Are you boring?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by michellemabelle on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 and has 14 replies.

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@michellemabelle
15 YearsCapricorn

Im incredibly boring and I need to do something about it because Im dating an aquarius!! Can anyone explain why Im so boring and how I can harness my attrbutes to reverse the trend?

Sun Capricorn 13.30 Ascendant Aries 28.15
Moon Libra 9.44 II Gemini 3.47
Mercury Capricorn 22.46 III Gemini 23.33
Venus Capricorn 27.47 IV Cancer 10.19
Mars Sagittarius 17.29 V Cancer 29.08
Jupiter Pisces 13.55 VI Leo 27.44
Saturn Cancer 15.35 R VII Libra 28.15
Uranus Scorpio 1.59 VIII Sagittarius 3.47
Neptune Sagittarius 10.33 IX Sagittarius 23.33
Pluto Libra 9.15 Midheaven Capricorn 10.19
Lilith Aquarius 26.28 XI Capricorn 29.08
Asc node Sagittarius 9.50 XII Aquarius 27.44
Thanks

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@lildol
17 Years5,000+ Posts

I first read it that you were bored because you were dating an Aqua LOL

Did the Aqua tell you that you were boring? That's his perception!
Maybe the Aqua's making you boring... I'd go with that one ๐Ÿ˜„

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@leilaxxlovez
16 Years500+ Posts

Pfft!! be urself mehn! The one thing ive noticed about us,or the caps around me, and myself,hehe,is that the longer we know someone the more exciting we r to them. Basically, the more u get to know someone,the more comfortable ull be aroun them, and the more ull open up and stuff. So i think with time u will come outta ur shell.

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@michellemabelle
15 YearsCapricorn

i dont have any moneyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Yeah when I kick arse its kind of playful and I have a weird habit of making a wild and odd experience as a form of therapy. For example if I hear someones died or some awful news Ill goto a spa for a full body massage or go along the street carrying something ridiculous that makes people stop and laugh or go have a picnic in some strange obscrue place where its wierd to have a picnic....then my mind will be filled with that instead of the unhappy news.

The reason Im worried a bit about being boring is that my daily routine is totally empty. You say.what did you get up today Ill say......nothing and its true. Basically Ive got a disability and go around in an elecrtic wheelchair. The aqua guy is full of projects and exciting news and when it comes to my turn to talk theres not much happening. I drink tea, eat, sleep, do a bit on computer and rest......a lot.

So whats to talk about besides activities......I suppose....ideas ๐Ÿ˜›

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@lildol
17 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by michellemabelle

The reason Im worried a bit about being boring is that my daily routine is totally empty. You say.what did you get up today Ill say......nothing and its true. Basically Ive got a disability and go around in an elecrtic wheelchair. The aqua guy is full of projects and exciting news and when it comes to my turn to talk theres not much happening. I drink tea, eat, sleep, do a bit on computer and rest......a lot.

So whats to talk about besides activities......I suppose....ideas ๐Ÿ˜›

Sounds like life to me! I look at people like they have two heads when they ask Mon morn "did you do anything fun this weekend?" Me: "Yeah, housework, yard work, laundry, same as every weekend. Ya know, the things normal people do." ๐Ÿ˜›

(although, I do find satisfaction in those things - satisfaction of a job well done or just getting some task completed = fun; doesn't itโ€”)

I wouldn't worry about him finding you boring, if he did he wouldn't be dating you!! Is there some type of activity he's involved with that you could work on with on? (I'm thinking shining silver or refinishing furniture - yeah, I'm full of exciting things to do ๐Ÿ˜›).

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@lildol
17 Years5,000+ Posts

Let me add to that, fun and boring are relative terms... "Fun" is what one finds enjoyment in, not something necessarily "exciting" - this does not make you boring in the least sense if you find enjoyment in your life or something you do in your life that someone else would consider boring. This makes you YOU! And, that's a beautiful thing!!

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@doubletaurus
15 Years

Posted by morningsb

Posted by Wynter
Too bad about that Capricorn Venus. ๐Ÿ˜ข

ditto.

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Wait I don't get this ๐Ÿฆ‡?
I suppose because I don't understand how a Cap Venus works?

Also for the OP: You seem like a fun sign to get to know - interesting asc and moon. Never dealt with a Libra Moon O_o. I always think of Caps as proper. You're really reserved. What are your hobbies? Talk about your hobbies if anything. You enjoy tea right? Recommend some tea places. Or places to go? What you aspire? What do you want to do in life? Ask THEM questions if anything. Sure you don't have much to say "supposedly" because you're straight forward, but I feel like you would contribute to a conversation. Maybe you read the newspaper, new idea, funny comic, just say what you think. Ask for advice! Sure your routine may seem empty - talk about dreams if you rest a lot or something. Ask what do they dream?

Of course ask questions or talk about things by your nature, maybe some of these questions will get the ball rollin'?