I still wonder if my aquarius really serious with me

He is certainly interested, seeing as he has helped you quite a bit. Just don't push him too far, he might go away.

Girlllll Keyword = PATIENCES !! Aqua man are all about taking their sweet ass time, they are good with pulling you in and out not intentionally but because that's who they are.. they work better when they take their time.. fyi I am Gemini too and I get frustrated with mines his slow persona irks me because patience for Gemini it's hard to control .. from what I've read on here basically all you need it's to let him be they take their time with everything n yes he likes you .. but if you can't handle his slow ways than tell him or walk away.. but if you decide to wait around it's probably worth the wait.. for us Gemini it's hard to believe his slow way might be worth it bcus we are so quick to just do things.

Posted by Antero
I don't know if aquarius is so helpful and very kind @theGreatSearcher.. i just dont believe in my eyes that i found him & he let me to give his work number to my kids which is teenager so my kids can come to his office when he can of course to help with their homework. He works at the biggest hospital in my city and he is the only one who do this jobb in his country. and I can't believe that he will do this to my kids in his busy schedule. I asked him why he is so kind and do all this thing. He said because he wants to help me and likes me very much and he saw that I work hard to take care my 2 kids and it's not easy as a singel mom after their lost their father and I don't have any family here in his country, dont speak the language fluently so it can be problem to help my kids with their homework. Children is more important and he loves kids. I wish I can open my eyes that it's true there is good people in this earth.

If he has done so much, then he definitely is interested. I wouldn't go out of my way to take care of someone else's children unless I had a very good reason to do so.

That's true @TheGreatSearcher.. why we care someone else children when you are not interested with that person. Thanks for your advice and I hope I'm the one for him. As he said to me one day, at least we are a friend for the rest of our life. That's a good start and how is the future, we never know.

Posted by evxo
Girlllll Keyword = PATIENCES !! Aqua man are all about taking their sweet ass time, they are good with pulling you in and out not intentionally but because that's who they are.. they work better when they take their time.. fyi I am Gemini too and I get frustrated with mines his slow persona irks me because patience for Gemini it's hard to control .. from what I've read on here basically all you need it's to let him be they take their time with everything n yes he likes you .. but if you can't handle his slow ways than tell him or walk away.. but if you decide to wait around it's probably worth the wait.. for us Gemini it's hard to believe his slow way might be worth it bcus we are so quick to just do things.

Hey @exvo when u say that Aquas pull you in and out, what do you mean by that? Are you saying that Aquas will be your "deep" friend one minute and the next they don't consider u as a deep friend?

Girl I know the feeling it's hard to read btw the lines they are good at masking how they feel and sometimes when they do express themselves they are calm n collected they come out so chill .. I guess since you taking things slow just go with the flow of things but also keep in mind how slow they are too.. let him be the one to take the lead so he won't feel pressure.. try to stay calm too knowing how bad our nerves get when things don't work on our fav lol

Posted by Antero
I knew my aquarius almost 9 months now. Can anyone in this forum tell me if he really into me for something serious or just for short time ?

How comes he met your kids, but you didn't his? What was his excuse, assuming that you asked to meet his child? If it's like...I only introduce him once I'm serious about you...you have your answer right there.

@Undine..i didnt meet his son as i never asked either as i'm not sure if he is seriously wants to be with me. I just take it easy with that. He has bad experience before with his first marriage and has one son. Than he met a women who has a daughter and they have one son together but this women dont treat well his first son and coming problem beetween him and his son and this women. So he keep the marriage but he make wrong decision as his son was really hurt as he choose that women instead his own son. After that he lost his son as his son doesnt want to meet him, he stay with his mom instead and now he is 22 and they dont have any contact as his son doesnt want it. Thats why he is worried and need to be carefull so don't make the same mistake. I guess he need to know me better before he introduce to his son. I can understand that when we both having child so we need to think about them as well. I'm serios with him that's why I don't mind he met my kids. I throw the ball on him and let him decide what he wants. He told to his son that he met me anyway. I know some kids are very easy when their parents meet someone new but some are not so easy. This women cheat on him and living with alcoholic and they got divorced. He fight on the court so he can take care his own son alone and he got it and he lives with his son alone when he was 7 until late now. And he take care his step daughter as his own daughter as her mother doenst care abt her. And he met a women but it's not work so good with his son so he stop dating for a couple of years and now he met me . By the way he works as specialist children psikolog and that's why I guess he knows how to treat a child. I don't want to push him to introduce me to his son. Let him decide when it's the right time and I'm OK with that and hope by the time flies my heart will open for him .

It's been 9 months! You need to ask to meet his son and step daughter. Just spend a few hours together doing some activity enjoyable to them.

It looks like it matters a lot to him how his GF treats his children. You need to pass this step with flying colours, before you ask if you two have long term potential.

Posted by Antero
Well he met my kids just 2 weeks ago @Undine that's why I'm not asking to meet his son as I'm afraid too that I don't past the test as he said to me it's hard to get close to his son but as long as I don't disturb his world as he is teenager , it will be fine he said. I never have a realationship with a man having child at the same age as mine. I'm nervous to meet his that's why I don't asked and I don't want to push him just let it's come out from his mouth when it's time for me to meet his.

Ah, OK. Make yourself ready then. Any Birthday party in the extended family coming soon 😉?