@pinkbird03 thank u. something bad happen to me. after he dumped me we dont have anu contact. and something bad happen to me. i was raped and abused by a few men on my way home and I was bleeding when I'm home. my daughter worried and text him and he text me and asked what is wrong. I said I am ok and he didn't believe me and he keep calling me like crazy and visited me at my place but I didn't open the door and told him to to stay away. he didn't give up and keep offering help and wanna be with me to help me. i told.him what happened and than he report my case to the police. he is with me all the time and help me to recover and find the best psykolog in town and he pay for that untill I am tottaly fine. I was confuse when he did that to me. and I asked why he cares so much and I am not his girlfriend. he said he will always be there for me what ever it is. and one night he wants to meet me and we met in town and he told me he wants to take me back and he will never let me down and he realize that he really loves me not because what was happen to me. everything was change after that. he told.me as well during a year we didn't talk so much about our relationship and after what happen to me he realize that I am a women that he can talk with as he can talk about anything. not like before and he realize it was his fault not me. he didn't believe that we can communicate and the conversation was so much better that before. and we are happy together now. follow your heart @pinkbird03 you know him better.
@pinkbird03 its remain me my relationship with an Aquarius man. we are in the same town and it takes only 30 minutes between us and we metonly once in a month and he said busy at work, parents which is old, his son travelling with work ECT ECT and we just text not calling. it's a year I had this kind of relationship and 3 times he dumped me and take me back. after tge thurd times he dumped me we had no contact at all. and one night we met and he told me that he wants to take me back and he realize how much he really cares about me and will make things better and when I asked him why his behaviour was so cold towards me for a year and he said he likes me very much and he loves me but his love to me is not in the same page as my love to him. but now he realize and feel that we are in the same page. I asked him to prove it as I need action not words. than he took me to his parent and introduce me to his son and his step daughter and we sleep together everyday, either he sleep at my place or I sleep at his place. as he said I have his heart and he will do anything I said and he did that. and now we are planning to be engage. it was so painful and hopeless for.me to deal with Aquarius man. lots of friend which is majority is women. his Facebook mostly women. I was so jealous and decided to close my Facebook as it's hurt me to see and he make a comment to other. but now not anymore. he is tottaly mine. need to be more patient to deal with an Aquarius man. let it flow once you get his heart you can turn him to be your little puppy and he will be with you all the time. that's happen to me with my Aquarius. and now we are searching for out engagement ring😊
my aqua .. after a year being so cold to me and dumped me twice, now he comes back because he realize i'm the women he wants to live with . we are not living togethers but he manages to sleep together with me everyday and he makes plan to get engage with me and getting married when my kids and his finish their junior high school. the key is be patient and when you get his heart you can control him like a little boys. and he said I'm the winner. 😊.. we are both so happy and really in love.
@AerialView... he has moon in Libra Venus in Capricorn and mars in Virgo. and I have Sun Gemini , moon Scorpio , venus and mars in taurus
i am agree woth u @compy.. aqua man is boring.. never take initiative doing something nice together or make some plan only me and me and he just following what I said. so i wonder who is the man in our relationship. what you describe is exactly how my aqua man behavior.
you were right @Senorita_LL I supposed to end it as I don't have the same feeling as I did before but sometimes my other twin said to stay with him. you Gemini has a bit difficult to decide what she wants exactly. that's I am sometimes @aquarius_man thank you for ur input
i am agree woth u @compy.. aqua man is boring.. never take initiative doing something nice together or make some plan only me and me and he just following what I said. so i wonder who is the man in our relationship. what you describe is exactly how my aqua man behavior.
you were right @Senorita_LL I supposed to end it as I don't have the same feeling as I did before but sometimes my other twin said to stay with him. you Gemini has a bit difficult to decide what she wants exactly. that's I am sometimes @aquarius_man thank you for ur input
and now he get angry so easy when he text me and i didnt text him back right away. @aquarius_man i told him to calm down why get angry for small thing. i cant answer as i am busy. he is not like this before. and before when i didnt answer his text he text me and said he really love me. now... that word i never hear . and he dont call me honey as he did before.
@AerialView.. the problem is i'm not sure he really mean it that he would like to try again with the same feeling as before. as i dont feel the same like i did before. i make a distant . @aquarius_man yeah i was clingy sometimes thats why i change my behavior by being distant with him. not telling him what i am doing if he didnt ask. thats why i wonder if there is possibility that he think like i did.
it me... gemini sun with scorpio moon and venus and mars in taurus??
does anyone can tell me how does it work to get back into a relationship again after break up with aqua man?..do they have the same feeling as before?.. my aqua told me he is not good enough for me and he can't give me as much time as I need him. thats why we broke up . i try to explain that this reason is not strong enough for me to broke up with someone that we really love. explain it in a better way. he didn't do that. I told him to think about it before it's to late. when I move on, I am not going back and will not interested either to be your friend. once it's done and it's done forever. than I ignore him for 3 days. on the 6 days after we broke up, he text me and said I have think about it and we try again our relationship. I wonder if he really mean it or he just playing his mind game. do you think he is still has the same feeling for me?.. give me some advice how to handle him so he will ever said to broke up with me and than change his mind after 6 days and only 3 days I ignore him. we had the relationship for a year. shall I act different with him after the broke up?.. I mean don't text him if he don't text me. no text for a few days and let him take the initiative. it's always me who take the initiative to meet and text when I said that.. he said it doesn't matter who take the initiatives. I don't mind at all he said. and I said I want you to be a man.. take the inniative first. he said ok.. he will try but it's not a big deal who take the initiative. he never do push and pull behaviour as I read here many aqua do that. maybe because we both are mature. thanks for any advice .
@Zuletnilibra... tell to your aqua wantvyou want it. i had a relationship with my aqua. we begin as a friend for 6 months and than he told me that he is fall in love with me. and I told him i am not in love with him.. and it takes time for me as we enjoy our friendship and I told him I want have a commited relationship so I know where i stand. he is agree and we are in commited relationship even I am not in love with him. time goes by and I fall in love with him . we love each other. yeah.. it's puzzle with aqua. but he never ignore me and never disappear from me. one day he wants to broke up with me and said I am to good for him. I told him to think about it as we know we love each other.i was hurt and unbelievable. I knew this is not what he wants. 3 days I didn't contact him. the fourth day he comes back and wanna try again the relationship and promise will never do that again. now we start a new relationship after broke up for 3 days. yes everything different now. I make a distance with him. I am afraid he will broke up again without a good reason. so i feel more stronger now. I change my behavior , I am a different person with this new relationship after 3 days broke up. I hope he will notice that.
same with my aqua.. he dumped med and said nothing wrong with me. its wrong with him. i am to good for him. i told him to think about it as we know we love each other. he keep texting me and answer me but it tooks only 5 days he texy ne and wanna try again. we would like to meet on saturday and i wanna taök aboit it seriously as i dont understand his behavior.
thsnks for ur input @HeniniGirl052388 . u were right and yes its confusing when he is the one who wants to break up n kept texting. this is the first time we broke upp for 5 days and he cone back again. i just need to be more control with my emotion this time.
well.. @InLoveWithLife @Lilyofthevalley987 @Isabeau90.. he text me a few minutes ago after I ignore him for 3 days. he asked if I am still alive. and he said he will try again with our relationship. and he told me he is afraid will.makes me disappointed as he will travel alot with his work. I told him to be more open and talk what makes him afraid so I can understand. i'm glad he come back and we are fine again. I know it won't be easy for me to have this relationship . thank you girls to give me some advice. I really appreciate it.
hahahhahs.. what do u mean by chatting my ear off 24/7 @blvckphase
how do you know when a libra man interested with you. i know him for 3 years. he is libra and i am Gemini. he is so kind and help me so much when i nees help. he keep telling me when he is working outside the city or outside the country and text me when he is on the way home. he never do this before it just happen in 2 months now. weird...
2 Days i didnt text him @lilyofthevalley987 he text my best friend and asked if i really love him ?.. as he is afraid i will leave him for another man. my friend told him. u were lucky to have her she not like any other women. but once she decide to move on.. she never turn back and u will regret.. thats what happen to all her ex. they coming back and cry like a baby. she wont take her ex. and he asked my best friend what to do. Oh my God... he is 53 years old and working as psykolog . its crazy and yes i done have so much hope. maybe u were right.. he will just use me if i take him back. i hope not of course.
he tells everything how he feels to my best friend but why he cant say that to me. so weird @Isabeau90