I am Aries - She is Aquarius

okay i have similar topic with a geminie, but theres another girl i like and she is Aquarius.
How do I impress her, what do you girls like? do you like complements? do you like being called pet names like "love" "hun" "cutie" even though you have a boyfriend? how do i flirt with her if she has a boyfriend how will she feel about that? she does call me all the time and sometimes we exchange smiley faces but its not enough.. i need her to fall inlove with me because whenever shes around we just get pulled together for some reason, she is absolutely gorgeous

We like you to show respect and NOT call us pet names when we have a partner, since we also like for you to show our partner respect and not butt in.

Regardless of whether she calls you or not she has a partner.

You "need" her to fall in love with you? Fall in love with yourself first - only then will you see how much you are being an idiot for lusting after a woman based purely over her looks, particularly when she is already with someone.

You'd get a lot more respect from her if you told her to stop calling due to the fact she's with someone.

really now?

* wanders back to gem board *

nah with gem everything is good, and i dont like this one because of her looks only, she is very sweet and unique, strong, responsible, i love that about her, i love how she has her mind set on something... eh wish it was me.. but if she gave me a chance.. god she would never leave me

^ look @ his age

lol nooo i just really like the Aquarius, i cant help it.. anyway she thinks im trying to sleep with her so i told her i wasnt, and ima have a serious convo with her, she tried calling me about it but i lied that i was asleep so she hung up on me and didnt text back, think she is really pissed for no reason, i hope to catch her on tuesday and set things straight that i want to only be a good close friend who she can trust because i feel like soon her life will be EXTREMELY hard, and i just want to be there for her while her boyfriend leaves her

and stop picking on my age im smarter than most of you

boo

okay, thing is, im not type of a guy i just morally cant sleep around its against my...principals? me? i just can't fuk a girl who i like, if i like a girl i fall inlove with her.. i didnt mean to lie i just wanted to make her feel important because i woke up to talk to her, i didnt mean to lie at all, idk how that happened like im not a liar or anything.. okay ill just be very nice and nosey, ill text her right now etc., and she told me that she would never date a russian referring to me, im like half that, and not even that, so i think if she mentions that again ill tell her to throw any stereotypes out of her head..

okay so we met on tuesday in the end of the day, we didnt talk about what happened at first we got on the bus and then she asked me what i was gonna tell her, and we kindof talked about it, i fallowed my friends advise and didnt say nothing just said that i was playing and i didnt mean to upset her, and told her that i felt shitty all day because she told me not to call her and not to text her.. and she said well i have short temper if anything like this happens, and i said ill keep that in mind.. throughout i was still depressed so i was very quiet and she commented me on my hair - i cut it and it wasnt curly anymore like hers, i was in armani and stuff from top to bottom - dont even think she cares.. idk.. i like her so much wish she starts liking me before i stop..

You're probably sensing some resistance b/c she can't figure out why you like her so hard so quick. She may like you a little bit, but understand that if someone comes on to us a little TOO strong or if they seem TOO interested in us before really getting to know us, it sends up red flags & makes us question your intentions more often

It's cool & all that you love how beautiful, smart & sweet she is. BUT understand that if she's already taken, she's NOT necessarily got the best character if she's willing to leave/betray her partner for someone she barely knows.

Remember, if she'll cheat WITH you, she'll cheat ON you, persay you actually get her all to yourself. And no, I doubt you'll be the exception to that rule.

You keep saying that you "can't help it." Yes you can. She's taken. She oughta be off limits. If you like her so bad, like her ENOUGH To back off & let her come to you WHEN she's finally single & no longer off limits. THAT'S the best way you'll get her to "fall for you." Trust me.

And trust me, she's probably suspicious of you. Even if she's ok with cheating on her man, it'll be very hard for her to ever trust you after knowing that you were willing to step on another man's toes & do the wrong thing all just to get her. To a woman with values, a man whose ok with a cheater is NOT sexy, attractive or a turn on. It'll actually turn her OFF.

While it may be flattering that you're so into her this hard, it's also a turn off b/c now she knows that you'd be willing to stoop so low just to get what you want. Now she knows that you'd be willing to disrespect her relationship all just so you can be selfish & have her all to herself.

So if you ever want her to see you as long-term potential, the LAST thing you should be showing her is that you don't mind interfering with/ruining something (her relationship) SHE choose to be in & build.

Get your head out of the clouds & actually get to know this girl. What glitters isn't always gold. And hey, if after you've gotten to know her very well you notice that she's still unresistable, THEN go for it. But do your homework 1st

wow thanks that resolved a lot of questions, i see you guys are all about morals, im kinda opposite but id do anything id change.. i know that they will break up because she is moving away and he told her before that he doesnt want to be in the long distance relationship, so she called me, cried, then they met and he calmed her down and told her that they will stay together that he will visit her sometimes, personally i dont think it will work out, but ill stay in touch with her all the time and when the time is right ima get my baby