EXTREMELY worried,but should I be?

My chart
Sun Aquarius
Moon Aries
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Aquarius
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Sagittarius
Asc node Capricorn


Her chart

Sun Libra
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Libra
Venus Scorpio
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Virgo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Cancer
Asc node Virgo

I'm going to get straight to the point.I don't like being manipulated and this chart makes me a little worried..my sister is a double scorp. & manipulates me all the time & it's usually weeks before I figure it out..this woman has 13years on me & could probably read my mind..chemistry wise,it seems TOO good to be true but on the surface,shes been pretty upfront about her shortcomings..all of her weaknesses cater to me,PERFECTLY.And I just KNOW I am missing something here..

She's tries REALLY hard to convince me,she's a REAL person & isn't trying to get over on me,I can see it in her eyes..yet that could be another ploy..it's like my heart is REALLY feeling her & the attraction is nothing like ive ever felt before..and I don't want to hold back,but being exploited by ANYONE especially if they make me feel like this,just the thought..makes my stomach cringe..she's out maneuvered any and everything i said to her,so that the only thing I could say,is really what I was feeling..she seems to just want some closure from me,but I have no clue what I am getting myself into..I need some SERIOUS advice!

ur post is a little confusing and jumbled. "my sister is a double scorp" and "it's like my heart is REALLY feeling her & the attraction is nothing like ive ever felt before". r we talking about incest here? r u talking about ur sister who ur attracted to? if so, then YES, she is manipulating u lol. if not, can u pls CLEARLY state ur concern? ur heading straight to a point where a short summary of the background is needed in order to assist u better.

@AliCar15

Yeah,theres no doubt in my mind that she did some manipulation to get with me..but the thing is,I WANTED to get with her..so it's like,should I be complaining?..and yeah @ "master manipulator" like I was saying @ aqaurius 21 -cough cough- my sister is a double scorp. meaning I know how manipulative,a Scorpio can be & how good they are at making you believe something...

& another thing,i've been in relationships with libra's in the past & they know how to REALLY piss u off..and with that scorpio moon,like you said @alicar15 that seems inevitable..im I am def. gonna have to go with my gut on this one and take it slow..I feel like a fish in a fish tank..I have no idea what im in for..any more advice would be helpful!thnks

@Aqaurius24 & anyone else,I haven't been on a date with her yet..we plan to sometime maybe this Sat. it started out as me admiring her,then finally us saying hi..then us saying a couple of words..to finally a full blown 8hr of us observing and trying to get into eachother minds & a conversation about a little me & what seemed like alot of her,if she was honest..she said alot of things that were pretty heavy,infornt of alot of people,she told me things that made me really want to "feel for her" but instead,I held back and became "colder" as we talked,and the more I pulled back,the more her expression "seemed" to become more,genuine..she made it toooooo easy for me to ask her out,so im very skeptical right now.Is there anything I should be worried about?Should I be ok,with everything thus far?She has two kids,she says she hasn't been in a relationship for 4yrs,and she said she lost weight..btw she isn't ugly,she's about 8.5 so i dnt see why she's single..

Either way, you're gonna have to take a huge risk

The risk that it all could backfire on you if you open up to her & give her your heart all for nothing

Or the risk that she really is a good one for you & everything end up being worth it

You cannot proceed in love w/o 1st taking a risk. Trying to skip the "risk taking" department in love is how most people miss out on a good thing & end up regretting it later

Only you know if you can afford to take 1 risk over the other...

Sometimes things aren't too good to be true. No, they're simply really good b/c we've never experienced that level of "good" before. So at this point, you can either be the kind of person that over-analyzes & ruins the moment of "good" or you can actually enjoy it & just HOPE for the best.

She may be a master manipulator, she may not be. That's something you'll ever know unless you take a risk =)

Plus, everybody has the ABILITY & means to manipulate someone. Doesn't mean they manipulate everyone that comes into their life. They pick and choose.

A weak-minded person's chances of being manipulated are much higher than someone whose the complete opposite.

Whether or not you ALLOW someone to manipulate you is on you & IS something you can control.

And trust me, people can always tell if your manipulate-material or not. So just make sure that you're sending off the signal that manipulation won't work even if you're madly in love with someone.

for any relatoinship..whether it be love or friendship look at mars (desire) and venus.

and rising as compatibility with the moon. forget the sun its so general.

you guys are completely incompatible

Posted by krysrenee7
Plus, everybody has the ABILITY & means to manipulate someone. Doesn't mean they manipulate everyone that comes into their life. They pick and choose.

A weak-minded person's chances of being manipulated are much higher than someone whose the complete opposite.

Whether or not you ALLOW someone to manipulate you is on you & IS something you can control.

And trust me, people can always tell if your manipulate-material or not. So just make sure that you're sending off the signal that manipulation won't work even if you're madly in love with someone.

This is interesting thanks for this. I rarely manipulate anyone as a capricorn. I would only do it to someone who I hate but a determining factor would not be if they are weak but if they look unobservant and dull ie not intelligent enough to realise whats going on

I reckon when your talking to someone make some joke about how you manipulated something or someone and then ask some advice how to get something eg a social situation to go your way. If shes master manipulator she'll be full of ideas

Posted by michellemabelle
I reckon when your talking to someone make some joke about how you manipulated something or someone and then ask some advice how to get something eg a social situation to go your way. If shes master manipulator she'll be full of ideas

haha this is true!

Manipulators get so caught up in their own works that they look like deers in headlights when they find out that someone was already 2 steps ahead of them or had manipulated them too. Funniest "puzzled" look ever!