Help!!!!! aqua girl is confusing me...

dear aqua friends,

I have this aqua girl, 7 months old chat friend of mine calling me around 5-6 times a day, we talk from 0-45 mts depending on the available time almost every other day. She is 5 hrs away from my timezone and i get calls at 1am, 3am, 5am and whenever she feels like talking to me, she calls me. I like her. She know that. But she keeps saying that she is not in love with me. As far as I know she is not seeing anyone and crying over a leo man who walked away from her. She talks a lot to me on almost everything but keep telling me I dont know her much and her past and she is not ready to tell me whatever it is that I am unaware of. She is 22 and that makes me wonder if she is unable to figure herself out and probably is confused with herself. She also keep telling me am cold and not emotional(which being a libra is understandable).

Why does an aqua women calls me so many times and talk so much and still tell me she is not interested in me? Just a friend? am confused and given up deducting and guessing.

any help is appreciated.

thnx

probably needs someone to help her take everything off her chest, just that;
calling you everytime she wants, not taking into consideration that you can be asleep and expecting that you are always there for her is typical for many aquas- very egocentric creatures. I had a friend like this, when she needed me, she was with me all the time, when I needed her, she didnt even answer my texts. It wasnt just her, I knew more aquas like that. Just make some limits, man, if you dont, she will keep being in the centre of your world with you being just some kind of temporary support for her. Im not saying that aquas are always selfish- they are selfish when you let them be, like most of people.. just with their scattered minds its specially hard for them to concentrate on anyone else apart from themselves- unless they clearly demand it.

I agree with aquaj...no matter how much we may like something...if its not realistically posssible we're able to cut our losses.[aquas arent as idealistic as astrologers claim]. She may like you, but doesnt want to put her self in the position of not being able to fully be with you (Im speaking from experience her).

As for calling, that shows she likes talking to you. If you dont want her calling you at all times of the night, just let her know. (she might not call you at all again, but you gotta do what ya gotta do).

I do like her. She still lives with her parents in limited freedom. which as you know is the last thing an aqua wants - absence of freedom. I wanted to go meet her and we planned to meet in Aug and she called it off saying her parents might not allow her to hang out with me so i gotta wait for a while. At times she suddenly asks me if am still interested to go meet her and when i say yes, she start pushing dates like she is looking for a perfect date where everything will become in her favor. I dont think parents will ever change. So she has to change her ideas and pull herself out of her country and later parents will slowly get to their normal senses and understand her. So there is so much of fear in her. I dont know if thats what keeps her from telling me she likes me.

I normally get pissed off when someone calls me while am sleeping. But this time it seems like a whole diff thing. I dont even feel sleepy once i start talking to her. and then goes back to bed smoothly. I guess i like to talk to her even when its at weird hours. 🙂

thnx everyone.

sounds like to me she likes the convenience of you being available to her on HER time. (we aquas can be selfish at times) But she enjoys talking to you and she obviously feels comfortable telling you about her break up but be very careful not to misread her she is probably so caught up in her own pain (there's that selfish thing again) that she isn't aware of how you feel. So my advice to you is either cut her off, limit your availability or be upfront and tell her how you feel.