aqua won't answer me

Ok so my bf is still not speaking to me so ever since the shutdown i asked is it over because to me when u disappear its a slap in the face to me after i pleaded my heart out aquas i need ur opinion do u think its over he never really answerd if we were still together or not.......

I've read your first post about this, for an aqua to go on ignoring isn't a good sign. How often have you reached out to him during this period of no contact?

Posted by sassafras
I've read your first post about this, for an aqua to go on ignoring isn't a good sign. How often have you reached out to him during this period of no contact?

been a week he answered some things he didnt completely ignore he just wont let me kno if its over or not smh i rather be told the truth then just to be left hanging

I agree, being up front in these matters is always the better option. Sadly, not everyone does so. 😢

If he has responded to you in some fashion, that's good. I believe that right now, he wants his space to figure things out. Aquarius' feel more safe when heavy emotions are not flying through the air. Its kinda like... heavy bricks being thrown about. We book it to avoid having to deal with something so dangerous. Or deploy ultra heavy armor so nothing can hurt us.

I would try to keep any conversations light and positive-- not really focusing on the relationship. Lure him out with conversations about other things, shows, news, sports, or anything you guys have in common. Pretending as if nothing happened at all. Keep this up for a few days or a week, see if you can meet up somewhere for fun. He'll open up to you once he sees you're not trying to drill information out.

If this doesn't sound like something you're up to do, you should tell HIM its over and to go stick his arm in a wood chipper.

Posted by sassafras
I agree, being up front in these matters is always the better option. Sadly, not everyone does so. 😢

If he has responded to you in some fashion, that's good. I believe that right now, he wants his space to figure things out. Aquarius' feel more safe when heavy emotions are not flying through the air. Its kinda like... heavy bricks being thrown about. We book it to avoid having to deal with something so dangerous. Or deploy ultra heavy armor so nothing can hurt us.

I would try to keep any conversations light and positive-- not really focusing on the relationship. Lure him out with conversations about other things, shows, news, sports, or anything you guys have in common. Pretending as if nothing happened at all. Keep this up for a few days or a week, see if you can meet up somewhere for fun. He'll open up to you once he sees you're not trying to drill information out.

If this doesn't sound like something you're up to do, you should tell HIM its over and to go stick his arm in a wood chipper.

lol i care about him to much for that ill wait awhile give him space to think

Just give him space, do your own thing and don't contact him. Let him come to you....just keep living the other parts of your life. Focus on work, religion, family, friends, hobbies.

If he comes back to you great.

If not, you know your answer 😢

It's over.

That's why he's not communicating with you.

Those are signs!

He probably won't tell you straight up because you can't handle it possibly.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
It's over.

That's why he's not communicating with you.

Those are signs!

He probably won't tell you straight up because you can't handle it possibly.

its fine if it is the case it wont hurt me we havent been datin that long ima capricorn I can handle it 😉

I came up with 2 reasons after heavily thinking on it : 1. Its either he was feelin me to much and he was using the argument as diversion cuz he didnt kno how to handle his emotions or 2. He has someone else .....the point is it was way to early for us to have relationships problems because we were doin so good

Yeah, you have to realize that someone who truly cares doesn't do that. When you care about someone, do you make them wonder?

It's as simple as that.

Sorry, if it sounds harsh 😢

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Sorry, if it sounds harsh 😢

No its cool

He's stringing you along till he finds someone else.

Posted by WolfMoon
He's stringing you along till he finds someone else.

😢

Ima strong person I can handle hurt I rather go thru this now then for him to treat me badly throughout the relationship I rather b single then to go thru hell just to keep it

Just don't contact him at all. I KNOW it's hard as hell but it can be done! You'll be happy in no time again 🙂 Don't be surprised if he pops up in a bit behaving as your friend...we are notorius for that..

Posted by WolfMoon
Just don't contact him at all. I KNOW it's hard as hell but it can be done! You'll be happy in no time again 🙂 Don't be surprised if he pops up in a bit behaving as your friend...we are notorius for that..

an imma treat him just like that ........n let him kno all I wanna do is f**k trust me I have many cordial guy friends I can bust his nuts wide open when he see that nothin doesnt phase me