He always come back to me

Me: Cap ascendent Gem, Him: Aqua.
We met 10 years ago, and through those 10 years, he dated 3 girls. All 3 crazies who were good girls at first but turned possessive and jealous of my friendship with him.

We've always been very close, but we live far from one another and a relationship was never possible, even though we hinted that if we did live closer, it would happen.

Each time he would meet a girl, they would feel insecure and would force this Aqua to stop talking to me. And he complied each time.
Then, when a breakup occurred, he would contact me, apologizing and we would talk again like nothing happened.

2 days ago, he contacted me after 3 years of no contact, told me about his last break up and we've been talking since like those 3 years never happened. Even saying things like: "You know me better than anyone!"

What does it mean for Aquas to do that? To go back to the same person over and over?

Comfie Blankie, dont take his blankie away from him. Let him take the blankie away from himself. Now I ask you how to do this? Proving to be a difficult thing to do. Needs to realise he will feel comfortable without his blankie around.

Can someone help here? No I got it, blankies good but they are nasty, claustifobic, insolent and they make one TOO hot. Oh not to mention they are very unhygenic. I mean imagine cuddling up up a blankie and having god only knows what stuck in the thing, your literely cuddling up to a piece of carpet which really tracks the dirt and who wants to sleep with dirt not to mention all the other creepy crawlies that go with dirt. So he must realise that he more sick with the blankie than without no wonder he gets the flu all the time and is forever sneezing and got the sinus thing happening.

The blankie is making him sick without him realising it and can rattle off lots of reasons as to why this blankie does make him sick. Its best to, for good healthy life, to leave blankie so he can go and make a life for himself without blankie in it and then find healthy blankie to cuddle up to that wont make him sick or tired or flu-like.

Theres that unhealthy blankie- the old blankie - that is no good for him at all! and he needs to leave that one and go find a healthy blankie one that is good and not nasty, claustifobic, isolent and make one TOO hot. If he can manage to do this he will find that his life will be fun, happy and everything that he could ever want it to be.

This is kind of a hard one

I don't think he wants to be with you in a romantic way b/c if he did, he'd make it happen.

He enjoys your friendship & the fact that you understand him & doesn't ever want to let that go. However, he also enjoys the trust of whichever female he's with in the moment & doesn't want to ruin that either.

Aquas are the sign of "friendship." We know that a friendship can still be strong even if we don't talk to you every day or even every month. Sometimes you just kind of have that "understanding" with someone. It's that secret silent understanding that tells you that they'll be back eventually lol

If he was dating you romantically & kept disappearing only to reappear, over & over again, then I'd say leave him alone b/c he's just using you as a continuous plan B. But if he's never made any real effort to be with you or start that process with you, then his only intention is friendship. And with some people (Aquas included), distance and/or lack of consistent communication doesn't lesson the quality of the friendship

I don't know how true this is for you but here is what I think may be going on. (Based on my experience with an Aqua male). Aquas don't involve deep emotion in any relationships (friends or romance) easily so once an emotional connection is made it is there for a good, long time. Maybe even forever in a way. If he always comes back then he cares for you a good deal and probably thinks about you frequently when in those relationships. For me, I feel a deep connection with my ex Aqua that cannot be explained. He feels the same. That connection is the only thing that kept us together for as long as we made it and is the only thing I miss about him. He was horrible to me and I don't regret moving on, but we are still connected.

+1

I guess the issues is that if the OTHER person on the other side of the spectrum is somehow assuming that an Aquarius always coming back = The Aquarius wanting something more than friendship, then things can get kind of sticky

If both people are content with a long-term connection that REMAINS platonic (a connection is all it is & all it ever will be), then so be it. I get though that it might feel kind of weird, rare or something that sparks curiosity