Hi. I'm new.

*checking mike* Is this thing on?

Hello, it's very nice to be here. I have been stalk... no observing the forum for a while and well then i decided well let's just join, shall we?

Now what do you get when you have a water bearer gone bad. A whirly bundle of crazy energy with the tendency to bite. That's me at the moment. So I would say this past year or two have been my worse and let me tell you nothing breeds cynicism like hard times. But otherwise and mostly I'm sweet tempered, almost optimistic and very, very charming.

Oh and I obsessively try to figure people out.

I hope to be able to meet more awesome people.

Now onto business....

Aquas do you trust your spidey senses when it comes to people that you are suspicious off? There is this class mate who was no great friend of mine during school but now, two years later he is popping up on face book all the time and I have the nasty feeling that he's baiting me or pulling my leg for laughs. He firstly took to calling me by my last name sans the last letter of it. I tell him stop it, and then later he calls me 'fried pork' which i didn't understand why until later.

Every time he pops up to chat, I feel like he's trolling, and he just irritates me. I haven't deleted him yet because i just can't point out clearly why it's bothering me. I even dropped my usual polite manner and went was very blunt with him and he was like 'Go right ahead' and the conversation was not bad yet I got the feeling that there's someone else with him laughing it up. Paranoid right? Then today we're talking about how a guy I barely know wants to buy a phone for me and I refused. He said he would have taken it, I said no way. And then he brings up a past incident where a stranger bought me food once ( no it was not poisoned and no I was not assaulted in some heinous way, you can take food from strangers just nice ones you never meet again. He eventually tell me he's just laughing at me and pulling my leg. And then he says that's not what he heard. and I ask what did he hear? (As to the incident, I was out buying lunch with two other gemini friends, guy walks up, just a smidge tipsy, orders fry pork and goes away.)

He refused to tell me what was the version that went around school. And now I want to know.

And I'm still suspicious, I feel like I'm being used for amusement. Teasing of that mode annoys me!

Anyhow do other people do this to you guys (ladies... gentlemen?)

Do you attract people who like t

Sorry. The net ran slow.. and something got left out....

What I mean to ask is... do people like to tease you?

And about my old class mate, what do you make of that? I know I should just ignore when he pops up but my politeness just doesn't allow me to do so.

hi welcome to DXP 🙂 Buckle up and hang on, it can be quite the ride!

Yes others have teased me, but that's typically because I tease as well, especially when I like someone. My motto, don't dish out what you cant take back...

As for the guy.... I would remove him tbh, he's being disrespectful towards you. There is nothing wrong with standing up for yourself and if he makes you feel poorly about yourself, time for him to go. He may have a school boy crush thou and that might be what's behind this. You guys in high school?

Oh and always listen to your spidey senses!!!

Yes, I thought it was highly disrespectful. But he hasn't said anything overtly disrespectful but now I things. There's some thing very overt about it.

But maybe I'll just see how it goes and not answer.

You how we're very reserved and put together, I have met only two people who tease for the purpose of trying to get a different response, you know fluster me. I suspect it's the Pisces species. lol

I thought it could be a crush. I should ask, maybe. When people approach me out the blue, my head goes, 'Why, why, why? Why are you talking to me?'

and yes, I'm strapped in tight.

Oh, we're at university level. He is anyhow. I'm on hiatus - gap year.

Posted by Solis0Ryne
Yes, I thought it was highly disrespectful. But he hasn't said anything overtly disrespectful but now I things. There's some thing very overt about it.

But maybe I'll just see how it goes and not answer.

You how we're very reserved and put together, I have met only two people who tease for the purpose of trying to get a different response, you know fluster me. I suspect it's the Pisces species. lol

I thought it could be a crush. I should ask, maybe. When people approach me out the blue, my head goes, 'Why, why, why? Why are you talking to me?'

To totally get you on the why, why, why thing, but I chalk that to my Scorpio placement, makes me suspicious of others LOL

you can ask if does have one, but the question to ask yourself, is he worth your energy? In the big picture of your life?

He really doesn't matter. I have a cancer ascendant and I think a Virgo placement. Like butter I need to go look at my chart again.

There must be something in the air. Ave been very frank as of late and very 'tree trunk' you.

The little things are the things that itch the most like having a pebble in my shoe. But yeah, he means nothing to my bigger picture. I don't even know him so well. OMG have I attracted another psychopath? Just exaggerating of course.

Hi and welcome! Just because someone's mean and unreadable doesn't mean they have an angle. Though whatever he might be trying seems to be working because you're obviously to the point where you have to share it with us.

Hi solis yes I do trust my instincts when I'm suspicious of people

Always trust your instincts!!! No matter what people tell you! 🙂

Posted by justagirl
hi welcome to DXP 🙂 Buckle up and hang on, it can be quite the ride!

Yes others have teased me, but that's typically because I tease as well, especially when I like someone. My motto, don't dish out what you cant take back...

As for the guy.... I would remove him tbh, he's being disrespectful towards you. There is nothing wrong with standing up for yourself and if he makes you feel poorly about yourself, time for him to go. He may have a school boy crush thou and that might be what's behind this. You guys in high school?

Oh and always listen to your spidey senses!!!

I agree with the school boy crush behavior. I always thought aquas flirted like that. They like the shock factor. The little boy who pulled your pigtails in school was probably an aqua. 🙂

Welcome SolisORyan (can I call you Solis for short?). Hope you pull up a chair and sit spell. I'm a capricorn, but I'm on this board a lot since my bf is aqua. Nice meetin' ya. Can I offer you something cold to drink?

Posted by truecap
Welcome SolisORyan (can I call you Solis for short?). Hope you pull up a chair and sit spell. I'm a capricorn, but I'm on this board a lot since my bf is aqua. Nice meetin' ya. Can I offer you something cold to drink?

Oh, yes please. Rum and coke... today is Friday :3

Haha it seems that sort of behavior riles me the most. And it intrigues me at the same time.

And it never occurred to me that I was dealing with a fellow water bearer.