I'm an Aquarius and I am weird because...?

Ok, Aquarians!! Tell us what makes you considered so weird? AA meeting in session (Aquarians Anonymous) lol. The first step to accepting yourself is admitting your weird. 😉

Hi, my name is lammal23 and I have a quirk...

It's so hard for me to express myself that sometimes when people make eye contact with me and ask me a question, I get so nervous that my eyes water and it looks like I'm about to cry (but I'm not) and people wonder... "wtf? omg!" I definitely make people feel uncomfortable. I can sense it. lol

lol wow is it sad that us aquarians have to buy books on how to interact with others? lmao... so... who is the author and what is the name of the book? 😉 Thinking about googling it.

You never know your weird until someone points it out.


Most of the things wriiten here arent weird...well, except for lammal. 😛

Oh it's on Lady_M!!! lol Let's fight 😉

Score: lammal - 23
Lady_M - 0

i'm a leo and i'm weird because i have aquarius moon

am i doin' it right? 😛

lol @ skys... you're too much indeed 😛

OFA ! *hug dynamite*

My name is Airbender

my weird Aquarius quirk is that I can take what little knowledge I know on a subject and use persuasive gab to actually sound like I know my stuff. lol

oh that and I seem to act all arrogant/jerky if someone calls me out on being a nice guy.
then I almost always ruin my chances with them.

airbender - LOL teach me to look smart too. 😉 As an Aquarius, I can know quite a bit about a subject, but when it comes to presenting my knowledge... I come off as a social retard. lmao!

wow ! airbender is that your real life avatar?

my one track mind --- yea wat? 🙂

Hello..my name is aquarianbrat..and I am an aquarius with a quirk..

I too have many communication difficulties..but that may stem from aquarianism AND extreme introversion (which I am working on both..thank you very much)

I, too, am dealing interestingly enough with a scorp and have no clue what im doing..

Which leads to my first quirk..

When dealing with men I have no clue..I am soo nieve its scarey. So many times guys will say.."I have been trying to ask you out for years" and I had NO clue this person even exhisted..I mean we may have had casual conversation a time or two, or they may be a good friend of mine, but I NEVER thought they liked me. I even went so far as to ask others.. Did you know so-and-so liked me and they would be like "Yes! he has been crushing on you for years now". I had no idea, at all..What is that??

So now im liking this scorp now..which is a bit different because scorps have a way of making it clear without coming out and saying anything..that they like you..he would stare at me all night long when we worked together..to the point I was becoming very uncomfortable..but still I ignored him because I thought there was NO way this guy likes me..

Finally, he asked me out after 4 mos of staring me down every night. OMG that was freaky! So now im lost..after he asked me out I ignored him even more because I didn't know what to say..we don't work together anymore..I had to quit once he and I started hanging out outside work because it started effecting my work.

Is this common? I have even gone to the extreme of asking him to stop calling me..because I feel too much internal pressure because I don't know what to say or do. I have been reading up on aqua's and scorp's but everything I am reading says RUN! But when we are together I have more fun than I have ever had, which scares the crap out of me..what does that mean? Really I don't want to be this happy with anyone.

Please tell me other aqua's have relationship issues like this..

So, is it common for an Aqua to have social anxiety? lol

Somechick23

Good to see things are working out for this combination..how long have you been dating? I actually have been out with my scorp several times now and we chat just about everyday. The issue is im introverted and I think he may be too so our true communication is limited.

At first, was it hard for you two to communicate? Im not use to this hot and cold emotions..I need either/or. So I find myself doing things to make him jealous (then I feel bad and spend the next few days apologizing) or I told him to stop calling me 3 times already but he keeps on, which I am glad of, but we are still in this grey area..aqua's don't do grey well..im freakin out all the time.

theskys

I asked him 2x "what do you want from me". The first time he said "what do YOU want" so I told him. The second time was after one of his cold spells I was mad so I asked again and he said "nothing.. I guess". We talked it out and we actually got closer after that but I still don't know where I stand.

Somechick23

What is the best way to communicate with a scorp to get the answer I need? How should I pose the question so he understands what I am asking.

Aquas love bluntness..because we are so real. Scorps pride themselves on being brutally honest. I am realizing a lot of my close female friends are Scorps..I have like 7 birthdays from Oct 31 to Nov 12. Its crazy.

"airbender - LOL teach me to look smart too. As an Aquarius, I can know quite a bit about a subject, but when it comes to presenting my knowledge... I come off as a social retard. lmao!"


It's not that hard lammal23 I'm sure it takes practice, but I do know for a fact that people who talk slower and present their info more precise come off as more knowledgeable than the speed talking word fumbler.

zenalchemy yeah that's me, I have my moments lol jk

ooh my

Sunburnt - I remember seeing that book at Barnes and Noble before!!! Looks like I should have picked it up

airbender - yeah, I think that is my problem. I try to rush everything with a quick response. 😛

Not all of us are scary
are some scary?

OMG ..somechick23..thank u..that was so helpful really. I don't want to hurt him but I do try to make him jealous to get his attention then I back off completely and its been working fabulously. However, I know I will have to switch it up eventually. I actually did it Sat night and he txt me Sun and said he wished that I had come over last night. Im glad I didn't know that Sat night or it would have been ON.. Oh sorry..anyway..I can tell he has feelings for me that he keeps private and I am glad you put it that way because I couldn't explain certain behaviors, but I know that's it..he is very affectionate too, which I am not use to.

Is your aqua aloof? Is that why you're not together or is it you? My friend sent me a link: http://songsdomain.tripod.com/scorpioaquarius/index.html. Its funny and helpful to understanding the differences between scorps and aquas..

I don't know what I want..I guess i really just want to have fun with him like a human toy/dildo/object to experiment on..he has agreed be the above but is now holding me at arms length.. but won't let go when I try to break free from his grip..all this in a months time but I swear its the longest relationship he has had with a female. Sad but true. Scorp guys are known to be whores.

I wish the scorp board was more friendly..im lost and patience is NOT an aqua trait but being sporatic and random is😢 we also hate to be ignored when we want something..

..somechick23..hehehe! Actually, in my reading they say scorps hate to be treated like a sexual object..but then we have to remember that he is male..very georgoeus and use to women bowing at his feet..literally. We use to work together for 5 mos. and I saw it everyday. Even chicks with boyfriends did not care. He has a unique combination of friendliness, sexy, confidence mixed with a hint of humility and intensity..plus he is 6'1" with deep dimples and an amazing smile that he uses all the time..can you tell I am in the fan club?? Yeah..

Treating him like an object helps me stay detached and keep myself under control. Otherwise, I will be like all the other chicks..chasing him, calling him crying etc. He has like a three day maximum with chicks..

The reason I asked who is the distant one is bc this is where we are struggling also, we are both crazy and sporatic with the intensity then backing off..its both of our natures to do this but for different reasons. He does it because he is an introvert/shy guy who doesn't want anybody to get attached to him and doesn't want to have any real feelings for anyone. I do it bc as an aqua I can't handle too much intensity bc I know I will become dependant on it..like a leech to blood..sucking him dry.

He has told me he too does not say or do things he doesn't want to do and is very blunt. However, when it comes to feelings and decision making he not so obvious. But this is where an aqua NEEDS people to be blunt and upfront with us. Its the only way. He has been crushin on me since we started working together and told my old boss he was going to ask me out, but it took him 5 mos. to verbalize that crap into "I would like to take you out sometime". He had been sending all kind of suggestive hints, stares everyday and all that, but it wasn't until he said it that the relationship could moved past a casual hello/goodbye type deal.

Have you ever tried to come out and tell your aqua that you are interested? We play nieve until we are sure of your interest and because we have no emotional attachment its a mental game for us, nothing more, until you make your move. For me, if a guy makes an effort to ask me out, after I have tortured him for some time, I will, then make an effort toward him. Sometimes I will still give him a hard time, just to tease, but I will always make it up to him.

How long have you been dealing sexless with your aqua? I read somewhere that aqua's can have the same sexual drive as a

umm my scorp does thing all the time to push me away..and I laugh at his feable attempts to control his feelings for me. I know how most women react to him so I do exactly the opposite. Like take for instance last night shall we..so we had plans and he txt me that he is at a titty bar around the corner from his house with some big tits in his face..so I txt back.."WTF!" then he wrote me that he was bored and went there, so I txt back.."okay have fun!" he txt me a minute later that he was headed home and I was welcome to come over..so I then had to punish him I made him wait about an hour before I showed up..in the mean time he txt me.."if u don't hurry up I will go to bed"..whatever! he was just mad I made him wait. I txt back "u won't go to bed and I will see u when I get there". When I got there he wanted to talk..okay how many guys want to chat at 11pm. I wasn't trying to chat..but we spend the whole night making love, laughing and talking (mostly him). He is soooo affectionate and loves kissing me. It scares me..really how deliscious he is to my soul..but im still detached.

When I say he is my toy..I keep my distance by keeping things light and not serious..especially when it comes to sex. I think when you have a bunch of foreplay and waiting, emotions build and you have all these expectations of how good you dream it to be, then when it actually happens you're let down and dissappointed. Believe me, this is how all my relationships have gone. So this time I tried a different approach. I said.. just sex and fun ONLY. Nothing serious. He was only suppose to be my first onenight stand..(not really bc we worked together for 5 mos first) but u know what I mean..and now we are 6 weeks into it and im kind of lost because I never began a relationship out based on lust, really great sex and superficiality. But some how..we are still at it and its interesting and refreshingly complex. Supposedly scorps don't like to talk about themselves.. yeah.. not this one. That's all he does is tell me personal stuff about himself, work and his family. He has always shared personal stuff with me even when we worked together. But as far as "feelings" go..I don't know what he wants and he won't share that part with me just yet. I hope oneday he will.

Aquas don't normally like crossing boundaries. We hate deliberate drama and if he is your boss until you or he quits or moves.. the chances of him approaching you are slim even if he is interested. But the social party

some chick out there's a lil high ? 😛

lmao --- we wait for the next round...I think she's talking to some chick by Aquabrat

Ariesoul..
I don't know how to feel yet. It was suppose to be one thing that has taken a turn on me..one thing I have noticed being an aqua that I usually prepare mentally for all possible outcomes except a good one. This puts me at a disadvantage against my current opponent because he has stunned me before the games have even begun. So im trying to recoop and get my head together, but for an aqua that can take some time. Seriously..good is harder to digest than bad..bad we are use to..good is scary. So.. I dunno what to do now..he invited me to come over any Sunday and chill with him..Sunday's are his only day off and he said he usually sleeps all day. I would be honored to come over and watch him sleep hehehe!..he works 80-90+ hours a week. I told him I didn't want to take his one day off, but I was flattered to say the least..

My thing is I want to know he enjoys me as much as I am enjoying him. I can't tell and that bothers me. Is he just being nice and im just someone to fill his time with..although I know he has many options..so my answer is I dunno.. How and when do you know??

Somechick23..OMG! You had me LMAO! Hahaha! Believe me..it is so weird having fun with him like this, I just never expected it..so im just taking one day at a time. Im trying to be patient because he works so much and when I go over his house he gets so embarrased because its not perfect and he is a bit of a slob..but I don't care about that stuff, and I told him so. I don't care about the chick with her boob's in his face or the chicks at work that like him..I don't care. I think he may have been trying to make me jealous, which I kind of got a kick out of..maybe I should have played along and got all upset like I cared..dangit! Next time..

Anyway..you seem to have a bit of a temper about your aqua boss.. Lem'me tell you..I have casually dated 2 aqua men. They are very stubborn on the surface but if you ignore them and act indifferent to their need for attention they will flip out! Aqua's lurve attention..see my friend has only txt me a pic of him in his Halloween costume yesterday morning..that's all. No communication other than that..and im dying!!! but such is life. I txt him and told him I had fun last night🙂 and told him to have a good night..nothing back. Am I trippin..a little, but that is how we are..we lurve attention so the thought of a possessive scorp does not seem all that bad..but aqua's also like our space..see we like to be stalked when we have n

Hehehe!! ..you guys are funny..yes, im the poor gal..I have never known any scorp males..I need help and in some weird twisted way..im trying to be helpful..

We are opposite..she is a scorp who likes an aqua and I am an aqua who likes a scorp.

ooh ooh is it flavoured?

SC23.. Funny stuff..peace pipin it!

Well..I ignored this dude for 5 mos even though I kinda knew he was crushin on me..now im at his house kissing and such all night..I would say he knows I like him, plus I am trying to get better at "making him feel special and like a man..thing".. Im reading "Why Men Love Bitches".. Because relationship wise I just don't care anymore, but I have to keep reminding myself that he is human and has feelings too. But its hard, because my first reaction is always to end it..I know that is an aqua thing..any sign of difficulty or conflict..RUN! But that isn't going to work here I have already tried that 3 times since he first asked me out and he always finds some way to get my attention back..

Okay..I know I have to let the scorp thing go..I've just been brainwashed into believing in astrology..because its been so accurate until now..bc my scorp definitely isn't emotional or possessive .. yet anyway. He is kinda obvious with his intentions..as he offered his time on Sunday's..but its funny bc he said it so passively..in the middle of one of our sessions that night I almost forgot he said it..

I don't know. I was in a really bad marriage where I did everything for him and talk about possessive .. yeah 100% all the time, the divorce was final a year ago.. so now im dating again and its very weird to me..and I guess that's why he seems so scary. Really though..he is the most georgeous guy I've ever dated hands down and I can not believe he likes me.. seriously..I think that is the issue. I don't have low self esteem and have heard I am quite the hottie, but still have never dated a guy..who has so many good qualities..some bad..but mostly really good ones and he likes me..blows me away. That's the prooblem right there.

See I just did my own therapy/self evaluation..saved me $ 125..thank you!!

Anyway..back to you..what is this inner astrology thing..how do you figure that out? I have never heard of that. Maybe my scorp is an inner aqua too. Sometimes I wish he were a little more emotional..it would help balance me a bit.

So I am completely lost on you and your aqua..are you all dating or not? Have you been to his house and he to yours? Do you talk outside work? I was under the impression that this was your boss and nothing has happend between you. But your last post led me to believe you all are dating. What is going on? Im confused..(aqua shakes head..)

Usualcancer..
You dated a scorp for 10 years and your st

still alive to chat about it?? How was he? Was he possessive, emotional and distant then clingy??

The scorp board is full of women experiencing the above traits in their scorp and they are pissed about it..I haven't had that so the posts there are not help to me..

Why did you all break up? And now your with an Aqua..wow..are you a glutton for punishment?? Hehehe jus playin..but how is that going?

SC23.. Well said..I hope all will work out. Imma chill out maybe cut my phone off for a few days to get my head together..if I keep on like this we won't last long.

UC..its funny..my scorp talks a lot too..he was always so quiet at work..and he is hilarious too. I hope never to experience his crazy side..its actually very hard to visualize because he is so easy going and nonchalant all the time..im wondering if this is normal and soon he will flip out on me.. well I guess we will see..

We have officially blown up this post..I loved the subject though..I think most aqua's enjoy being thought of as weird..its one of our trademarks..hehe!

Good luck with your aqua's..if anything semi-interesting happens (like..he starts stalking me, tries to burn down my house, asks to marry me.. or tries to kidnap me and take me to a third world country to sell me as a sex slave)..I will post it..promise🙂 🙂 hahaha!

Airline food. I know people usually complain about this stuff, how it tastes like absolute shit and all that but for some odd reason I like it. Airline cookies taste mighty good. Maybe being all the way up in the stratosphere makes it taste better. Who knows?

Anyway, I'm an Aquarius and I'm weird because I do a lot of weird shit, talk about weird shit and make a lot of weird shit.