It's just really bugging me - Aquarius girl not replying

Long story short, Tinder > swapped phone numbers > texted back and forth a few times a day > shes ignoring my texts

We were having a great conversation, she even kept telling me how she would really like to visit/have me visit which is cool. Normally I wouldn't care if someone decided to not talk to me anymore but there was a day where she didn't reply to my text for a couple of hours and sent me texts like:

"im super super sorry, ive been with my friends all day"

"i missed talking to you though"

and now it's going on to like day 3 or 4 of no replies. She's not even viewed my messages.

I'm not bothered about the fact that she isn't replying but I want to know what's happened so suddenly lol, it's just really bugging me because normally I can easily tell if something went wrong but in this case there are just no signs and I'm pretty confused

Hope everyone's having a good day!

Sounds like she somehow felt that the relationship was about to get more stable and then suddenly got insecure about it...

Just be upfront and ask her why she acts like that

All the talk about meeting face to face...have you made concrete steps to see her?? She's starting to back off because your dragging your feet. Talk is just talk at the end of the day.

Either make plans with her or keep swiping right.

She’s busy. You’re not a priority.

Posted by LadyNeptune
All the talk about meeting face to face...have you made concrete steps to see her?? She's starting to back off because your dragging your feet. Talk is just talk at the end of the day.

Either make plans with her or keep swiping right.

I tend to agree with this

Posted by justagirl

Posted by LadyNeptune
All the talk about meeting face to face...have you made concrete steps to see her?? She's starting to back off because your dragging your feet. Talk is just talk at the end of the day.

Either make plans with her or keep swiping right.

I tend to agree with this

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Gorgeous avi!

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Posted by justagirl

Posted by LadyNeptune
All the talk about meeting face to face...have you made concrete steps to see her?? She's starting to back off because your dragging your feet. Talk is just talk at the end of the day.

Either make plans with her or keep swiping right.

I tend to agree with this

Gorgeous avi!

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Thank you 😘

Posted by boomb
Long story short, Tinder > swapped phone numbers > texted back and forth a few times a day > shes ignoring my texts

We were having a great conversation, she even kept telling me how she would really like to visit/have me visit which is cool. Normally I wouldn't care if someone decided to not talk to me anymore but there was a day where she didn't reply to my text for a couple of hours and sent me texts like:

"im super super sorry, ive been with my friends all day"

"i missed talking to you though"

and now it's going on to like day 3 or 4 of no replies. She's not even viewed my messages.

I'm not bothered about the fact that she isn't replying but I want to know what's happened so suddenly lol, it's just really bugging me because normally I can easily tell if something went wrong but in this case there are just no signs and I'm pretty confused

Hope everyone's having a good day!

lol typical aqua women mind games.

Posted by LadyNeptune
All the talk about meeting face to face...have you made concrete steps to see her?? She's starting to back off because your dragging your feet. Talk is just talk at the end of the day.

Either make plans with her or keep swiping right.

Yes I have, I asked her when she was free and she said she would let me know. She's currently in the process of moving so wasn't sure if she would be free before or after.

Posted by AerialView

Posted by boomb
Long story short, Tinder > swapped phone numbers > texted back and forth a few times a day > shes ignoring my texts

We were having a great conversation, she even kept telling me how she would really like to visit/have me visit which is cool. Normally I wouldn't care if someone decided to not talk to me anymore but there was a day where she didn't reply to my text for a couple of hours and sent me texts like:

"im super super sorry, ive been with my friends all day"

"i missed talking to you though"

and now it's going on to like day 3 or 4 of no replies. She's not even viewed my messages.

I'm not bothered about the fact that she isn't replying but I want to know what's happened so suddenly lol, it's just really bugging me because normally I can easily tell if something went wrong but in this case there are just no signs and I'm pretty confused

Hope everyone's having a good day!

lol typical aqua women mind games.

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So she texted me yesterday night... With one single message

"Suck my p****"

What the fuck—? I am so intrigued and confused by this girl

Posted by boomb

Posted by AerialView

Posted by boomb
Long story short, Tinder > swapped phone numbers > texted back and forth a few times a day > shes ignoring my texts

We were having a great conversation, she even kept telling me how she would really like to visit/have me visit which is cool. Normally I wouldn't care if someone decided to not talk to me anymore but there was a day where she didn't reply to my text for a couple of hours and sent me texts like:

"im super super sorry, ive been with my friends all day"

"i missed talking to you though"

and now it's going on to like day 3 or 4 of no replies. She's not even viewed my messages.

I'm not bothered about the fact that she isn't replying but I want to know what's happened so suddenly lol, it's just really bugging me because normally I can easily tell if something went wrong but in this case there are just no signs and I'm pretty confused

Hope everyone's having a good day!

lol typical aqua women mind games.

So she texted me yesterday night... With one single message

"Suck my p****"

What the fuck—? I am so intrigued and confused by this girl

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have you replied?

uh if she's not replying she is not interested in you.

there's nothing to puzzle. jeeez. i hate men like this.

Posted by lisabethur8
uh if she's not replying she is not interested in you.

there's nothing to puzzle. jeeez. i hate men like this.

Uhhhh... Thanks for reading the whole thread

jeeeez. i hate ppl who jump to conclusions like this.

Posted by boomb

Posted by AerialView

Posted by boomb
Long story short, Tinder > swapped phone numbers > texted back and forth a few times a day > shes ignoring my texts

We were having a great conversation, she even kept telling me how she would really like to visit/have me visit which is cool. Normally I wouldn't care if someone decided to not talk to me anymore but there was a day where she didn't reply to my text for a couple of hours and sent me texts like:

"im super super sorry, ive been with my friends all day"

"i missed talking to you though"

and now it's going on to like day 3 or 4 of no replies. She's not even viewed my messages.

I'm not bothered about the fact that she isn't replying but I want to know what's happened so suddenly lol, it's just really bugging me because normally I can easily tell if something went wrong but in this case there are just no signs and I'm pretty confused

Hope everyone's having a good day!

lol typical aqua women mind games.

So she texted me yesterday night... With one single message

"Suck my p****"

What the fuck—? I am so intrigued and confused by this girl

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Lol she just gave me idea to use on my aqua man

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by boomb

Posted by AerialView

Posted by boomb
Long story short, Tinder > swapped phone numbers > texted back and forth a few times a day > shes ignoring my texts

We were having a great conversation, she even kept telling me how she would really like to visit/have me visit which is cool. Normally I wouldn't care if someone decided to not talk to me anymore but there was a day where she didn't reply to my text for a couple of hours and sent me texts like:

"im super super sorry, ive been with my friends all day"

"i missed talking to you though"

and now it's going on to like day 3 or 4 of no replies. She's not even viewed my messages.

I'm not bothered about the fact that she isn't replying but I want to know what's happened so suddenly lol, it's just really bugging me because normally I can easily tell if something went wrong but in this case there are just no signs and I'm pretty confused

Hope everyone's having a good day!

lol typical aqua women mind games.

So she texted me yesterday night... With one single message

"Suck my p****"

What the fuck—? I am so intrigued and confused by this girl

Lol she just gave me idea to use on my aqua man

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he would love it lol

Posted by boomb

Posted by lisabethur8
uh if she's not replying she is not interested in you.

there's nothing to puzzle. jeeez. i hate men like this.

Uhhhh... Thanks for reading the whole thread

jeeeez. i hate ppl who jump to conclusions like this.

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lol

just helping out

but honestly, that's what i would do, unless i really have this deep awesome connection with you in all ways you wouldnt be able to get rid of me...

otherwise.... pfft.

have a nice day.

Posted by AerialView

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by boomb

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Posted by boomb
Long story short, Tinder > swapped phone numbers > texted back and forth a few times a day > shes ignoring my texts

We were having a great conversation, she even kept telling me how she would really like to visit/have me visit which is cool. Normally I wouldn't care if someone decided to not talk to me anymore but there was a day where she didn't reply to my text for a couple of hours and sent me texts like:

"im super super sorry, ive been with my friends all day"

"i missed talking to you though"

and now it's going on to like day 3 or 4 of no replies. She's not even viewed my messages.

I'm not bothered about the fact that she isn't replying but I want to know what's happened so suddenly lol, it's just really bugging me because normally I can easily tell if something went wrong but in this case there are just no signs and I'm pretty confused

Hope everyone's having a good day!

lol typical aqua women mind games.

So she texted me yesterday night... With one single message

"Suck my p****"

What the fuck—? I am so intrigued and confused by this girl

Lol she just gave me idea to use on my aqua man

he would love it lol

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Yep he did 😁

Posted by Koniuchaa
I say, either meet up right away or move on. Reality tends to be much different than what is online

I used to always take months to meet guys. I enjoyed talking and Skyping just to see if I liked them enough to want to meet. The main reason is I hate first dates. Even if they usually go well, I’m not comfortable being in that situation and I’m always glad when the first date is over.

But then I met my current bf online and we met within 3 Days. And he’s been my only bf out of all the 15 men I’ve gone on first dates with. He’s an aqua. So where am I going with this? I guess if two people are on the same exact page, everything works out naturally?

How many more times did you text her after the first one she ignored? If we really into you we won’t ignore you, you might have scared her off. You back off and he might come running back 😂

Posted by Brittnie
How many more times did you text her after the first one she ignored? If we really into you we won’t ignore you, you might have scared her off. You back off and he might come running back 😂

No it was all pretty casual. After I last texted her I didn't text her again until she sent me a weird text last night. I've replied but I don't think she will any time soon lol.

Maybe one of her friends did it? Sounds like a really immature thing so I don't want to jump to that conclusion and honestly, it seems like she's done a complete 180 on her personality!

one min she misses talking to me the next she ignores me for days and sends me a strange text haha

Posted by boomb

Posted by Brittnie
How many more times did you text her after the first one she ignored? If we really into you we won’t ignore you, you might have scared her off. You back off and he might come running back 😂

No it was all pretty casual. After I last texted her I didn't text her again until she sent me a weird text last night. I've replied but I don't think she will any time soon lol.

Maybe one of her friends did it? Sounds like a really immature thing so I don't want to jump to that conclusion and honestly, it seems like she's done a complete 180 on her personality!

one min she misses talking to me the next she ignores me for days and sends me a strange text haha

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You’re right, it could have very well been her friends and definitely immature!

There's a good chance she is telling the truth and is just busy. Regardless, when someone doesn't respond back, the only thing you can do is go about your business. Don't let it trouble you. If she gets back to you, great. If not, it's no big deal. The last thing you want to do is scare her off by being clingy/needy. Give her the space to come back to you.

Likewise, unless an Aqua is upset with you (which doesn't seem to be the case here), just know that ghosting is in their nature. They may do this because they are busy or because they are trying to figure out their feelings for you. I've known a few Aqua women who admitted to ghosting on the guys they later started to date. Aquas are often more detached from their emotions and sometimes need a moment to sort them out.