have you ever had a secret crush??

as the topic says..have you ever had a secret crush on someone??Did you ever tell the person what you felt?

Yes and hell no 🙂

yes and yes!

It all depends. If I have a secret crush on someone that I know I won't see very often, it's very likely that I WON'T let that person know. Now, if I have a crush on a person that I see on a daily basis, like at work, in the neighborhood or through a mutual friend, then that's different. First, with me being an Aquarian I will scope that person out completely. Once I decide that they're a winner, I will go back in forth about it in my mind as to whether or not it's even worth making them known of my crush. THEN, I go back & forth about how I'm going to approach them in a way that is beneficial for me. I like to be chased. There have been times that I'll crush on someone but if I see that they haven't shown any interest in me, I'll quickly move on & find a reason not to like them. But If I'm crushing on someone whom I know is crushing on me too then I'll wait & let that person "go first." Some say it's pride. Who knows

And even if I decide to let someone know I'm crushing on them, I do it in a subtle & laid back manner. I would never come on to strong or just come right out & say it. I would probably start initiating conversations with that person & flirt in my "own" way that might not be as obvious to someone that doesn't know how to read between the lines. I'd still keep my detached & aloof manner, but then again I'd do or say something that I know would make them want to draw closer to me so that they'd start crushing on me too, thus them making the 1st move on me & making my life smoother that way 😉

@Fiesty...it's crazy. Most of the people that I've crushed on acted completely suprised when I finally told them the truth that I was crushing on them. Most of the time they say they didn't even know it, claiming I gave them no "out of the ordinary" signs that I was interested in them. And in response, I say "Oh the signs were there. You just weren't reading between the lines." Aquas, we aren't that extra. We are how we are ALL the time, regardless of who we're around vs. alot of other people that change their behavior & how they do things depending on who they're around. When an Aqua woman is crushing on someone, it's not like she does anything too extra or out of the ordinary so it's to be expected that alot of the times the people we're crushing on have no idea, or atleast don't feel that we are sending strong enough signals to confirm our crushes. If anything, when I'm crushing, I get nervous & my "investigator" & "suspicious" side kicks in. On 1 hand, I can't help/control that I'm crushing on them BUT b/c we Aquas fear rejection, I make it a point to fully try to see the person's full character just to make sure that I'm not being an idiot & crushing on the wrong person. If only others knew, when we spend time (if they can even tell that we're doing this) trying to figure out someone, that's usually a GOOD thing. That means that they've activated the side in us that only cares to know about what we're interested in. Unfortunately for others, our way of flirting, crushing or whatever isn't as "cliche" & and ways of going about things aren't as common & noticable like it is for other signs in the same situations. Ha. I love it.

hello everyone,

is an email from an Aqua lady containing one word "miaow!" such a sign? Ha Ha.

tx

Posted by Prince_Pisces
yes lol. . . .I had a crush on one of my teachers when i was in 10th grade LOL

stfu. so did i!

yeh I love getting crushes on people although i havent met anyone crush worth atm......i love obsessing over them and doing background cheks usually the first thing i do is find out theyre birthday and from that theyre sign lol but on the exterior youd never kno what was going on lol.....Im such a stalker but its better than being the victim.......yeh thats really sucks

Yes and yes. No use in holding back those feelings. Just let 'em out and roll with it.

Easier said than done..

Just follow the Nike motto and you're set. I've always been pretty good with rejection anyway. Get it got it good. Yip yip yurrr!!!

Aww man! I miss having a crush! I havent had one in YEARS...probably like 5 or 6 yrs. Its so annoying to. I want one so bad.

No, I never reveal a crush...it depends on if its mutual though, then I'll flirt....but if not I just daydream and stare from a far.

Posted by Lady_M
Aww man! I miss having a crush! I havent had one in YEARS...probably like 5 or 6 yrs. Its so annoying to. I want one so bad.

No, I never reveal a crush...it depends on if its mutual though, then I'll flirt....but if not I just daydream and stare from a far.

'Fraidy cat.

Maybe! 😛 But sometimes the fantasies are better than the realities...

yeh i wonder who my next crush will be??......poor fucker......my fav types of crushes are the work place ones......woah do i get carried away in my mind

but seriously if i acted on a crush.....it would not go down well......I cant flirt for shit .......I'm usually the one who gets approched anyways......but once id like to get the guy that i approach like be able to ask him.........i dont know how people do it

Out of my four major crushes, i told 2 of them, and didn't tell the other two. It depends on how confident I was at the time. My last crush is now my boyfriend. :-) Best advice: always tell. You'll never know the answer is no unless you hear it from the guys/girls themselves.

Oh MY GOD I did It, after like 25+ Years.....

There was a girl in high school she was the tallest lass in the grade, and I had a crush on her for about 4 years, she was one of my best friends, and I think I was always to worried if I asked her that it may have wrecked our thing we had going. OMG, I wish, I read the signs... I was so close to asking all those years ago, but I was far too shy.

After 25+ years, I finally caught up with her via FaceBook, both her and I are happily Married and she has three boys, I have 2, Both very sucessful jobs, and she still lives in my home town.

During a Facebook chat, I finally asked the QUESTION? If i could have found the courage to ask her out what would she have said? even after all these years, I think i blushed... At 40, I finally found out how silly I was. She advised that it would have been YES.

More to follow later, an I say go for it don't make the same mistake as me, after all they can say is YES or No. No harm done...

OMG 🙂

Maybe hope for me next lifetime....

Married a Water sign to make MUD (Capricorn)

The girl in question was a Air sign (Libra)

My Sign is Earth sign (Cancer)

So, I think that making MUD is working for me, but it was nice to KNOW, a WHAT IF!!! LOL 🙂