are aquarians jealous?

i've been in a relationship with an aquarius for around 7 weeks.. we spend a lot of time together and every weekend, so its quite intense. He went to see his family a week and a half ago and sent me only one msg from his dad's phone , cause his aint working. I felt a bit lonely and neglected so last Friday being totally drunk I kissed with a guy. Bad point is his friends saw it and i dont know what to do about it now. I sent him a msg saying that i did some naught things on friday but it made me realise that i really care for him... do you think it will work? or is it over now?

Yeah I'm *REALLY* jealous. I'm the proverbial green eyed monster except I tend to go a deep shade of crimson.

so was it better to hide things than to tell him the truth?

uuuhhh vanessa you're so right... but its easier to be said than done!

look what i found by the way:
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its so true! 🙂

i think aqua's are jealous, they just don't like to show it...so you won't see it very often. my ex aqua was very jealous, but only showed it when he was drinking. if a guy looked at me or touched me, he would beat the crap out of them. and he was always questioning me when my phone rang, etc...so yeah, he was pretty jealous.

but, how can you go and kiss someone else if you care so much about your aqua—
i think you did it just for attention... bad move

"It sounds like you were jealous of him being with his family and not paying attention to you."

yes.

"but, how can you go and kiss someone else if you care so much about your aqua—
i think you did it just for attention... bad move"

and yes again.

i just feel neglected!! 😢((((

and i sent him this msg and he's not answering. maybe its because its not his phone or he doesnt have credits.. or maybe he just got upset with me... ? 😢

I don't know about other aquas but I'm the jealous type

count me in.... im jealoused and way possesive too although i neva show it......

ok. now any clues how to work it out?

My fellow Taury...you crossed the line. if you were concerned over what he might do/think/feel if he found out that you mugged down with someone else, then you should have never done it. It's only been 7 weeks.

However, my experience with Aquas have been that they have a LOT of pride. Yes, they do get jealous, but he won't show it. And because of this same pride, he won't forgive you.

Time to move on and next time a prospect spends time with his family, let him and don't do something foolish that you'll regret.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! NONONONONONO!!! guys dont be so hursh on me!!! i dont want to loose him 😢((

yeah, tauruslady...i don't know if you are ready for a relationship. you did a pretty immature thing just b/c you weren't getting the attention you wanted from him. that wasn't the right way to deal with it...at all.

but if havent kissed the guy i might never be sure that i really care for my bf... it really did that to me...

TL, your conscious led you to mug down with another guy to "test" how much you felt for this guy? Come on...you can't blame it on being drunk. Most of us know right from wrong with or without liquor.

An Aqua guy will be straight up with you. Ask him if it's over; he'll tell you. But someone mentioned that you'll be a toy and that's true. He will toy with your emotions for a while. If you're willing to deal with that, then more power to you, but the majority of us are telling you to move on because you broke his trust.

Doesn't say much about your patience level. I thought Taurus were meant to be ultra patient.

how does kissing another guy tell you if you really care for your current bf? that makes no sense.

spending time with your current bf and getting to know him should tell you if you really care for him and vice versa.

i messed up with my Aqua...these guys can attest to that...listen to me of all people in here (fellow Taurus) when I say this can't be mended.

when im drunk im just getting too sensual.. and that guy just gave me ultra amount of attention and i guess i missed it... and i was drunk, so ... it just happened...

isnt it better to say things? i think thats what trust is... to be honest with one another...

well and yes i needed another guy to be sure of my feelings. i know it sounds ridiculous, but i thought i can move on anyway as i found myself being neglected by my bf... but then afterwards i knew im in love with him and no guy is better..

so when you go thru the drive thru at wendys and they ask you if you want to biggie size, do you take that as attention and make out with the drive thru employee? NO...stop using "attention" as an excuse.

You knew what you did was wrong. You put yourself in this predicament and you can't back pedal. There's a difference between being honest and upfront; but what you did was disloyal (so NOT a Taurus trait) and after the fact.

"so when you go thru the drive thru at wendys and they ask you if you want to biggie size, do you take that as attention and make out with the drive thru employee?"

rotfl... 🙂🙂 i have never thought of that.. i'll think about it next time im at mcdonalds 😉 😉 hehe .. only joking.

7 weeks is not much thats why i probably got out of control so easily as well... but i said its been intense so we had this whole speech about being together and waiting for each other before he left...

on the other hand.. it was just a kiss.. a drunken one.. so maybe i shouldnt even tell him the whole story?

is there a pic of TL, pluto or were you referring to me not looking like a typical Taury?

i guess im not typical taurus.. im very impatient.. but i think im highly influenced by planet venus + i love food and arts , so i guess there's a lot of taurus in me as well

ok, i'm def. typical taurus...

but she's not showing the signs; you're right.

let him go, TL, let him go........

chances are he's already moved on himself to someone who won't rock the boat with him.

GRRR

dont you people ever make mistakes?

i came here to ask you how to sort it out.. i dont want to let him go...!!

TL, go back to your original post and read the last line:

"do you think it will work? or is it over now?"

actually you didn't ask how to sort it out....what you originally asked and what you're hoping to hear/read are two different things.

its not cheating. its just a mistake kiss. i dont meet other guy behind his back and i havent had sex with anyone... 😢

i've got gemini in my rising sign.

ok i'll try to talk. i know he likes me. and i told him before he left that he knows im flirtatious... but i aint no bitch. 😢

LOOOOL thats too funny now.. i didnt know this forum changes bit** word to cookiemonster .. hehehe

the guy you made out with was someone you met without your current bf knowing, right? so how is that not meeting other guys behind his back?

but it was an accident... i meant i dont meet any guys reagularly.. come on, are you guys really so strict? i dont know why, but the more you tell me it wont work, the more i think he'll understand and i'll be smart enough to describe the situation as the most harmful one... weird.

well if you feel so strongly that he'll understand, then why continue to reply to our posts?

kisses are not accidents, unless you trip over one heavy bar stool and his lips happens to break your fall.

ok he texted me back asking how i was naghty with.. and asked no to lie him.. jees.. so he took it serious now. shit.

who not how

"kisses are not accidents, unless you trip over one heavy bar stool and his lips happens to break your fall."

thats what exactly happened! 🙂

how old are you TL?

21 . . . my heart is breaking now and i dont know what to answer..

he's testing you....he already knows what you did, but he's testing you to see if you'll be honest. trust me, Aquas do this....pluto is right.

this whole thing sounds orchestrated..was it a mere coincidence that his friends just happened to be in the same vicinity? It seems like you are trying to get a reaction from him or purposely make him jealous. If that is the case, he will most definitely see through that facade and he probably wont take you seriously. How would you feel if he did something like that to you?

tauruslady000 I feel for you as I have done this or felt like doing it at times but the feeling of being tempted to be unfaithful springs from insecurity. It's like you felt driven to snog this guy to calm the endless worrying you were doing because this aqua guy wasn't texting you. I don't know what to say about your current relationship with this guy. It depends on how tolerant or open minded he is (I don't think his sign would be a big factor in this although cos he's an aqua you can always bet on his whimsical nature to be unpredictable and perhaps surprise you by letting it pass). Whatever way he reacts to it, the more important thing is that you look into your self and try to strengthen that weak area of your character that lets external things such as your 7-week-old aqua boyfriend drive you to do things that you anguish over afterwards.

MellowDee, you're so right... I think you discovered why I really did it. But on the other hand that was the same day when he texted me after a week no hear... but maybe I tried to show to myself that I won't be there when he claps? I'm confused.. I just texted him all my explanation and lets see how it goes...

Yes but you're still talking as if the ball is in his court. It shouldn't matter what he does or doesn't do and it certainly shouldn't dictate what you do - especially if it is something you feel guilty about later. And as they say you can't change anybody else, but if you wanna be with them you've got to change. And this is doubly true if you wanna have a relationship with an aqua.If that's the way he is now in terms of not texting you enough then he probably isn't gonna change.

"If that's the way he is now in terms of not texting you enough then he probably isn't gonna change."

-so true. if you can't deal with him being like that now, you are not going to last very long with him. if you need constant attention (which it sounds like you do) then this is definitely NOT the guy for you...

OK. He's now remaining silent. And I'm going crazy... I think he's actually angry with me now... shit shit shit.. i think you were right about not texting/phoning - it sounds so serious now! Like if i really did something bad...

and yes, maybe we're not compatible... but it was just this special connection and special feeling we had... i feel so shit now!

hehehe i am freaking out!! i am!!!!!! i did told him. and im getting cold silence in return now... i tried to make things as delicate and meaningless as possible, but i think it didnt help much.

i did tell him i meant.. sorry for my terrible grammar but i aint thinking properly anymore

What better place to show that you can't deal with an Aqua by being impatient and flighty than on the Aqua board!?!?!?!?

TL, chill out. If he's like any of us normal folk, he either has a job or school or something that is keeping him from responding, or...

he's absolutely pissed, which I don't blame him.

Turn the table around...and I say this in the absolute sincerest form...We as Taurys can be very jealous...so let's say YOU went out of town and visted your family and he texted you and told you that he made out with a girl, but it was a mistake. Would you let it slide? Hell no, you wouldn't - you're a Taurus...don't say you wouldn't.

Evening putting the signs of the zodiac away for a moment, it's about morals and you knew that if you liked this guy, going and kissing on some other guy was not going to make you decide any moreso or quicker on your feelings for him.

but im jealous and possesive so thats a different story!!

plus i said it made me realise i really care for him...

personally i would be so upset... i would think the guy is a casanova...

im trying to chill out but i think its unfair he left me so confused... at least he could have texted me that its over now... but this silence is killing me!!

why is it that jealous girls like me always pick guys who love flirtin?

ya u do— coz im super jealoused and possesive im attracted to quite loner guys.. i mean i like crazy party men but only as friends.. im not into havin' a party animal BF 😛

any female company means a lot more to loner guys

not my type of guys.. they are workoholics and really not into girls 😛... thats the kind im attracted too... if u've seen CSI... im talkin'about Gil Grissom kinndda mad scientist men 😛😛

first of all im hardly attracted to men... but when i am.. they are just UNIQUE... nothing like u'll see around 😛