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How to Attract Your Aquarius Ex Back

To reconnect with your Aquarius ex, focus on demonstrating genuine personal growth and maintaining respectful distance. Show your improved character through consistent actions rather than frequent texts. Building a friendship gradually can help, but avoid rushing. Patience and authentic self-improvement are key to capturing her interest again.

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Ever since our breakup, I went strict no contact for 3 months. What is the next step I should take to attract/ get her attention again? I've focused a lot on improving myself physically and correcting my behavior and I'm confident that I am a better version of myself before she left. How do I show her the new changes in me (especially character wise)? Do I drop short upbeat texts every other week? Do I work towards being her friend? What if I fall into the friend zone forever? Please help. Thank you Aquariuses I would very much appreciate it.
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Posted by Randomperson
Ever since our breakup, I went strict no contact for 3 months. What is the next step I should take to attract/ get her attention again? I've focused a lot on improving myself physically and correcting my behavior and I'm confident that I am a better version of myself before she left. How do I show her the new changes in me (especially character wise)? Do I drop short upbeat texts every other week? Do I work towards being her friend? What if I fall into the friend zone forever? Please help. Thank you Aquariuses I would very much appreciate it.
Well, that would depend on the problem your relationship had or you both with each other.
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I was too clingy in the relationship and can get quick tempered. Apart from that, our relationship was good with a lot of communication and mutual respect. I know that this can be a deal breaker for Aquarius that's why I decided to give her space while I seriously worked on myself. I'm not expecting to jump back into a rs immediately after no contact period. But I would like to know how to increase my chances in getting back with her eventually. And most importantly, letting her know that I'm working on my issues.
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I thought that there's no point trying to convince or talk her out of it, but the only way is to Show through actions and let her come to the conclusion that she still wants to give it another shot (without pressurizing her)? This is the step that I'm stucked at. That's what I kind of got from the other threads.

I've read somewhere that it's not a good idea to bring up about the past relationship as this tends to bring back bad memories but it would be better to start a clean slate. Argh this is so confusing I just dont want to screw my chances ):
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Posted by miriyahhh
Why do guys think it's OK to move on 3 whole months meanwhile you still madly in love with her. That's a very long time. I'd either assume u are married or good and moved on by then I wouldn't want anything to do with you. You should've fought tooth and nail at least 3 weeks no contact.
I did fight hard for her after the break up. I gave her a speech pointing my flaws and how I would change them without all the emotional mess. I guess she was slightly swayed because she told me she would reconsider but sadly she sticked to her decision a week after. That's before I went no contact because I figured that I needed to give her the space and time to be alone. Do Aquarius girls move on after 3 months if they don't hear anything? Should I have reached out earlier? Next week is her birthday and I wasn't planning to wish her but now it's all so confusing. We broke up on a good term and agreed to be friends but I haven't heard from her ever since. What's up with that too??

What's the best approach to take? Do I show her that I'm determined to correct my mistakes by being by her side or do I live my life happily to show that Im not hung up but have changed?