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krobe03 3/11/2007 10:30:44 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.135

"I am a leo woman who works with a cancer male. He approached me one morning while I was eating breakfast. He had to go so we agreed on lunch. I couldn't make the two lunch dates we agreed upon because of working. He started coming to see me on my job. He invited me to come to a club. Of, course I couldn't go when he wanted me to go so I just dropped in. When he came back to work he was upset because he said I didn't tell him I was coming. He wanted me to go out with him afterwards. I am involved in a ten year relationship with a capricorn man. I have been absolutely faithful to him from the beginning but for some reason he doesn't trust me which makes me feel insecure. Back to the cancer male, I asked him the next time could I come to the club, and he stated it was OK. When I finally saw him after 11 pm, first he played like he didn't know me then I asked him so you gonna play me like that. I slipped him my cell because my mate doesn't look into my phone. Back to my capricorn mate-at times his accusing me makes me just want to up and leave him. It becomes overbearen. So I find myself intrigued by this darn cancer. I stayed aloof from him since he played me like that at the club. I just didn't speak to him. He heard from the grapevine my situation but never confronted me. One day out of the blue he called my cell phone early am when I was still in the bed and laying next to my mate. After about a month of pure humiliation and emotional outbursts from him we started back talking. I slipped him a little cheap gift. I also called myself loaning him a little cash i didnt get back. I called him a couple times and he didn't call back. I would see him at work but still speak because I really wasn't pressed for him to speak to me cuz I felt he wasn't obligated to answer my calls. He stood me up once and then he started asking me for sex. We were supposed to hook up but since I didn't answer his call right away he started ignoring. I got offensive bcus I felt like he was direspecting and violating me. I started texting asking him to be patient and wait. Then I started text sex stuff, he called back. He also called for more money Help! Im not varnible, but I do want to support him "

Um, you are leaving a good man. You just wait and be patient. Cap men may complain and bit-- alot but you are leaving a man who will be hard and I mean REAL hard to find. You will regret it. Once a Cap man is comfortable with you, you are going to have the world. But, two earth signs will probably be bored as hell with each other. I know it is not in your nature, and I am only giving a suggestion. But, don't try to have a perfect relationship. Mess up! Go out! Be unpredictable. He will get his act together real quick and you will know he means business.

He told me he was the "party fun guy". It is hard to imagine, because he has been committed to me from the first day we been together. But, I am committment phoebic, so to all ladies who wants the "Cap" man. Be committment phoebic, and you will win his heart. Oh, and whine alot! Don't expect him to be sensitive to your feelings, but you will get what you want with a unhappy face (pretend if you must).

In my own opinion Cap men appear boring as boring can get. I thought to myself, I would try and see how the more exciting moody man was vs my Cap man. No, sexual activity, just to see the difference. NOT HAPPENING! LOL! Cap men are the best providers of the zodiac. The exciting man needs constant attention, constant emotional support, he does constant so called loyalty testing. I could name 9,000 more things you have to prove to a more exciting man than a Cap or more stable man. I will prefer the more boring man anyday

and then of course there is the message where krobe claimed to be moving in with her cancer - that was supposed to be last weekend - but that message was conveniently "hidden" and now all of a sudden krobe is supposedly the one who decided she doesn't want a arelationship......

go ahead krobe - lie your way out of this one.....everyone sees you for who you really are anyway so have a blast.....

oh incase anyone was wondering ALL of those were posts by krobe

krobe all i can say is don't give any advice cause u seem to be saying one thing doing the next. ANd i did nknow one thing you had asked me if cancer will cheat while in a relationship and specifically u said while u were with ur cap or was it libra heck i don't what guy u have. ANyways you DO NOT know cnacer men on the whole we emotional. Secondly if you are truly serious about us then you have to expect what he asked a relationship. and thirdly u lie ..alot i see that too hence i said holes in your story. Follow ur own advice be single and when u see some of ur faults then you can be comfortable cause your advice on the forum aint working for ur own self either hence you lost two fellas. ANd sometime your own pride is ur downfall.

XF!

Thanks you don't embarass me, I take pride in each and every thing I do, that is why you want men and you don't have one.

Thanks for supporting me gal, you are the bomb. A hater indeed. LOL! I want everyone to see how I attract so many haters, I LOVE your attention XF! You and LS make me feel so dayum special I don't know what to do.

Oh, and XF, but the WAY, if you want to KNOW, I decided not to move in with my Cancer because I am single. Yes, single and that is how I want it to be right now. SO, now that you are so into me, there you have it.

XF, you remind me of my ex CAP MAN, you are so possessive and so into me, that it is a STRICT turn off. Possessive people are turnoffs. That is why they get left behind.

LOVES AND KISSES XF, You are such a hater. Now, I wonder where is Notso07? And LadyScorp?

Ok, this is good for the world of DXP!

Hi, I am krobe. I have been posting on dxp since 3/11 2007. I have collected a group of haters on these boards since that time. LOL!

I used to be involved with a male, and I was casually talking to another one. I posted some advice that I have NO need to pull up for everyone on these boards to view. EVERYONE! It is JUST advice and No one has to follow ANY advice that ANYONE puts on these boards. They are for entertainment.

Now, I want everyone who comes on these boards to see how ONE person can influence hatred and jealousy inside others. This Xangelfishx lady has been following my posts. She was wondering why a Cancer male was not interested in her. I told her to not appear so easy to him. She has taken this advice, and has taken it so PERSONALLY, that I have placed a scare within her heart.

SHE DOES NOT PERSONALLY KNOW ME, She has MIXED around ALL of my stories because if I am not being consistent here, I am continually noting that I have NOT had sex with a Cancer male I met, we were just friends, but I have continued to mention at one time that I had a man. I have ALWAYS stated that.

THis is LIVING proof that people have the right to CHOOSE who they want in there LIVES whether we accept them or not. This XF is SO far stuck up in MY ass, that her and a couple other haters have posted two boards on ME! I don't OWE her, MY man, OR a CANCER man nothing. No one in LIFE owes you ANYTHING!

But, dayum look how powerful I am to INFLUENCE another person's feelings so strongly that they that much HATE inside of them, that they have to follow my posts and try to make me back track what I say and do in my life.

I hope this is a wake up call. People in LIFE don't OWE you anything, including the TRUTH. If there are alot of women on these boards who are having problems with MEN, they lie to us ALL day, and sell us dreams until there is NO return.

I LOVE HATERS!

Krobe please dont put your obvious disability to tell the truth off on the other men and women on the board...unless of course you too can post messages that show a clear inconsistancy.

No krobe the thing is you're excuse is haters,is not hate babes is dat You change ur story each time and blaming gthe guy and you give poor advice again with ur stupid pride.U can't admit u wrong and i think ur hurting because u lost two guys maybe even more than dat because of ur inconsistancy. Apparently ur hatred as well caused ur own breakup think about it. anyways more than one person sees u for who u are.

Well Sweets,

That may be the problem some of the people on here are having, I don't OWE nobody on here anything.


What I am saying is it is funny how people on these BOARDS sit up trying to criticize other people when in fact NONE of them even have a MAN at ALL and they sit up here stalking other people, and keeping up obvious commotion over NOTHING! A board.

And for You Sweets and anyone else who wants to know, I do have a Cancer friend. But, I don't OWE you that explanation.

I am not going to feed into this. I think Notso put Xangelfishx or whatever it is in her place last time, get off the boards and quit stalking other PEOPLE and riding their dicks. Including mines, and I don't even have one.

BlackKnoxx,

Who am I blaming? You? Sweets? Lady Scorp? Xangelfishx? Who else is with the crew. You don't have to answer my advice and I have not lost ANYONE, I choose my OWN path. I would prefer people who are not so personal not even commit on my advice.

Dayum, you all don't know me from adams to apples.

Krobe Im not saying you owe anyone anything, I am saying that you shouldnt accuse other people on the boards that are having problems with men of lying about their situations unless you have something to back it up. Truthfully you know I'm not one to get caught up in scandal, Im just looking at your response to what was said and how you pulled a lot of people that have nothing to do with this board into it with what I can say is surely a false charge, if not on anyone else's behalf, on my own.

I myself remember you mentioning something about messing with another guy in lieu of your Cap messing with some other chic 10 years ago and if he asked you wouldnt tell and if he does you would pass the blame to his indiscretion. You also said that you did go to lunch with your Cancer friend and clubbing so your claim that you were SO faithful and Mr.Cap got paranoid all of a sudden with no basis...is denied. Im not judging you, I'm just saying that it doesn't take hating on you, not having a man, mixing up you posts, or anything else to see that there are some inconsistencies...all it takes it reading your posts and having a moderate level of reading comprehension. It's not even a huge deal that there are inconsistencies, its really not important on the grand scale of anything. It just is and you should admit that instead of trying to find a scapegoat.

Ok Sweets,

I see what you are saying. YOU are saying I am a CHEATER! Some people have different beliefs of what cheaters are. I am not MARRIED, not unless I say " I do in holy matrimony" to my Cap man or any man for that matter, I am only human. I HAVE the right to make different choices with men and different decisions.

If you were reading my posts carefully, you would have noted that I stated that I WAS faithful to my Cap until he started accusing me of being with someone else, so since he accused me of being with someone else, YES, recently I WAS with someone else, but it is not while I was IN a relationship with him, I am single. I have the OPINION, of stating that CAP men are good men, they are good providers, they take care of home, but that does not mean that I am HAPPY in that type of situation. It is based on control and I am sure plenty of women who have been in a similiar situation will tell you, men will take good care of you, but it is under the manipulation of control. SO, if some of you would read the POST entirely, then you will not guess and assume. I am SINGLE of Cap and Cancer. I don't want to be held up with my life right now.

It is a GOOD thing I did not move forward with Cancer, I DID say that he was at a club hugged up under another woman. I know I have been saying I am single for a while now.

And again people have their OWN opinions.

I could sit up here on the boards saying that I don't think a 29 year old male should be involved with a 19 year old female or that NO one should pressure on another person to give them reassurance. BUt, NO, you are entitled to your own opinions and beliefs.

Im not saying you're a cheater, I already know we have different opinions on what a cheater is, like I said Im not judging you. I was just focusing on an inconsistency which you have seemed to clear up.

I've noticed that dxp dislikes it when threads are created with the sole intention to defame posters. He has deleted them in the past. He's my e-boyfriend. Whatever he doesn't like, I don't like.

""Krobe please dont put your obvious disability to tell the truth off on the other men and women on the board...unless of course you too can post messages that show a clear inconsistancy.""


*inability*

*inconsistency*

🙂

actually........no one is messing up your posts or whatever - those posts were in succession all in the same conversation on the cap board and all at the same time you were in HERE telling everyone that you know how to get a cancer man and you had yours under control.... THOSE messages have all conveniently been hidden

but that's okay - keep making an ass of yourself - I really enjoy just kicking back and laughing at you - thanks for the free entertainment.

Xangelfishx or whatever you are LOL! That is so funny because I wouldn't care if you feel off the face of this earth. I have NEVER went back and read ANY of your post because obviously, you are not on my mind enough. Can you sit back and laugh at that! You mean nothing to me and that is why everyone tells you, YOU HAVE a bitter stick stuck up your ass. And I CAN go and write on the Cap boards and tell other woman that Caps are good men in general. Good doesn't always mean you will be happy with it.

This is actually the second posts that you have set aside from me so it is obvious I CONTROL you just like I did LADY SCORP!

But, like you say so called astrology. Us Leo's LOVE attention, esp from HATERS!

Thank you for the corrections...i suppose SS, I doubt the overall intended message was lost but all is well that ends well

actually yes I can laugh at that - because I didn't go looking for your posts, other people pointed them out to me because they laugh at you too. It has nothing to do with controlling me - it has to do with finding your lying and backtracking and having to hide your posts absolutely hilarious.

Stop trying to turn it around on me. You asked if anyone else saw holes in your stoiry and I provided the proof - get over yourself.

I'm over me! Now, you and your crew of flies get over me.

THis is so entertaining to me. And I am sure to alot of other people who are reading this BS!

Xangelfishx, you are your crew are like maggots LOL! You find some shit and swarm around it and feed off of it, and eat it and lay in it and just swarm and swarm. Have you ever seen flies just swarm around shit ALL day. LOL!

This is how you and your crew appear. It is so funny how you ALL don't read or take my advice AT ALL let you tell it, but you ALL can go around swarming over SHIT! This is just an entertainment board. LOL! I have HURT you and your other catty groups of cookiemonsters so bad, that you are deliberately trying to call me a liar, a cheater, dishonest like you PERSONALLY know me.

Matter of fact, I have hurt you so deeply that this is the second posts that you put up on me trying to scold me. I DON'T personally know you, and I don't CARE too. I can say what I WANT on these boards whether it is a LIE or the truth. I don't Need or Desire you or your attention so stop swarming around my SHIT!

I am still amazed at how I CONTROL you and your group of flies. I don't wake up next to you everyday in the morning or sleep with you at NIGHT! I don't KNOW you or CARE if you fell off the face of this earth. RIght now! I'm am sure the women who have taken my advice and I am not going to mention the ones who really texted me are having results.

Let me give you and your groupies some good advice. Just like I picked up on this, I am sure men do to. YOu feed into shit, you are stalkers, you want to CONTROL and pressure others to feel the way you feel. NO MAN has the right to CHOOSE you. ALL you can do is be there for him and not get to wrapped up into him or his feelings. Forcing him and pressuring him will only make him withdraw and leave you. Take that advice and you may get results. LOL!

LMAO!!

is this for real?

WOW!

glad i stayed out of this one >.>. *huggles krobe*.

YAY!! Throws krobe a (((((((((((virtual hug)))))))))))

as in the words of Rodney King *slurring* Can We Jus Get Along

I don't know where you get the ridiculous idea that you control anyone. As a matter of fact if I'm just a "cookiemonster" swarming over shit then why do you feel the need to explain yourself?

You don't control me - I just don't like liars plain and simple. You are a liar and I don't have to know you personally to know that you are because when everything you say is contradictory then by default at LEAST on of the contradictions must be a lie.

You are the one who sits here name calling and making up foundationless analyses about me because you know what I am saying is true.

I haven't made any ASSUMPTIONS about you - I have commented only on what you have actually written HERE.

Honestly I just think it is sick that you tell women to go out and treat men like crap - you call this entertainment, but honestly people are going out into the REAL world and treating REAL people this way because of your advice. It's ridiculous.

If people are going to listen to your lies about how well this has all worked for you they deserve to hear the truth; which came from your OWN mouth.

Talk all the shit you want about us "young girls" but in reality we are not the ones who are in our forties and STILL playing games....

You're right about one thing - I have NO game - because games are for children and I am not a child.

there are PLENTY of holes in your stoy - you just can't stand the fact that someone pointed them out. That's all this ranting and raving of yours is.

there are PLENTY of holes in your stoy - you just can't stand the fact that someone pointed them out. That's all this ranting and raving of yours is.

LOL! I probably wanted you to point them out. That is the purpose of entertainment you fool. Now, fly away, and stop swarming all over shit. When I give HONEST advice you overlook it and tell others I don't know what I am taking about. When I LIE and tell people BS you pick up on that and swarm around it like a fly swarms around shit. That should tell you what type of person you really are.

You are an idiot just like everyone else is telling you! I could call you a liar and say that you stated that someone else pointed out my holes, now you are sitting here saying that YOU pointed them out. I could CARE less. Let me find some other things that you can point out. Let me go on ALL the boards and say something so the world of DXP can see how you are chasing this board down making yourself look like an idiot, following me around from board to board trying to find inconsistencies in someone you don't even personally know from sun up to sun down.

YOU ARE AN IDIOT! LOL!

Again I want ALL newcomers to know what my advice to women is..


Don't appear to cheap acting with men, don't call or text or hound them down like you are desperate, don't get wrapped into the intense gut feelings that you share with a man.

If you can DATE other MEN, do it, don't get your emotions and feelings wrapped up into just one human being, UNLESS you are MARRIED to him. Now, this was the HONEST truth that I gave out that was so overlooked and criticized by my swarm of flies. But, they HATE liars and when I LIE, they are the ones who feed off of my shit!

I don't NEED OR DESIRE the attention, but dayum it feels good to see people up on it. LOL!

Krobe how are you supposed to get to the point where you know you want to marry someone unless you devote your feelings to him? Sounds like you're telling people to pursue love without the risk of being with one person. Im not saying its wrong..but just out of curiosity, how many times have you been married?

"I am involved in a ten year relationship with a capricorn man. I have been absolutely faithful to him from the beginning but for some reason he doesn't trust me which makes me feel insecure."

"Back to the cancer male .. I slipped him my cell because my mate doesn't look into my phone."

"Back to my capricorn mate-at times his accusing me makes me just want to up and leave him. It becomes overbearen."



rflmao .. I needed a good laugh .. thanks !!!


"He stood me up once and then he started asking me for sex. We were supposed to hook up but since I didn't answer his call right away he started ignoring. I got offensive bcus I felt like he was direspecting and violating me. I started texting asking him to be patient and wait. Then I started text sex stuff, he called back."


Just a tad confused here .. who is it you text sex stuff to because you felt he was disrespecting and violating you .. the Cancer or Capricorn?

WOW! I can't believe I missed all that in the time i was away! That's a damn shame!

P I cant even laugh anymore, when someone starts off saying "I dont lie" then they end saying "when I lie they're the ones that eat off my sh*t"...

When you lie the first person you deceive and disrespect is yourself. Why waste time calling people names trying to pass the buck when you could have just started off admitting that you lie and saying you're proud of it? I can understand getting upset with someone calling you out on a lie, but trying to defame them when they're shining some light on what you might have thought was a closed book is...I dont even have a word for it, its stupid and its the proof that you arent proud of the fact that you lie and got called out. You don't owe anyone the truth, but you also dont owe anyone a lie...I think you think more of the people you lie to. You've taken the time to think of something, to create something, to fabricate something for people you supposedly dont owe anything to...and saying that you lied for people to find your lies and call you out...games Hun, and games are for kids, not well adjusted grown women.

To tell you the truth, I didn't read much beyond the OP and was responding from that .. and as much as I think the ignorance of krobe is hilarious, I also believe that angelfish was attempting to create band-wagoning, which I disagree with.

If krobe had started this thread, it would be open game .. so, I can only comment on the paste that was actually said by krobe in the OP, and her defense afterwards was warranted, no matter which angle(s) she has so chosen, beit honest or deceptive.

When in defense mode, we will all venture down whatever paths suit our purpose, even if they contridict how we actually feel .. hence: appears dishonest.

So, I can't comment on that and won't. My only laugh was at the actual ignorance of the OP, since this was something she said while relaying feelings of her own volition while describing a situation, and not in defense mode, which would be stilted and calculated.

Again .. it is recognized that the purpose of this thread was to create a situation in which to slant other peoples perception. And though, I find the ignorance hilarious .. it by no means slants my perception of the person, herself, for I make my own assessments according to my own observations.

I will say this..if a person/s goes out of their way, take time out of their schedules to cut and paste in qoutes what someone else said...that person/s need some serious mental/emotional help, if a person/s care that much about someone elses words then this is a true indication that that person or persons have no life and are really unhappy.

Wouldn't it be easier just to ignore that person but to go out of her way to post a thread is absolutely unhealthy, to struggle with another person means words indicates a a deep sense of sadness and anger within going on.

Nothing can be explained by the action of people taking time out of a day to go through a persons threads and pick apart what that person says...that is truly an indication of mental illness.

Why would someone give another person that much attention? It takes dedication and energy to look for previous post, honestly this isn't a real forum, none of us know one another and to take things as personal as some have is truly unhealthy.

LOL@VenusLady...girrrrrrrrl it's banana's!

Now tiki, with that I agree. I myself would have never wasted the time and I said before the story itself is irrelevant, but I have a problem with the defense that brings in a lot of people that had nothing to do with it instead of just saying "i do it" or "I dont do it" or even just not responding...

I didn't really read the defense, just skimmed .. so, you may be right, SF ..

However, I would have to agree with you in theory, eventhough, I didn't read it .. the theory being .. holding yourself accountable, if you did it, or said it, then you have to own that and stand up, without attempting to make other people responsible.

WHat a mess she is 40 for real she can say she is forty and act youngish but all i can say if u reaallllly look hard she gives advice "take or leave it" BUt she admits she lies and wonder why u get a bashing. Hmmmm and sweet fatale made a good point you a grown woman and from the time you started your"story" and u asked me some personal stuff in your e-mails i knew u wasn't serious and to come on the net to lambast and accuse and u just having a laugh kinda immature don't you think. Secondly the reason why xangelfish did it because u make scapegoats and mature people "don't say haters" U supposed to rise above that but as u continue to talk and write u expose urself more and more and i notice as well too u try to play with the newcomers head until someone reads what you said and u say u know she stating reaaaaaaal crap because even her owb \n advice falling through the cracks.As i said take it or leave it. BUt your stories are just that stories. ANd please do not krobe send me any more e-mails about your long winded stories to me cause it will fall on deaf ears now. U can tell them to the newbies but DO NOT Blame anyone but yourself.

I see your point SF but on the same note...who cares...no one is being malicious on this board, it becomes malicous when people nick pick every word a person says, do you honeslty think I care if someone on this board lies or tells the truth? Come on now, thats ludicrous, Krobe isn't the bible, she isn't Wiki, she's a person that comes on here to help, play and fight and have fun like everyone else does.

XF hardly grasp what people say, I personally have seen her go out of her way to disagree no matter how much sense a statement makes, their are a few others that are full of bullshit on this board but I will never go out of my way to fight with them, point out lies, refute what that person says, I feel it's entertaining and the rest I just ignore and move on to the next thread and find something that peaks my interest...it takes a lot of energy to focus on one person, to lash out, to pick apart words, that's insane okay.

Not everyone on here is going to agree with one another, I'm sure we have a few chronic liars on here, I'm sure we got all kinds of characters on this board and to point out statements and words is ARROGANT at best and IGNORANT at worst, people need to take the plank out of their own eye before trying to point out faults...none of us are exempt and to continue to post up threads on BS like this is absolutely insane and everytime XF creates a post she comes off as a mental case with no life.

Tiki, that was my point from get go, its largely irrelevant. I have chatted with Krobe and she knows I have no ill toward her and i always mention to her to claim what's hers...instead of trying to pass the buck. Like even if Angel is crazy for starting the thread she obviously isnt defaming the subject. So I think both people should deal with that. And Im by no means the boss of anyone so thats just my opinion...

and if we all look at the top of the screen when we're typing in a reply it says "OPINION: Submit message"...none of us are the gospel....I might hack DXP one day to make my screen say that tho "GOSPEL: Submit message" or "ABSOLUTE TRUTH: Submit Message" lol imagine that *disclaimer* this is only rhetoric*

I just hope like hell that people don't take what goes on here in dxp seriously .. this isn't real life, this is just a place for all of us to fill in time so we won't be bored.

You're right, tiki .. who cares?

Entertainment purposes ONLY! Tikki is RIGHT, whoever has the illest time to go back and look up other peoples thread to call them a liar, like i am going to meet you people one day in life are SICK!

I have no NEED or Desire to look at or reposts any ones mgs because I simple don't care. Why? THis is just a board and if you can see the only ones who are interest in lies are the ones who sit around on these boards trying to be Sherlock Holmes with nothing else in life to do.

Like I stated, it is funny how the TRUTH, stabs people in the heart and I am accused of being so degrading, unsensitive, bashful, but when i LIE about something, a group of the same flies go around buzing around shit all day. ALL DAY. And these are the people who claim my advice is NO good, and proclaim they don't listen to me or my advice.

Let's get this CLEAR once and for ALL! THis is an ENTERTAINMENT board. ANYONE on here can LIE or be HONEST! I don't OWE you the truth.

ANd BlackKnoxx, I still have posts when you posted me about the 18 year old leaving YOU for another man and I asked you why would you even be bothered with an 18 year old and you are 29. That is YOUR flavor and I could care less, that is your thing. But, YOU have been left by your woman too so don't front. I still have your posts.

Krobe: SHAME ON YOU!

P-Angel, Tiki, SF, BK and Angelfish: LET IT GO!

Yanno what V.....I think you're right. lol.

I think its funny how none of the Cancers even reply to this, except BK. If I was a Cancer I'd be like "get this bullbutter on another board"