and he'll orgasm, without ejaculating.

It's not full, obviously, and it's only for a couple seconds . . but, it's there. I've only met a few men who have that kind of endurance, to be able to suffer that kind of torment, but, it's possible.

And, it's fun for him cause he gets blown a lot while you're figuring it out . . lol

"Why is alright for a women to fake it but not a man?"

Impossible to fake. When a woman orgasms, her clit and nipples swell and stiffen. I guess if the dude isn't aware of his woman and how she responds and when . . she could fake him out.

But, if he is a good and attentive lover, there's no faking because your body responds without controlled thought. It's instictive and unvolantary.

"It's not full, obviously, and it's only for a couple seconds . . but, it's there. I've only met a few men who have that kind of endurance, to be able to suffer that kind of torment, but, it's possible."

This is what I was responding to.

Ohh - I see! Well back to the drawing board for me! This is all new for me 🙂

>Is it true that a man can ejaculate without orgasm? And that they are 2 separate things?

I cannot, but I can do something simular. I can have many "NEAR" orgasms, before having the final ORGASM with ejaculation. There have also been a very few times, when I got too close to the "edge" and some cum dribbled out, and I felt some relief, but was still fully hard... and after a mere moments respite, and vigerous thrusting, was still able to have a huge ORGASM with major ejaculation.

In any relationship I've been in, there is the "Honeymoon period" where I can have sex three times a day. But eventually, it dwindles to three or four times a week. At that point, I can make myself have many "near orgasms", before the final ejaculation.

Imagine yourself to be a cliff diver. Standing on the edge of a cliff, feeling the wind in your face... about to jump. But taking a step back and aborting the jump. That's what it's like to have a "near orgasm". During sexplay, it's possible to have many of these as a male. I can usually do around 12, before it becomes too much to hold back. IT's like shaking a bottle of pop up... eventually it is all fizz and ready to explode.

It usually takes about an hour to come to this point. Because, as orgasm nears, and I step back from the edge.. I have to pause, and lick pussy... kiss, fondle, snuggle... anything to slow down... then once I've relaxed enough, can impale my woman again.

Once I reach that stage of final ORGASM, my body turns red, my face red, I erupt into a huge orgasm which is SO INTENSE. So, so many men miss out on this... if they'd only learn how, they'd never "wham bam thank 'e mame" again. = )))))))))))))))))))

Wow!! I have been educated 😉
Thanks for that!!
Do you think the more sex u have the more u want it?

>No guy ever fakes with *me*, primegen!

Guys can fake it. I've faked it more than once, but never on the first orgasm. IT's always on the second or third one. I never have a problem getting hard if I've had 30 minutes or more after an orgasm... but that doesn't mean I can cum the second or third time, LOL. Several times, after cumming once or twice and having intense sex... I find I just can't cum again. Maybe it was too much alky... maybe it's too late and I'm too tired... but I just pretend to cum, and then relax and smile and kiss and I really don't think she knew the difference, LOL.

>Do you think the more sex u have the more u want it?

Not for me, LOL. The most I've ever had, when having Three lovers at once, was still three to four times a week = ) Even when I had only one lover, the same three to four times a week was the norm... except... That over time, with only one lover, the desire dwindled... with one gal to once a month. But for several years had the three lovers and was able to maintain three to four times a week... LOL.

Good for you! I wish I was a boy & allowed to do that sometimes! I hope they all knew you were getting around thou

They did. I am honest to a fault. I gave them all the choice. All chose to take the chance. Well... to be totally honest... I didn't tell them about ALL the others... only that I had a MAIN gal and if the chips were down, my main gal would win out. I gave each and every one a whole month to decide if they wanted to get involved in such a relationship, and after that month, each one said OK.

My Father was a Pisces, so I really believe I inherited some of his virility. Other Virgos I've chatted with think i'm nuts = ) So genetics must play a big part in who we are.

That was long ago however... and since I broke up with my steady Cancer gal... I have been without a girlfriend for two years. I'm currently dating a Cappy gal and trying to wait her out... Cappys take SO long to make up their minds!!!!!!!!!!!! it's super frustraiting. I"m doing my best to give her the time she needs tho.

Did your main gal know about the other ones 2?

"Clit and nipples also stiffen with arousal, not just orgasm. But the cunt muscles contract, over and over, so if she can get that right, and her guy doesn't have a clue, it can be faked."

So, what it boils down to, is . . the man not being aware of his woman, and knowing her body and how she responds.

Second, why would a woman want to fake? I mean, if my man ain't doing it right . . I would want him to know, so he would do it right, you know what I mean?

How wonderful is this union if the woman isn't getting satisfied and has to fake him out? Nope, not me . . if he ain't feeling me and doing me right . . he's out and doesn't deserve the satisfaction of "thinking" he is a good lover.

Years ago I read somewhere that a huge percentage of females, like 65% , or something, have sex when they don't really want to . . . just to be held. If she gives him what he wants . . legs open . . he'll hold her and that is what she is seeking.

If this is true, then, I can see why a woman would fake it . . just hurry up and get it over with, so the holding part can happen, for her satisfaction of being loved.

Maybe that's not the case, now though. Women have evolved into not being so unaware of the meaning of "love" to them. We have come to realize that our man can give us the love we need (holding us), and orgasm, too.

But, if those satistics are still accurate, or even close . . how sad. It may be, because women are still talking about how they fake it.

Sometimes, we have to give him a "quickie" because he's about to bust and turn blue. When we do that, I don't even expect anything in return. However . . he knows that he owes me . . and he never forgets that he owes me a good one. lol

"'if he ain't feeling me and doing me right . . he's out and doesn't deserve the satisfaction of "thinking" he is a good lover.'
"

Yes you're absolutely right. The thing is that I have done this because I just don't wanna hurt him/his male pride/manhood thing. It's stoopid and I should be more confrontational in this regard. You gotta be cruel to be kind etc etc

ClydeLover you sound like you're a great lover!! Hmmmm.....

P-Angel is your man a hot lover in the bed chamber?

MellowDee,

After so many years married to the same person . . the only thing that gets hot is my night sweats. lol

Kidding, of course.

It's just not the same as a new passionate love. After so many years, a woman has to just be thankful that he can still get it up without meds.

Good thing tongues don't dysfunctions (like the erectile ones) . . what the hell would a woman do then?

> Com'er boy . . good dog.

HaHA!!! Well that on its own can cause enough throwing around of the bedsheets! Are you still physically attracted to him? Like do you still have moments when you look at him doing whatever and just think he's so sexy and you're thinking what you wanna do to him/have him do to you later on in the bedoir?

P-Angel you have a very comic way of describing things I goota hand it to ya!

Rarely . . it gets old. We love each other, so we have evolved to a different level of existence in the relationship where sex isn't as important as it used to be. Plus, with my menopause and him being as old as he is and his penis doesn't work quite like it used to . . it's a good thing that we are able to stay together, that we grew together, instead of apart.

It is my belief that people aren't suppose to stay together for so long, such as I've done . . walking contridiction, yeah . . . as soon as the fire and spark is gone between two people, they should move on.

However, I'm not complaining (whinging, lol) because it works for us. But, in most cases, it doesn't. When two people no longer have fire between them, their relationship falls apart and it's time to leave. You know what I mean?

*goota = gotta

Yeah I do kinda. Hey maybe you could become a swinger and have the best of both worlds?

I'm sorry . . .

That was a fleeting moment of my kinkiness . . besides, my dog doesn't like fish.

Swinging? My husband is a Virgo . . he wouldn't even consider that for a moment. They are a little prudish, in some ways . . and that would be one of them.

Well ok you could swing and he could take up gardening or something. 🙂

So he's good with his tongue eh? Well sure I think the tongue is greatly underrated as a sexual organ. Tongue can be great. Especially a nice big long one.

>A few chicks I know, talk about it, and one reason that was given, was he wasn't doing anything for her (getting the job done), yet he'd keep on and on and on, and she was tired of it, so she just faked it... To get it over and done with.

It happens because it's tough to discuss these things. MANY people simply cannot discuss sex. Many men don't know what they are doing, I didn't... I had to LEARN. I had to read, and be taught by women. If some women never taught me different, I would never have grown to be a good lover.

I realize tho, that many men simply can't take direction, and don't want to know what their woman wants. But just as many women, don't even know what they want. So alot of faking goes on.

Personally, I think that all girls and boys should have their first sexual experience with an older woman.

The boys will learn what to do, and the girls will learn what the boy is suppose to do. Plus, the boy will learn how a woman is suppose to treat the penis, which girls don't normally learn until their in their late 20's. So, if the boy realizes that older women 'know', they'll teach the younger ones about the all forgotten, "skin action, and, we have two hands, not just a mouth".

That's just my personal opinion.

When I say girls and boys, I don't mean kids . . I mean young adults, of course.

>Personally, I think that all girls and boys should have their first sexual experience with an older woman.

You're so right P-Angel. I lost my virginity at age 19 and when I was 21 met a 37 year old gal and we were lovers for over a year. She taught me a lot, and I even taught her a couple things, LOL... but she mostly taught me. We all gotta learn somehow. Why not with an experienced guide?

>Meaning, they're the same way with ALL of their lovers; assuming that what pleased one, will please them all

Indeed. As in, some women love direct clitoral contact, while others find that too much stimulation and like it around the edges... Like some women like to cum first before their man, some during, after, or not at all.... everyone is different and it helps to be open to all the possibilitys.

So many miss out thinking they know it all... you can never know it all.

Woh!!! That'd be too big for me anyway. There wouldn't be any room to manoeuvre with that size organ.

OOOOOOO MY GOOODNESS!!!

That guy is both long and thick! Ummm, I don't know if I could handle him ... my "stuff" is too little :O He looks to be atleast 7 inches or more :O !!!!

Actually ........

Well, I guess he could definately find my G-Spot with that big old thing. The trouble is ... he may find other things too 😛

Hahahaha, OOOO the more I look the more intriguing he is me

LOL!!!!! WEEEEE!!!! WEEE!!! *** cappy thinks about her G-Spot, her G-Spot her G-Spot ***

Phew! Okay I'm done 😉

wow 🙂

*** giggles ***

I'm still looking at it 😉

It's curved...

lol

ok is that normal?

I so did not expect to see that... guess the username was a hint huh? lol

It's kinda ugly looking if you ask moi...

Cappy you perv! Quit looking at that thing right this moment missy!

It's this kinda stuff that gives ppl ideas...

gets those who aren't ready too curious... plus the hormones... rush into things... pressures... ay ay ay

I get carried away sometimes and I have cappy in my mind when I say this stuff lol Too excited lady, too excited lol

I'll shut up now 😛

LOL!!!! Hey TC 😉

How are you 🙂

Girl I know, it has a hook in it ... that's why I keep looking. You know what they say about men who have that little hook on the tip ..... oh my goodness!!! LMAO

too long..doubt he would be able to work it well