how much compatibility—?

Hi,
I am leo girl with aqua rising and moon in virgo...how much the compatibility will be if the guy is aquarius with leo rising and leo moon??Just curious....(guy's rising is not confirmed but I think he said he's a leo rising..)

well...he's a friend but I am confused about the relationship...it's awkward sometimes just to talk!! Well it has a reason..When he was just an acquaintance,he was really friendly and open to talking.One day he sent me some sms abt sex which was rude...I was like...'comeon....he's not even a friend yet...' I was not comfortable with him sending me such messages and so as I am straight forward(sometimes a little too much without realising..)I sent him reply 'Please don't send me such messages' that's it...he was hurt badly..(I knew that coz our mutual friend told me)He's genuinly polite and intelligent and creative guy with quirky sence of humour and I respect him for that...but that day onwards...he stopped sending me any messages and then I talked to him about what I really meant and said sorry If he was hurt..(He really seemed hurt though...)He said ok..and after some days started sending me sms again..I was happy ..We became good friends after that but something is always wrong when we talk to each other...He wants to talk to me and does so every time he gets chance but I think he's afraid of my reaction..what if he said something wrong—well that's what I think but still I am very confused...Are aquas sentimental?? He seems to be one though...very touchy...weird combination—Help!!

One more thing to add... We friends went to a movie and it was a romantic one....Some part of the movie made me cry and he noticed and ASKED me ,'are you crying?' I just could not understand what he meant by that..was he sarcastic? or was he caring? and first of all you don't ask someone question like this if you see them crying and the reason is so obvious....and after we came out from the movie hall,he asked,'are you alright?'.......—!!!!!I said yes and smiled...what was that?

one thing i noticed about aquas ( my mom, and this girl im trying to convince to date me)that they are not very romantic, so thats why he probably didnt understand why were you crying at the movies since aquas dont have emotions like that
thats one thing i dont like about aquas, and frankly if i decide to stop pursuing this aqua girl this will be the reason
how can you be and do romantic things for someone who does not understands and appreciate?
i feel bad for aguas that they are so detached from romance

oh but that was so obvious....the reason I was crying could not be anything else...I mean how many ppl cry about other probable reasons while watching a movie? and this guy seems really sentimental..and leoaqua yes,I have not entered in a relationship with this guy but I would like to be his friend. I am not sure about the awkwardness...trying to findout the reson behind it..thanks guys...really appriciate more comments on this..

Bullshit. I am the most sensitive person I know, I just refuse to be emotionally manipulated or have emotional demands put on me. It makes me freeze. Literally. And yes I bawl at movies.

We appreciate romance. You just have to do it to where its not cliche and typical...but strangely sweet.

So you guys think he cared abt me? what would he ask such a question?? Is that mean we are comfortably friends again?

Do it really matter that he asked.

I would probably ask the question sarcastically. Im sure he knows you were crying about the movie...but to him he feels, "was it really worth crying for?" He probably chalked it up to a 'girl thing'.

Oh it really matters to me lady_m coz I am trying to figure out the friendly but awkward atmosphere when we talk 🙂 And yes it's hard to figure it out coz this guy is sometimes emotional and sometimes sarcastic..so it's always a problem trying to take in the real meaning🙂 oh by the way he called yesterday.wanted to ask something about the notes he needed and chatted for 6-7 min.

I understand what you are trying to say here class-act-aries but I think they do have romantic feelings and probably consider it a weakness so don't show it..they don't want to get emotionally manipulated so hide their feelings by cracking a joke or saying something sarcastic..I guess so coz I am aqua rising..

and if you two went to see a movie together...Im sure that means you are friends. The awkwardness wont subside unless you speak regularly and see each other more often.


What exactly are you looking for out of this with this aqua man ?

I am looking for a healthy and comfortable friendship for life !! He is a really good person...I think I have created this awkwardness between us.Because at first he was normal to me and then I sent him the sms and then he suddenly turned all polite n formal to me..I want the comfort level back.

oh and we went to a movie in a group..

How forgiving are aquariuans?Do they hold a grudge? even silently?

He's not holding a grudge. he is most likely giving you what he thinks you want.
You told him not to ever speak to you in that way...thats exactly what he;s doing.

He's being respectful of your boundaries, that you set. Its honestly what you asked for. I dont think you can get that "comfort' level that you used to have unless you initiate that sort of turn in the friendship. He;'ll be bit confused though.

thanks for your thoughtful advice lady_m....I am being really friendly with him but he still seems to be insecure about my reactions...how do you suggest I sort that out??