...that something you strongly want and work hard towards it now and maybe for the last short term (couple of months) is actually a)what you really want in the long term b)what will work for you and c)is not some stubborn aqua move ( idealising everything and daydreaming) which only makes you think you're healing from a wound because you've stuck to a finished situation ? (phew that was long) In simple words I screwed with my ex but I believe I suit better with girls/people/culture from her country, so what I'm doing is saving money from my current job (quite good job and getting work experience), also doing my CCNA course (very important in the market for those knowing about IT) so that I have good chances to chase a job in her country next year and live/work there at least for a while to see how's like.
