I met a Aqua guy.

He seems pretty cool, He gets me.
But I feel he gets me too much lol, Like I can't out smart Aquarius cause he knows when I do it lol.
something brothers me a little bit. We met online right we talked for a couple days he seemed cool like I said like lost aqua twins but then he was like you better take down your page on the site I don't want no other dudes talking to you, Then I was like no then he was like I'm just joking but then he says the man in me wants you take it off lol then he says he just playing but he seem serious.
Like when I go to my page his messages pops saying, He knows I'm talking to other dudes(Its true lol) but I barley met him you know lol.

Well, it's kind of hard to get a bearing on him from just that one post, but while I think he could just be joking around, my gut says "Clingy".

Well one, I DO think he's being honest when he says he wouldn't appreciate you talking to other men. Sure, he sometimes might try to "Sugar coat" or "butter up" his words when revealing his true feelings, BUT the true intent/meaning of what he's saying is still the same.

And hey, he'd have a good/valid point IF you 2 decided to be exclusive. If you 2 had made the mutual agreement to begin dating more exclusively, I could understand him being blunt about what he'd appreciate that you NOT do. BUT, he seems to be forcing his opinions on you b/c he means it, while at the same time realizing he's probably coming on too strong and/or possibly pushing you away.

If I could talk to him, I'd tell him to relax b/c technically, a woman should stop dating around when she FEELS the time is right to cease all that stuff & NOT only b/c she was "ordered" to. I think you both need to start getting to know eachother a little better. And it's essential that the main focus & topic of your communication with him doesn't start always being about your relations with other men/people. After all, he should be worrying about sweeping you off your feet; he should be SO busy trying to tickle your fancy that he won't even have the time to think about what another man might possibly be doing/saying to you.

If you're the type of gal that keeps on dating around until you are ABSOLUTELY SURE, there is nothing wrong with that, BUT atleast tell him that so that he'll know up front; and hey, how he takes that is on & up to him. But instead of entertaining the same passive/aggressive communication that he's engaging in, make yoru opinions about this kind of stuff VERY clear. And if he's not selfish, he'll hear you out & perhaps even take your advice on getting to know you better.

Hell (from his point of view) he needs to make sure that you are really worth it before he starts barking orders to you OR stop dating around himself. He may like you a little more than you like him & that's okay, BUT it's important for stuff like this to be talked about & handled now before it turns into an issue/something bigger than necessary. Just tell him how you feel. Don't scurt around the issues or try to avoid his bouts of jealousy. Be real with him

Posted by krysrenee7
Well one, I DO think he's being honest when he says he wouldn't appreciate you talking to other men. Sure, he sometimes might try to "Sugar coat" or "butter up" his words when revealing his true feelings, BUT the true intent/meaning of what he's saying is still the same.

And hey, he'd have a good/valid point IF you 2 decided to be exclusive. If you 2 had made the mutual agreement to begin dating more exclusively, I could understand him being blunt about what he'd appreciate that you NOT do. BUT, he seems to be forcing his opinions on you b/c he means it, while at the same time realizing he's probably coming on too strong and/or possibly pushing you away.

If I could talk to him, I'd tell him to relax b/c technically, a woman should stop dating around when she FEELS the time is right to cease all that stuff & NOT only b/c she was "ordered" to. I think you both need to start getting to know eachother a little better. And it's essential that the main focus & topic of your communication with him doesn't start always being about your relations with other men/people. After all, he should be worrying about sweeping you off your feet; he should be SO busy trying to tickle your fancy that he won't even have the time to think about what another man might possibly be doing/saying to you.

If you're the type of gal that keeps on dating around until you are ABSOLUTELY SURE, there is nothing wrong with that, BUT atleast tell him that so that he'll know up front; and hey, how he takes that is on & up to him. But instead of entertaining the same passive/aggressive communication that he's engaging in, make yoru opinions about this kind of stuff VERY clear. And if he's not selfish, he'll hear you out & perhaps even take your advice on getting to know you better.

Hell (from his point of view) he needs to make sure that you are really worth it before he starts barking orders to you OR stop dating around himself. He may like you a little more than you like him & that's okay, BUT it's important for stuff like this to be talked about & handled now before it turns into an issue/something bigger than necessary. Just tell him how you feel. Don't scurt around the issues or try to avoid his bouts of jealousy. Be real with him

I will, You are so right.