How do you know when an Aqua guy likes you?

Question in the title really.
Is there anything aqua guys (or girls) can tell me about aqua attractions? What are they attracted to and how do they show it? They can be so friendly and open sometimes that it's hard to tell what's normal behaviour and what's not.

Thanks in advance.

I'm dating aqua man for 2 months now. How I knew he was into me? From the second we met - he was looking me straight in the eyes, smiling, LISTENING very very carefully - he remembers everything! like a sponge 🙂 Complimenting, flirting... HE said he was interested in me because of my intelligence and humor - his words 🙂 he was setting the next date before i could even think weather I LIKE HIM 🙂 I was pulling the breaks in the beginning 'cause he was too fast - like calling every day, wanting to meet - before we even kissed. He was just persistent.
Aqua man moves fast if he's certain, i hear people complaining that aquas are too aloof. This one isn't.
He did distance himself 3 times, actually 3 times for just 1 day, but we talked on those days all the time. He didn't want us to meet cause he was really sick and didn't want me to see him like that 😢
So - they are attracted to : natural beauty, intelligence, humor, originality. And he has to know what he wants. If not... 😢

Thanks. He always listens. I'm not sure about the sponge thing yet. I don't think anything's ever come up in conversation that he would have needed to remember. He does ask a lot of questions though about all sorts of things.

The thing is we're in a weird kind of situation. He runs a dance class at a school I work in once a week and I was put in to supervise. He'll talk quite randomly though and pull me into convos. The kids were talking to him about facebook while they were stretching and I was just watching but he asked if I had it and then once he saw a plane and started talking about holidays to me out of the blue. That was the weirdest because he said he wasn't going anywhere this year because he and his gf broke up (quite recently it seems) and then he started telling me how she was a control freak and how he was much happier without her.

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Hey CancerKitten- what does the rest of your chart look like?

Ascendent - Saggitarius
Sun - Cancer
Moon - Gemini
Mercury - Cancer
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Cancer
Jupiter - Aries
Saturn - Saggitarius
Uranus - Saggitarius
Neptune - Capricorn
Pluto - Scorpio

And his is:
Sun - Aqua
Moon - Aries
Merc - Cap
Venus - Cap
Mars - Scorp
Jupiter - Cap
Saturn - Scorpio
Uranus - Sag
Nptune - Cap
Pluto - Scorp

I've been seeing an Aqua for about 4 months. I'm a Sagg. How do I know he likes me? He'll hold my hand and steal kisses from me when we're out, will listen to things I tell him (and remembers). Mega flirt! We'll have late-night/early monring convos talking about anything or nothing. He's very caring but has always been that way from when I met him so I'm not sure if he's being more caring with me. He'll hold my bags and open doors for me etc. He has romantic thoughts.

He told me that I'm a down-to-earth girl that 'gets him.' And I'm caring, chilled, laid-back.

I think if he's interested he will ask loads of questions and will try to scope you out. There will be intense stares from him. In the beginning stages I did feel like I was under his microscope and being observed very closely which didn't bother me most of the time (I think it's cute) but would make me feel a little bit nervous at times because I'll know. He'll compliment you a lot. I've always tied my hair back but once when we were together I took it out and he mentioned how nice it was.

He won't open up straight away but will be friendly towards you. As time goes on he will open up more and share his thoughts. It's all about time and patience.

@LM: My mum was Aqua and my dad is Cancer. Were together 26 years. Not without problems though :-P

^ He definately asks a lot of questions. And he always looks over and smiles in the middle of doing something else. The first day we met he was showing the kids stuff and I was sitting diagonally behind him but he kept turning and smiling and came over to talk out of the blue.

Basically at this stage I just want to get to know him better. I feel really happy around him. He makes me smile and laugh a lot and he's very easy to talk to which can usually take me a while.

I'll be seeing him today so we'll see what happens.

Hey CancerKitten 🙂 From what you've wrote - it's still an acquaintance phase. like lovemermaid said - don't rush. He's scoping you.... deciding - weather you're just a friend material, close friend or something more. My guy is very observing, thoughts a lot before he acts, hates surprises, and when I surprise him in a good way, like show more affection, steal a kiss, or kiss him softly on his face for example, he just melts, and admits he's surprised, and has to take his time to contemplate 🙂)))
So, you see, even if he does like you - he needs time to think about it!! I was cooling thins down for us in the beginning and he was thankful later, cause he needed extra time to think about everything and I made that possible for him 🙂 His venus is in CAP too, like mine - which makes us SLOW and CAREFUL in the love department 🙂
If he gets more interested he'll talk to you more, and more and more 🙂 and call you 🙂 Just give it time 🙂 The more comfortable he's with you, the better 🙂
Ninjagirl is right about compliments - he'll throw them all the time, out of the blue. They notice everythig - hair, makeup, clothes, smile-weather it's a wide one, or a small one... 🙂

@ shysaggirl: I have a Cap venus too, so sometimes it takes a while for me to accept what he says to me. I'm with ya on being cautious and moving slowly in relationships...I get put off if things move too fast in the beginning stages of a relationship or friendship, like the other person isn't being genuine or real.

To be honest in the beginning stages (the 1st month especially) we never really spoke. It was all random...messages following on from the day before, unfinished discussions, not speaking for days. I was cool with it(Aqua moon)and it just meant we had more to catch up on when we did meet up. I think he was quite surprised how well I managed with the random-ness of it all and at how non-fussed I was with it all.

@CancerKitten: But yeah, I do think he's interested in you, there's something he obviously likes about you otherwise he wouldn't bother
asking all the questions, so just enjoy him and the little discussions you have and don't think too much about where things are going with it, just go with his flow.

I'm definately going with the flow. I don't get to see him much and I'd rather get to know someone first. Especially since he just got out of something serious. It's the summer holidays from school now though so I won't be seeing him that much. Maybe a little since I live right by the school and he does some summer classes. I got to spend extra time with him today because he does a class right after the one I have to supervise and they were having a competition for the kids and the kids asked if I was going to watch. So of course I did.

It's hard to describe the way he asks questions. A little more curious than casual. If we're talking about holidays and he asks if I'm going anywhere than fine but when we're not talkng about anythng and he asks where I live and stuff. Uness he's just really random. 🙂

Today I noticed that when we stand near each other he stands really close. We were watching something today and he was standing next to me so close our arms were touching. He definately didn't move away. Then we were walking out right next to eachother, touching the whole way practically leaning on each other. Maybe it's my gem/can side reading into little things but I don't do that with anyone.

aquarius taught me quality and to take time not rush I appreciate that so much now its important and right

This IS good advice. Thanks, you guys are great.
I never thought about Aqua's thinking things through that much cause they always seem so laid back but it makes sense. They are an air sign after all. Plus, Venus in Cap - That's got to take things slow.
Can anyone compare our charts? Just out of curiosity.

It's funny how impatient they are when they want something .... my BF says: It doesn't have to be always "my way" but if it's not, I'll try so hard to make it like that 🙂 . When they don't want something there's nothing you can do or say to make them change their mind 🙂 stubborn!!!
I guess that's why they contemplate as much 🙂 - they want the world on their terms... so they think about what to do to adjust everything TO them 🙂
hahahhaaa 🙂 hmmmmmmmmm.... they're sweet 🙂

Yes, it's funny how they can be...I'll message him and won't get a reply for agesss, but if I do it to him....he'll message me constantly until I respond, lol.

I just give what he dishes out, but it's weird...subconsiously we both know what we're doing back to eachother so it's like a push and pull thing, a game almost, but we also know when to stop, and be serious again without having to actually say 'Let's stop now!'

We're both deep thinkers and he mentioned to me that I'm always in my own little world (lol) but he is too and he's the only person I can actually sit in silence with for long periods of time.

All in all a nice guy and deeply sensitive once you get to that side of them.

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Posted by CancerKitten
^ He definately asks a lot of questions. And he always looks over and smiles in the middle of doing something else. The first day we met he was showing the kids stuff and I was sitting diagonally behind him but he kept turning and smiling and came over to talk out of the blue.

Basically at this stage I just want to get to know him better. I feel really happy around him. He makes me smile and laugh a lot and he's very easy to talk to which can usually take me a while.

I'll be seeing him today so we'll see what happens.

I'm not the best at evaluating charts... I would say try www.astrologycafe.com because they have like Venus Mars compatiblity reports ... I'll get the site for you later when I'm not at work 🙂


By the way, how as working with him yesterday?

Thanks. It was really good. I put most of it in an earlier post but I'll just quote it here.

It's hard to describe the way he asks questions. A little more curious than casual. If we're talking about holidays and he asks if I'm going anywhere than fine but when we're not talkng about anythng and he asks where I live and stuff. Uness he's just really random.

Today I noticed that when we stand near each other he stands really close. We were watching something today and he was standing next to me so close our arms were touching. He definately didn't move away. Then we were walking out right next to eachother, touching the whole way practically leaning on each other. Maybe it's my gem/can side reading into little things but I don't do that with anyone.

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I also noticed that when he's laughing at something the kids do (which is often) I notice him looking at me and we laugh together, like he's looking to see if I'm laughing too.

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Posted by Ninjagirl

...and deeply sensitive once you get to that side of them.

TRUE but don't tell anyone else, this is a secret lol just playing 🙂

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Lolz, I know! 🙂

CancerKitten, the answer to your original question is: 🙂 you just know 🙂 it's obvious he does like you 🙂

Just wondering, why isn't he asking you out, like on a date - something casual, like for a cup of coffee, ice cream, a walk—? What is he waiting for? I guess others can answer that better than me 🙂 I'm a sag, aquas confuse me sometimes 🙂

Me and my Aqua still haven't been on a date as such - I'm more of an 'at home' girlie, so I don't really mind but I guess it depends on the person. Some Aqua's are really outgoing and would like to scope in a social setting but with mine he seems happy to chill at mine or whatever. He has said that he wants to take me out for a romantic meal soon which is nice!

I agree with shysagggirl... he does like you 🙂 just enjoy his company!!

Posted by shysaggirl
CancerKitten, the answer to your original question is: 🙂 you just know 🙂 it's obvious he does like you 🙂

Just wondering, why isn't he asking you out, like on a date - something casual, like for a cup of coffee, ice cream, a walk—? What is he waiting for? I guess others can answer that better than me 🙂 I'm a sag, aquas confuse me sometimes 🙂

And now I want some ice cream. Thanks.

We're in a kind of awkward situation I guess. I wish we got to talk more. I guess I'm still a little shy (the cancer needs to get comfy before the gemini comes out properly). He's always busy too. He teaches a million classes and then dances in clubs most nights (which makes him sound like a pole dancer the way I wrote it). We'll see though. I have him on facebook and hopefully I can bump into him during the summer holidays sometime (only thing I'm regretting about being on holiday now)

Thanks for all your help guys. I'm just in for the long wait now. I'd love to talk to him more but it's difficult. It would be nice to have a chance to just talk to him properly for a decent length of time even online. I think I need some good luck now to make it hapoen.

So, my computer got a virus and has had to be started again from scratch. When I put msn messenger back on do you think I could add his email? I'm trying to look for the positives in my stupid computer getting a virus. I'm figuring if we can talk on there then we can have actual conversations but I could always say I just added him because it asked for a list of people from my facebook or something. I don't know. I don't have the internet (on my friends comp now) and too much time to think.

I usually stare. Trust me you'll know when I'm doing it.