Hope this ain't clingy?

So this aquarius guy and me, after getting really cosy 10 days back,didn't actually contact each other,only stole a smile or two in college until this Friday when I called him.I wanted to meet him and asked for the same.He said he already had plans for Saturday but he agreed for Sunday but later said he wasn't sure.I told him to tell me that night itself,whatever it was.During that convo, although we didn't talk all mushy and stuff, I did find him closer.He was all nice and sweet and also wanted me to help him get his little things done and said he'd come to meet me for the same although he had other options (like getting it done from the market which is nearer to his place than my place is 😛)That was cute.However, since I was tired,I kept the convo very short.Now,he didn't call me that night to inform, I called him up to ask,since his phone went busy,I dropped him a casual text to inform I'd called to confirm the plan and that, I was going to sleep.He texted me later that he was unsure about Sunday.Saturday and Sunday went by,no call,no text.I didn't call up to ask him either.Now,tonight,the weather was really nice and I wasn't able to control the urge to call him,I called him twice, no answer.I thought he mightve slept and dropped him a text(out of excitement) that it's insane to sleep in such a nice weather. Lol. Well,now that I'm back to being the normal me,I was wondering if I am being clingy?

Well usually when someone is constantly trying to reach out to me, I will notice every little thing, but if I'm slow to respond, that means I'm not very interested. Give him some space and let him initiate some things. If he doesn't, eh you get the picture.

Update: I just got to know he's still awake,which means he deliberately didn't answer my calls. *sigh* You know,this time around, he even confessed to me how much he likes me,that I'm an amazing girl,that he likes me for the past 3 yrs and now this,ignorance, why is he doing this? Was I actually clingy? *sigh*

Thanks velocity and FW for the insights 🙂 🙂

Let him contact you instead of you contacting him. That way you won't drive yourself crazy if he doesn't respond. Sometimes aquarius needs time to miss you.

Well,this Friday,it had been almost 8 days without contact.Do they need more space than that?

Honestly, sounds like he isn't interested and was trying to avoid having to tell you a direct no to the Sunday thing. I'd just let him alone.

Hmm,I thought we were okay enough for him to tell me a no.For the Saturday plan,when he said a no,I was like okay,no questioning, no pleading.He could have said a straight no for Sunday too.However,I can only hope this distancing is temporary and than I have not scared him away with whatever I did,which is why I'm skeptical if I was clingy.