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Help on how to deal with an Aqua ex!!
What are you? A doormat?
Geez, lady, this guy's respect for women seems to be falling in the negatives. Why focus so much of your energy and feelings on a person that so obviously will never be mature enough to give you the love you so deserve? Pushy? No. You weren't pushy, you just wanted to move forward in your relationship. I see nothing wrong with wanting to move forward. That said, he obviously wanted nothing more than what he'd already had, and he moved on. The only difference is, he kept you around for when he wanted to switch it up a bit. Keeping himself on his toes, because it's exciting. By sleeping with him, you're telling him this kind of behavior is acceptable. It's not. If he did come back to you, what makes you think that he wouldn't do the same to you? Really, ask yourself what it is about you that makes you special? To this guy? Nothing. He doesn't care about you, he cares about him, and until he grows up (which may be awhile), he won't change this pattern.
Don't wait up for him to change for you. He probably won't. I know that sounds kind of harsh, but it's reality, and reality isn't always rainbows and pixie farts. Find someone you can trust, and start respecting yourself.
Geez, lady, this guy's respect for women seems to be falling in the negatives. Why focus so much of your energy and feelings on a person that so obviously will never be mature enough to give you the love you so deserve? Pushy? No. You weren't pushy, you just wanted to move forward in your relationship. I see nothing wrong with wanting to move forward. That said, he obviously wanted nothing more than what he'd already had, and he moved on. The only difference is, he kept you around for when he wanted to switch it up a bit. Keeping himself on his toes, because it's exciting. By sleeping with him, you're telling him this kind of behavior is acceptable. It's not. If he did come back to you, what makes you think that he wouldn't do the same to you? Really, ask yourself what it is about you that makes you special? To this guy? Nothing. He doesn't care about you, he cares about him, and until he grows up (which may be awhile), he won't change this pattern.
Don't wait up for him to change for you. He probably won't. I know that sounds kind of harsh, but it's reality, and reality isn't always rainbows and pixie farts. Find someone you can trust, and start respecting yourself.
well if they're not an official item then he technically isn't cheating on her, right? christ, i think u need to let this go for now. this sounds trifling. kid stuff. he was ur first so just learn from that. during and after ur first love u realize a lot about urself when it comes to relationships. u start to figure out what u really look for in a partner. so let it go. be by urself for a long minute and get urself together. it always feels like the end of the world the 1st time around but i assure u it's not. u will love again and hopefully it will be a better experience.
of course there is always that possibility that u 2 could end up together again but i think he needs to do some growing himself. u guys really ought to be alone to get ur heads on straight. maybe take a break from each other. no contact! sometimes that works wonders. i've had to do that with a guy for a couple of months and it helped immensely.
of course there is always that possibility that u 2 could end up together again but i think he needs to do some growing himself. u guys really ought to be alone to get ur heads on straight. maybe take a break from each other. no contact! sometimes that works wonders. i've had to do that with a guy for a couple of months and it helped immensely.
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Lemme get this straight... he's cheating on Scorp with YOU and you think he shouldn't be doing it.... yet you are doing it too. Hmmm... Mkay
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